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unto the breach - 6/14/2016 6:10:30 AM

arthouse

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Hola and g'day. Here's an introduction, an exploratory probe, with the hope that I'm in the right place ... and not out of place. I'm in my early 50s (so at least not out of time), highly educated, 99% open-minded, and thoroughly attached. Male/dom/USnortheast. Over the last two decades, my submissive partner and I have explored some avenues of bdsm, through both physical play and narrative fantasies, and I'm interested in taking it further. After one day out here my sense is that many sub women are looking for in-person relationships, monogamous; I get that and I can't offer that. My hope is to explore the jungle of desire and have some fun (email, phone, etc), to make some friends, to come to a better understanding of my own reaches and limits, and to become a better dom for my partner. I know that I may be threading a needle, and apparently (based on a couple unsolicited messages I received yesterday) some women find this offensive. Okay-dokey.

A bit more: I enjoy mind-play, a woman who is verbal, creative, and understands that being submissive doesn't mean being mindlessly bossed around. I take pleasure in finding those sensitive places (in desires, in experiences, in fantasies) and massaging them, pushing them, even exploiting them for pleasure. I suppose I prefer a "nice," smart girl with a hidden dark side, or even just a dirty side.

Also: I enjoy non-bdsm conversation. So: art and music; food and drink; travel and architecture; film and literature; nature and recreation. I would say politics (I'm a lefty), but these day that's not always a bright light of reason and hope.

I'm looking for serious and fun conversation, honesty and deep desire ... not games. I welcome any interested women, particularly verbal and intellectually playful subs, to drop me a note. Otherwise, to everyone else, happy hunting and happy trails.