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SoCalObedientMan -> Older males make better slaves (6/19/2016 12:51:26 PM)

As an older, white male submissive, I doubt that my profile is viewed by many on this site. But I also believe that older males make the best slaves for Dommes.

We are more malleable than younger men. We are more obedient. We are more easily put in and kept in permanent chastity and denied any opportunity to experience sexual release. We are more easily trained. We are more acquiescent and service oriented. We take more easily to protocols and rituals and to physical discipline, being beaten, marked, bound, confined, humiliated and kept in restraints. In many instances we are probably physically weaker than our Owners and more able to be subdued and punished in any rare moments of disobedience or resistance. We are likely to have better social skills and be more able to converse on varied topics than our younger male counterparts. Overall, we are more easily molded into slavery by our Owners to meet Their needs, wants, expectations and specifications.



ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Older males make better slaves (6/19/2016 12:57:22 PM)

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But I also believe that older males make the best slaves for Dommes.

Of course you do.



PeonForHer -> RE: Older males make better slaves (6/19/2016 2:40:41 PM)

I think I know one or two femdoms for whom all that would chime. But I also know femdoms who'll go for younger men because they think these will be more open to new things; less rigid in their minds ... that sort of thing.

Perhaps it's a case of what you lose on the swings, you win on the roundabouts. I would guess that if you're an older bloke who's kept some of his looks and his figure; gained the wisdom of years but can still be youthful of outlook ... able to *learn*, principally .... then you might just stand the best chance of all.

However, it's late, I've been drinking wine, and I could be talking bollocks. [:)]



MissKatya -> RE: Older males make better slaves (6/19/2016 4:10:49 PM)


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ORIGINAL: SoCalObedientMan

As an older, white male submissive, I doubt that my profile is viewed by many on this site. But I also believe that older males make the best slaves for Dommes.

We are more malleable than younger men. We are more obedient. We are more easily put in and kept in permanent chastity and denied any opportunity to experience sexual release. We are more easily trained. We are more acquiescent and service oriented. We take more easily to protocols and rituals and to physical discipline, being beaten, marked, bound, confined, humiliated and kept in restraints. In many instances we are probably physically weaker than our Owners and more able to be subdued and punished in any rare moments of disobedience or resistance. We are likely to have better social skills and be more able to converse on varied topics than our younger male counterparts. Overall, we are more easily molded into slavery by our Owners to meet Their needs, wants, expectations and specifications.



Sorry but I'm going to disagree on this one due to the overwhelming amount of perverted and disgusting emails/messages that come into my inbox from men that fall in the "over 65" club.





peppermint -> RE: Older males make better slaves (6/19/2016 4:53:00 PM)

Good try, however, being a slave is a matter of personality, not age.

You say older are more easily trained. Do you have some hard facts to back up this claim? Are there studies saying that older men learn faster than younger men?



PeonForHer -> RE: Older males make better slaves (6/19/2016 5:50:18 PM)

Right, well, pop goes that theory then. [:)]



FieryOpal -> RE: Older males make better slaves (6/19/2016 6:55:35 PM)

ROFLMMFAO[sm=rofl.gif]

There is no way I can take this OP seriously. Because after all, everybody knows just how easy it is to teach an old dog new tricks... NOT.

Suffice it to say, the only thing a 64-year-old slave would be better at doing, is not being able to get it up and keep it up -- IF that is what some Domme happens to want.

This would most assuredly not be a Domme named FieryOpal. [sm=ugh.gif]



ResidentSadist -> RE: Older males make better slaves (6/19/2016 9:06:18 PM)

The only measures that I count are sincerity, passion, dedication/willingness and applicable experience... not age. In the past 16 years my partners have been from 18 yo to 70 yo.




OsideGirl -> RE: Older males make better slaves (6/20/2016 12:08:11 AM)

Not that the OP is biased or anything...



LadyMirchi -> RE: Older males make better slaves (6/29/2016 9:13:36 AM)

Agreed Sister.

I get too many messages from males over 50 who have less manners and decorum than their younger counterparts.



QualityFirst -> RE: Older males make better slaves (6/30/2016 6:30:07 AM)

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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal
Suffice it to say, the only thing a 64-year-old slave would be better at doing, is not being able to get it up and keep it up

That's why my submissiveness is not between my legs, but between my ears.



DarkSteven -> RE: Older males make better slaves (6/30/2016 9:25:13 AM)

Fella, you're going about this all wrong. You're making blanket statements that aren't backed up. And throughout you're saying kinkkinkkinkkinkkink.

Do you know what women really want? They keep complaining that they get messages like, "Goddess, please find below an exhaustive list of kinks that I want to have done to me...", and they don't want kinks. Not up front anyway. They want conversation.

You're 64. You have twice as much life experience as a 32 year old and almost three times as much as a 22 year old. What are your favorite topics of discussion? List 'em in your profile.

Mistress/slave is about 95% vanilla time and 5% kinktime. Don't boast about how good you are in the 5%. Tell, calmly and confidently, how you like to spend the 95%.



HoneyBears -> RE: Older males make better slaves (6/30/2016 10:47:24 AM)

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven
Fella, you're going about this all wrong. You're making blanket statements that aren't backed up. And throughout you're saying kinkkinkkinkkinkkink.

Do you know what women really want? They keep complaining that they get messages like, "Goddess, please find below an exhaustive list of kinks that I want to have done to me...", and they don't want kinks. Not up front anyway. They want conversation.

You're 64. You have twice as much life experience as a 32 year old and almost three times as much as a 22 year old. What are your favorite topics of discussion? List 'em in your profile.

Mistress/slave is about 95% vanilla time and 5% kinktime. Don't boast about how good you are in the 5%. Tell, calmly and confidently, how you like to spend the 95%.

Interests do not display on the full profile page anymore like they always used to, and a button has to get clicked on to pull up that screen page. New members may not be aware this section exists for them to fill out, and to peruse in others' profiles.

OP, you have been here 5 years and less than 10% of the Interests you have listed are vanilla in nature. The rest is a fetish and kink shopping wish list.

As for having a submissive disposition, s-types like you and QualityFirst can proclaim that your submissiveness is not between your legs, but between your ears, when roughly 90% or more of the time, what is located between your ears actually refers to your tongue, mouth & lips, not to your mental state. [:-]

-- Lisa & Cub



QualityFirst -> RE: Older males make better slaves (7/1/2016 5:42:08 AM)

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ORIGINAL: HoneyBears
As for having a submissive disposition, s-types like you and QualityFirst can proclaim that your submissiveness is not between your legs, but between your ears, when roughly 90% or more of the time, what is located between your ears actually refers to your tongue, mouth & lips, not to your mental state.

Generalizing is always the easiest way to also bash the real submissives, isn't it?



DesFIP -> RE: Older males make better slaves (7/1/2016 5:55:28 AM)

If you really were submissive, you wouldn't have any trouble finding a partner.

It's your kink,kink,kink attitude that shows you aren't submissive.

But no skin off my nose that you are unable to learn when dommes say what they look for in a relationship and you ignore all of it. What that tells us is that you aren't interested in this for real or you would have made the changes required.



limpdickslave -> RE: Older males make better slaves (7/1/2016 7:15:23 AM)

Its absolute crap in southend so I am told.



NeckCollarWaist -> RE: Older males make better slaves (7/1/2016 10:11:56 AM)

Says who? that's right, that's what an older male would say. Younger males are easy, they want to learn, be trained.



QualityFirst -> RE: Older males make better slaves (7/1/2016 12:19:38 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

If you really were submissive, you wouldn't have any trouble finding a partner.

It's your kink,kink,kink attitude that shows you aren't submissive.

But no skin off my nose that you are unable to learn when dommes say what they look for in a relationship and you ignore all of it. What that tells us is that you aren't interested in this for real or you would have made the changes required.


Mega bullshit. What do you know about my submissiveness? Nothing at all. People who dominated me all said I am very submissive.



cloudboy -> RE: Older males make better slaves (7/1/2016 1:07:05 PM)

I wonder what you mean by "older?" As I've climbed over the 50 year threshold -- I don't find myself wanting to obey anyone as much as I want to be soulfully connected. If I had a choice between going to a movie / barbecuing in the yard v. caging or LT chastity -- I'd pick the former. I almost find myself viewing BDSM as an outsider -- I've done it and graduated into other, less salacious interests.

One thing has not changed -- a man needs to market and sell himself to find a DOMME. Generalities won't get you as far as finding out what an individual woman wants.

Like everyone in the market, women want attractive men -- so it helps to know what makes you attractive and gets others excited. What are your talents, achievements, and interests -- and how good are you at communicating and listening. This meat-and-potatoes dating-diet works better than slave-talk, promises, and BDSM jargon -- IMO.

As a woman, I might find myself questioning any older man claiming that he wanted to be a "slave." When you're older, you know that the fantasy of being a slave is much better than actually being one.

I'd be less of a wet blanket if more women were seriously interested in Domination and owning slaves -- but very few are. The dance always seems to have 15 men dancing about three chairs when the music stops. After surviving that cut -- you still have two more elimination rounds.



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