JeffBC -> RE: Forcedbi? (6/27/2016 8:13:41 PM)
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ORIGINAL: peppermint The word "force" was put in quotation marks because you are not being forced. In fact you seek a Mistress who will do exactly what you want her to do. It's more like you are a "do me" type submissive. A "do me" submissive is one who will do anything as long as it's what the submissive already wants to do, or what submissive can pretend in the mind that the submissive is being "forced" to do. Both are really the same thing, pretend force. I would think it would be easier to just admit to what you want. Apparently many prefer the pretend thingy rather than to face reality. Back when I was newer to all of this and, predictably, much stupider, I used to say the same thing about bondage. What's the point? If I want Carol to go stay in some position I could just tell her to do that. Why on earth would I need all the paraphernalia? After all, if I were to restrain her and she didn't want to be restrained then it's "Go directly to jail. Do not pass go. Do not collect $200." That was, in hindsight, idiocy. I think the same line of reasoning has similar merit here. As near as I can tell, pretty much all of BDSM involves some amount of faux "force".
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