Jp2222
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Thanks remake you. Your response is the only one that has empathy to my situation.
As an example of what I am talking about with the sophistication of the person. Here is the email I just got.
Hello Sub,
I am serious about My search for a slave and would consider you further if you can follow my rules. I believe in Discipline, Humiliation and Kinks. I am a Versatile Domme of Class, Distinction & Sophistication with the experience of unparalleled Domination and alluring control. I am well versed from Sensual & Provocative to Strict & Merciless. It all depends on the understanding of my submissive and what urges I feel my submissive and I have in common. I have more than what it takes to make you my submissive because I am gifted with a wealthy knowledge and understanding of the Psychological and Physical aspects of the S/M B&D Lifestyle. I have over six years of experience as a Domme in the lifestyle. I started doing BDSM before the internet was a common way to connect with partners, when meeting people into BDSM was a much more delicate and personal affair than it is today. I do BDSM because I enjoy the physical control and sexual dominance of the submissive. Being a Mistress in control of my sub fills a need in me that nothing in the vanilla world can fill. I enjoy control of my sub with bondage, I am looking for a submissive whose desire to yield control mirrors my own desire to have control. I do not do BDSM to find my lover or change my life or fulfill all my emotional needs. I have a very good life career, social life, etc. BDSM is something unique, my play with my submissive has a special place in my life, but is not my whole life. I have an average build, very fit and trim. I keep my BDSM activities private and discreet, I am not a group or party player. After six years I have tried a lot of activities but not everything, some things I've not done because they never were to my taste. Other things I've stopped doing because they no longer are much fun for me. I know what I like, I like the rougher types of BDSM play. I have a sadistic streak for discipline; I like lots of impact instruments (whips, crops, canes) and I like to see my sub made helpless by hard bondage including gags, hoods, steel, etc.
The Domme/sub relationship is built on trust. Trust develops over time and through experience with each other. I do not expect to do hard BDSM with a new sub in the first session. The type of physical control and the "hardness" of our BDSM activities would develop as I become more familiar with my sub and our trust in each other grows. I do not subscribe to “SSC” or “Safe, Sane, and Consensual.” This phrase, “SSC,” has become formulaic in the BDSM world, a kind of mantra that people use to bless whatever it is that prefer to do or in its inverse to criticize whatever they don’t like that someone else does. I don’t think “SSC” means much. “Consensual” is the only word in this mantra that has an objective meaning. But do you seriously think most of this community agrees on what is “safe”? Is it “safe” to tie up a submissive, gag him, blindfold him and then whip him into subspace where He often cannot speak coherently? Safe? Really? Objectively? Or is it just safe because you think you are safe when you do it? Safe to set people on fire (albeit temporarily)? Safe to choke them? Safe to electroshock them? All these are common BDSM practices, and I could mention many more. And is most of what this community does objectively “sane”? The label “sane” is purely subjective. What is “sane” in one person’s opinion is wildly insane in another’s. More accurately, actions are neither sane nor insane, the sanity or insanity is in the person doing them. I agree one should play with sane people of course. Finding them requires looking for more than “SSC” on a profile, some of the persons practicing BDSM have some serious mental problems—independent of their interest in BDSM, BDSM is not a mental problem, nevertheless we must recognize that some of the people doing it are quite a mess for other reasons yet they dutifully repeat that the practice “SSC,” which shows the emptiness of the label “SSC” and its uselessness as a guide to who you should play with. I follow a somewhat different standard. I follow RACK: Risk Aware Consensual Kink, "The name is self explanatory". Both partners understand the risks of what they are doing. They consent to doing it knowing the risk, they take whatever precautions they think are appropriate. This recognizes the subjective element of judgment in what we are doing; it doesn't try to hide it behind objective sounding words like “safe” or “sane.”I do not do drugs, I have one submissive at a time. Make sure all order given by the Goddess are dully carried.
Hope to hear from you soon.
Your one and only,
Goddess A
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