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do you like to be shared - 7/21/2006 3:58:30 AM

maysubgirl

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some masters/mistress like to share there slaves with other dominant friends ? as a slave/sub you like it or not?

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RE: do you like to be shared - 7/21/2006 3:59:54 AM

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No!

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RE: do you like to be shared - 7/21/2006 4:04:41 AM

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I would actually refuse to play with another man. That's not something i'm interested in.

I would consider playing with a woman, as long as she understood that she would be coming in for me, and not for my dominant.

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RE: do you like to be shared - 7/21/2006 4:33:49 AM

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I'm not shared with other men, it's not something either of us want. However I've been co-topped by Master and a female friend and that was lots of fun

I'm encouraged to play alone with other females too, whether in the lifestyle or not.

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RE: do you like to be shared - 7/21/2006 4:38:16 AM

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shared how? if you are speaking sexually, no, i would not like to be shared....with men or women. Thorns would most likely not share me in this capacity with another man, He may however want to, with another woman. He would have to be present of course, to ensure i am not armed and that i don't gut her. (one day i will get over the fact that most women are the scum at the bottom of the pond, note i did say most...not all! that is a huge step for me *chucklez*) Other than that! He may share me with another person(s) as long as it is not sexual.

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RE: do you like to be shared - 7/21/2006 5:02:08 AM

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Jim to date (five years now) has not shared me with anyone else. Now, he does have that right if he chooses to. That was discussed and agreed upon when we first got together. So to answer the question , I honestly don't know since it hasn't happend yet. But I don't think it would bother me. We do play with others and I play with another couple who live in Georgia.

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RE: do you like to be shared - 7/21/2006 5:21:57 AM

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Nope. No sharing.

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RE: do you like to be shared - 7/21/2006 6:31:10 AM

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That is one of my hard limits not to be shared. Master told me he does not share well with others. He refuses to share me with others cause if others are using me its means he is not.

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RE: do you like to be shared - 7/21/2006 7:02:34 AM

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I have been shared, not sure if "like" is the right word, but I accept it.

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RE: do you like to be shared - 7/21/2006 7:07:15 AM

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Being shared would not be good for me emotionally. Since I do not, at this time, have a Dom/Master it is a moot point.

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RE: do you like to be shared - 7/21/2006 7:11:13 AM

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Sure, I would love it!! I can never get enough anyway so the more the merrier!!!!

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RE: do you like to be shared - 7/21/2006 7:20:54 AM

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I was shared for the first time last night. Before we were D/s we did play with another couple. The male end of that couple who has since split, was brought into our play last night. This morning I find myself feeling guilty, and down. But, of course this is Daddys choice to share me, not mine. I just need to get my head straight about it aparently. I did a post about it in the general bdsm board by the way.

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RE: do you like to be shared - 7/21/2006 7:55:02 AM

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No, I am not sure that I really like to be shared, but She has twice now "given" me to a man to use. A very difficult thing for me. A huge turn on for her, and that is why it has happened, and perhaps again. I have many conflicted feelings.

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RE: do you like to be shared - 7/21/2006 8:17:56 AM

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I can say I've had fantasies about this in which I'd been totally objectified (at a pony auction, etc) but - I am not sure I'd like it in real life; my emotional reactions afterward might be more than I could handle. Not sure I want to find out, either.

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RE: do you like to be shared - 7/21/2006 8:22:34 AM

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Susan.
I agree entirely with your sentiments, that something that is a fantasy in our minds, may be totally different if actually experienced.
I have not been shared and it is not forseeable in the near future, but as the relationship is always growing and changing i cannot say that it will "never" happen as i try and keep an open mind on thing.
At this point in O/our relationship i feel it would certainly be difficult dealing with my emotions after.
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RE: do you like to be shared - 7/21/2006 8:25:49 AM

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Part of the reason I pursued a relationship with my present dom is that he expressed to me that he was not into sharing me... It is a hard limit and I will not go there.

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RE: do you like to be shared - 7/21/2006 9:54:47 AM

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I like it no matter what relationship dynamic it is.

But it's far more common for subs and slaves to not allow that particular usage or service of themselves. And since many doms do not want to use them in that particular way or for that service either, it works out fine.

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RE: do you like to be shared - 7/21/2006 10:01:31 AM

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UMM Dont think i would like to be shared but if i am with the right Woman and She got something out of it then how could i refuse?? At the end of the day without being a doormat i would do anything i could to please my partner whether Dominant or not!!

Although i think views do change quite a lot between female subs and male subs! In my limited experience male subs dont see this as a major problem while more femsubs would say this was a hard limit for them!

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RE: do you like to be shared - 7/21/2006 10:30:23 AM

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Master has the right to share me with whomever He chooses. However, I'm with smilezz when it comes to His sharing me with women - especially if He wants to hand me over to a dominant woman. I will socialize with women, but I top women. I don't bottom to them. In fact, there are very few people in general to whom I would want to bottom.

However, if He does hand me over to someone else, I'm not really serving that someone else. I'm serving Master. That's the only mindset that will allow me to "serve" anyone else. Now, if He's handing me over to someone else for sex, it had better be a male, because if it's a woman we're going to have a problem.

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RE: do you like to be shared - 7/21/2006 10:36:32 AM

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That would be a no thank you for me.

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