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ties - 7/21/2006 6:54:23 AM   
iowastud


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Status: offline 		i have a question for everybody. for the  subs/slaves what is your favorite position to be tied in and with what? for the dom/domme. what position do u like to tied them in and with what?

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RE: ties - 7/21/2006 7:58:17 AM   
Littlepita


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Status: offline 		Heck! I don't think I can pick just one. I like being tied down to our iron bed, the giant ottoman in the living room, or over the spanking bench. Ohhh and there was the back porch of the cabin we stayed in over vacation. Yummy!!! I love my cuffs, ropes, and scarves. Guess bondage is my thing huh?

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RE: ties - 7/21/2006 8:47:09 AM   
DoctorDubious


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quote:

ORIGINAL: iowastud

i have a question for everybody. for the  subs/slaves what is your favorite position to be tied in and with what? for the dom/domme. what position do u like to tied them in and with what?



Hey iowasstud..... and all...

Thrilling bondage poses
change over time,
as a relationship grows,
as trust and surrender grow...

and as the dreaded familiarity
tries in vain to corrode the freshness
of the fierce predicaments I create for my darlin'

but the common themes .... for me.... are;

prettiness of the pose & predicament
creativity
access and open-ness
adventure and daring
playfulness, public, and fun!

simplicity  ... always simplicity

helplessness

DD
PS, the helplessness of my lover
is the best kick for me, as a metaphor,
and a reminder of her erotic, spiritual surrender
which can be ... must be ...
far more binding than any mere rope or chain.

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RE: ties - 7/21/2006 12:51:17 PM   
proudsub


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Status: offline 		About all we do is spread eagle on the bed because my joints can't take much else. You can find some interesting positions on www.hogited.com, look at the "updates".

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RE: ties - 7/21/2006 3:14:38 PM   
popeye1250


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Status: offline 		I like spreadeagles on the bed as well both on the stomach and on the back with legs tied to a spreader bar and hoisted up high with a thick pillow or two under her butt. I use rope or nylon straps.Or velcro wrist and ankle cuffs with "D" rings on them.
And I tend to like positions where the female is "open and sexually available". But, a hogtie is good once in a while as well for punishment.
One thing about tying that I always try to do is to make it "comfortable", i.e. a position that she could stay in for a few hours without backaches or muscle strain .
I've seen some pretty grotesque positions in movies, magazines etc and say to myself; "Man, that has to be painfull after 10 minutes!"
If it's hurting her it's not good.

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RE: ties - 7/21/2006 5:33:09 PM   
peta


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Status: offline 		i like to be tied using my hair.  Sensual, erotic, and extremely painful at times.

peta

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RE: ties - 7/21/2006 5:44:01 PM   
popeye1250


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Status: offline 		Peta, yes, that's a nice tie too like in conjunction with a hog-tie.
I like braided hair too, good for pulling on.

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RE: ties - 7/21/2006 6:00:49 PM   
peta


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Status: offline 		The hogtie would silence even me......quite the accomplishment Popeye!!

peta

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RE: ties - 7/21/2006 6:15:22 PM   
popeye1250


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Status: offline 		Oh, that's no big deal you just do a regular hog-tie then tie the hair to a piece of rope then to the ankles on the other end.

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RE: ties - 7/21/2006 6:30:55 PM   
Sunshine119


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ORIGINAL: popeye1250

Oh, that's no big deal you just do a regular hog-tie then tie the hair to a piece of rope then to the ankles on the other end.


As a person who has hair down to her waist, I normally keep my hair braided (and up for work).  You're post caused goose-bumps.....and I don't think they are the good kind.....ouch!


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RE: ties - 7/21/2006 6:38:43 PM   
popeye1250


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Status: offline 		Sunshine, the objective to that type of a tie is not so much to "pull" on the hair but to keep the head back.
The only way it'd put tension on the hair is if you purposefully tried to push your head forward.

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RE: ties - 7/21/2006 7:53:00 PM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		I prefer him bent over a chair and wrists/ankles tied with leather restraints, this is also his favorite position. My second fav would be in the doorway with over the door restraints.

~Lashra

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RE: ties - 7/22/2006 2:00:02 AM   
thegunslinger


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Status: offline 		That DoctorDubious certainly does have a way with words, as far as my own favorite position, I'm a fan of anything involving colored rope and a bed.

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RE: ties - 7/22/2006 2:16:20 AM   
cuddleheart50


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Status: offline 		I like my wrists tied to my ankles with my ass in the air. 

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RE: ties - 7/22/2006 4:32:25 AM   
JessieMe


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quote:

ORIGINAL: popeye1250

"Man, that has to be painfull after 10 minutes!"
If it's hurting her it's not good.


<cracking up>  your kidding right??  <grins>

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RE: ties - 7/22/2006 4:47:55 AM   
wandering4u


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Status: offline 		So many choices, I guess it depends on the mood I'm in. Although, tied to a chair with her legs pulled up to her chest was rather fun for the both of us....I'll have to try it again

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RE: ties - 7/22/2006 4:59:54 AM   
Focus50


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Status: offline 		When it's just about physical control, nothing relaxes me more than the sight of girl naked and hogtied on the carpet.  Rope of course; gotta tie 'em like you mean it!!
 
Focus.

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RE: ties - 7/22/2006 5:13:15 AM   
LeatherLord2003


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Status: offline 		One of my favorites is when out of town, when at the hotel, placing her in a chair in front of the window, bind her only with thread, blindfolding her, and then leaving the room as she sits there and wonders. If the thread becomes broken, punishment is given, if the thread is not broken, the reward is of her liking. Head phones add a nice demension from time to time coupled with the blindfold, takes away another of the senses and really makes her think about the window. I prefer playing a tape I make just for the occasion where it is me talking to her about how the people might be looking at her, staring at her open legs, her heaving breasts... you get the idea. The mental aspect of it all can be quite effective. Her mind doesnt stop the whole time she sits there, and being outside allows me the oppertunity to fend off any undersirables (kids, cops, ect). When done, the command "Cum" tends to send them over the edge without a touch.  

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RE: ties - 7/22/2006 5:47:55 AM   
Darke


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Status: offline 		I've found that the "utili-track" rail system in the bed of My new Nissan rig is infinitely adjustable when I need a short (or long) break from 4 by-in' in the land behind My property.

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RE: ties - 7/22/2006 6:05:36 AM   
Littlepita


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ORIGINAL: LeatherLord2003

One of my favorites is when out of town, when at the hotel, placing her in a chair in front of the window, bind her only with thread, blindfolding her, and then leaving the room as she sits there and wonders. If the thread becomes broken, punishment is given, if the thread is not broken, the reward is of her liking. Head phones add a nice demension from time to time coupled with the blindfold, takes away another of the senses and really makes her think about the window. I prefer playing a tape I make just for the occasion where it is me talking to her about how the people might be looking at her, staring at her open legs, her heaving breasts... you get the idea. The mental aspect of it all can be quite effective. Her mind doesnt stop the whole time she sits there, and being outside allows me the oppertunity to fend off any undersirables (kids, cops, ect). When done, the command "Cum" tends to send them over the edge without a touch.  



Ooooo that is wicked!!

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