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New to this site - Seeking Dominant Females for advice ... - 6/25/2016 11:31:50 AM

PegMeDestroyMe

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Joined: 6/23/2016
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Hi all, its nice to meet you all.

I'm Jase, 29 years old. I live in London. I do have some past experience in BDSM. But I am not one of the million horny cum and run, time wasters. I am posting in the forums looking for some advice. Not expecting to meet after 1 chat.

Being new to all this in real time. I would really appreciate the chance to talk to some of you dominant women and receive some advice on how I am best going about this without insulting or frustrating people. I have noticed 90% of this site seems to require tributes. But I know how easy it is to just throw up a girls picture and make money from people like myself. So any advice on how to spot the difference would be also appreciated.

On the same note, if anyone would like to chat and have conversations. I am more than open to this. It only furthers my knowledge of this world and gives me more ideas on where my limits lie.

Currently I am extremely interested in strap on play. Edging, and cbt.

My current limits are Scat, animal play and blood.

Hope to hear from some people soon.
Jase

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RE: New to this site - Seeking Dominant Females for adv... - 6/25/2016 12:11:13 PM

peppermint

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To avoid insulting a Dominant woman, treat her as a woman, not a fetish delivery system. To meet Dominant women I'd suggest you attend your local munch. That way you can talk to Dominant women, Dominant men, submissive women, and submissive men without paying a fee at all. A munch is a social event, usually in a restaurant. It gives kinky people a place to meet and socialize with other kinky people in a safe environment. If you Google munch and London I'd bet you'd find several munches that meet near you.

Strap on play is an intimate action a woman might do with her partner. It is not normally something she would do with a stranger.

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RE: New to this site - Seeking Dominant Females for adv... - 6/25/2016 1:12:28 PM

HoneyBears

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Joined: 11/5/2013
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OP dude, sorry to break the news to you, but your choice of screen name does not help promote your cause.

It is the equivalent of signing up on a vanilla dating site with the user name of WannaFuck?

The only "women" you would not offend are the those who are only interested in making money off of you on line.

Ask yourself who exactly are you trying to attract with your photo gallery poses, because it shows you are already keen on servicing your dildo buddy.

Your words say one thing, but your actions broadcast that you have nothing special to offer a domme, nothing special to offer a woman out of a boatload of other needy, greedy, kinky and horny 29-year-old guys just like you. Fetishists are a dime a dozen.

Dominant women want submissive men who yearn to please them, not sexually objectify them (which most any woman gets exposed to anywhere and everywhere without a second thought). Non-sexual play partners are also a dime a dozen as it is, and their standards for choosing a lover are not lower than that of their vanilla peers. To presume otherwise is an affront that will get you, and all the rest of your do-me/wannabe sub counterparts, automatically thrown into the reject pile.

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