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RE: Update me v fetlife and here - 6/29/2016 10:07:14 AM   
debydeb


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sorry i could not read it all ... its confusing..... write to the caretakers of fet to find your answers not here

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RE: Update me v fetlife and here - 6/30/2016 7:05:58 AM   
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I've seen this one from FL.Yes he should be banned.With the amount of disrespect for other human beings,especially women.When caretakers receive enough complaints about a person like this,they are labeled a predators,an actual offender.

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RE: Update me v fetlife and here - 6/30/2016 8:13:46 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DarkSalacious



As for you caretakers you will reply with cold hard facts






I am sure your caretakers are quite concerned.

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RE: Update me v fetlife and here - 6/30/2016 10:36:58 AM   
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strange how no-one stood with me..whoremods ..you I will exempt, barely..do you see them all now? and how not one could rebut me

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RE: Update me v fetlife and here - 6/30/2016 10:47:50 AM   
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ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire

strange how no-one stood with me..whoremods ..you I will exempt, barely..do you see them all now? and how not one could rebut me

Does the whole "I'm verified me" thing still work when you've set up a sockpuppet account?

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RE: Update me v fetlife and here - 6/30/2016 4:27:45 PM   
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ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire
strange how no-one stood with me..whoremods ..you I will exempt, barely..do you see them all now? and how not one could rebut me

You really think somebody who has had a stalker for years is going to support this kind of thing after knowing you harassed women? I didn't quite notice you refuting that little tid-bit, so you lost me on the credibility factor. As for the rest:

* No person here can contact the Carebears of Fet on your behalf. They aren't allowed to give any third party information on you, the circumstances of you being banned or anything else. It's against the privacy policy. The only exemptions are legal cases, imminent danger, copyright disputes, (and that means YOU have to have some reason to convey that you have reason to believe YOU have the copyright) etc, etc, etc.

* A person's privileges on sites is not graded on the curve. You don't get to say, "Person A did stuff that was much worse than what I did, so it's wrong that I got banned and Person A didn't". I'm guessing you got busted for your own stuff, so they based your case on you.

* You actually don't have any right to be told why you were banned. Sites have more legal protections than groups, but, if they are following the suggestions provided by NCSF for kink groups when a person has to be removed/banned from events, they recommend that you don't tell them. You should be able to find that information on the NCSF (National Coalition for Sexual Freedom) website.


ETA - Just for fun, I got this for you:

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You acknowledge and agree that BitLove may terminate your access to the FetLife or to any of the Products and Services should you fail to comply with the Terms and Conditions or any other guidelines and rules published by BitLove Any such termination shall be at BitLove’s sole discretion and may occur without prior notice, or any notice. BitLove further reserves the right to terminate any user’s access to FetLife or to any of the Products and Services for any conduct that BitLove, at its sole discretion, believes is or may be directly or indirectly harmful to other users, to BitLove or its subsidiaries, affiliates, or business contractors, or to other third parties, or for any conduct that violates any local, provincial, federal or foreign laws or regulations. BitLove further reserves the right to terminate any user’s access to FetLife or to any of the Products and Services for any reason or for no reason at all, in BitLove’s sole discretion, without prior notice, or any notice.


Bold emphasis mine, just to make sure you could see it.



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RE: Update me v fetlife and here - 6/30/2016 4:40:56 PM   
LilJuly76


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here's a good question why does WD keep making up fake profiles and than claiming he's the only real thing on the internet?

serves him right to get banned on fet or any other site.

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RE: Update me v fetlife and here - 6/30/2016 4:41:27 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: WhoreMods


quote:

ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire

strange how no-one stood with me..whoremods ..you I will exempt, barely..do you see them all now? and how not one could rebut me

Does the whole "I'm verified me" thing still work when you've set up a sockpuppet account?

I was wondering the same thing.

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RE: Update me v fetlife and here - 6/30/2016 7:17:36 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Off topic.

To the very nice gal from "Spectators Only, No Participants" who said this:

quote:

I love the lady that called him out on his bullshit for harassing women.


Thank you so much for making me smile.

How did I not know about this group?



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RE: Update me v fetlife and here - 7/1/2016 2:56:11 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Wayward5oul


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Off topic.

To the very nice gal from "Spectators Only, No Participants" who said this:

quote:

I love the lady that called him out on his bullshit for harassing women.


Thank you so much for making me smile.

How did I not know about this group?





Be glad you didn't. It's an incredibly childish environment, made for people to point fingers and snicker at others without having to actually confront them.


< Message edited by Kaliko -- 7/1/2016 2:59:38 PM >

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RE: Update me v fetlife and here - 7/1/2016 5:10:32 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: WhoreMods


quote:

ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire

strange how no-one stood with me..whoremods ..you I will exempt, barely..do you see them all now? and how not one could rebut me

Does the whole "I'm verified me" thing still work when you've set up a sockpuppet account?



I think the sock has been misplaced....


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RE: Update me v fetlife and here - 7/1/2016 7:59:38 PM   
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Spotter groups exist for people to talk without having to deal with the weird types that make those in the spotter groups want to talk about them in the first place.

I doubt there's a person on earth who, upon hearing someone say something bizarre, hasn't shared a meaningful look with a friend. Online you can't share glances, shake your head knowingly, so you do it with words.

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RE: Update me v fetlife and here - 7/1/2016 10:28:21 PM   
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I'm not in any spotter groups, I've looked at a few of them now and then and I honestly can't see what the problem is, they do no harm.

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RE: Update me v fetlife and here - 7/2/2016 1:02:52 PM   
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Consider this my last post on this one. This isn’t an anti fetlife rant btw….oh hello dizzy..sighs a sad sigh part of me actually likes you but you are lost and do not realise – and what is a spotter group
I will make this brief as.
There sites TOC are specific, to the idiots who have said otherwise.
I remember getting banned for:
Poly forum asking the two group owners if their partners new they were here…those predators group creators, they are in it for them, not the lifestyle, by no means all, group owners
And numerous other forums for asking that question, or asking the group owner…why is a liar with a fake stolen picture allowed to ask a question, or why is a cheat and liar allowed to ask a queston, or answer one and so on – that idiot in the newbie one banned me for asking that, more than a few times. And that other idiot, of no verifiable reality either in the submiisive women – which is half filled with men and liars…for point this out along with the concept of sexisms, homophobia and so on.
Or querying why 695/700 who mailed me on that place since its existence, I lost count about then and for the record that is over 99%, were cheats liars or fake..incidentally not one from scotland or the UK ever…well Ashley Madison user base is there and fabswingers plying their trade and pof and okc…oddly attached on fetlife with their other, yet strangely screeching their singleton status on singles sites…which reminds me the number of times the ones attached on fetlife, be they members, group owners,leaders and caretakerers who have approached me on a single site lying staggers me….i actually expect a bit of it but not at the rate of >99%
Or for asking why are >99% of genuine souls lives ruined…so many stores I could tell but I will not

Now, at every ban I have asked why I have been banned and met with slander. Now I asked every one of them many times I would like to debate this publically and my mails to them and theirs to me…and not one has granted me permission..yet I have granted my permission always 100 to zero roughly per forums per times out….over looking the fat those that have issued me death threats publically on their very own forums, are allowed to ply their trade, and all predators ant asking, many a time, why is there no way to filter out unverified people and what are you fetlife…caretakers group owners doing with the millions of stolen pictures that exist in your site….or will you ban me forever for asking that and because I have a disdain for them and all cheats and liars and state they make up the bulk of the site and what do they have to do with the “lifestyle”

Even those few words have cost me a wee bit of my time on this site for so little an audience where the genuine are outnumbered many times by the fake pros, scammers, and men pretending they are women, then all cheats and liars.

I spent 6 months trying to get someone to help me with my own site..takers none….IC was the best of them all a few of you will remember it.

Coallarspace is actually a lot worse than fetlife or if you prefer these words totally fuked at 99% versus 90% – albeit it I always recommend the two equally. I may be a mad olde loon with a cat problem but 90-99% pish is not good enough for me..yet it would appear tis fantastic for that 90-99%..and for the record I am cool with honest attached people – not cool with attention whorebags seeking to feed of the words of liars

Am I done on this thread of mine or not? And do you believe I was treated awesomely fairly or by liars and cheats and predators and posters who should not remotely be in any position of power

Worry not I will rejoin there and link this thread because I stand by my words to the whole site ad “team” group owners fetlife CC to john naturally yet he has never replied to any of my concerns – despite him setting up that place for those exact reasons perhaps he sickens me most of them all

As for sites…they are all plagued with the exact same problems, all the main ones. It is to much to hope for 30% of them being credible

As for this particular thread of mine, none of collarspace offered ME or anyone whose lives have been ruined anything at all wonders why

For the record on this site the last genuine person I spoke too was 3-4 years ago – from Albany..single too, strangely she was lovely and she really did make me a purple sock puppet with sparkles and a golden hat and sent it to me – what a waste of a beautiful human.

In 14 years I have never once spoken to a credible genuine person from Scotland, or the UK…just cheats liars stolen pictures an absolute 100%..but I can only speak about the women on here and the men pretending they are women on her out number then….I truly feel sorry for anyone remotely genuine on these places 2% credible is that too much to ask although I feel 30% is so much better
Who will do what do you think dear readers
ou ban me forever for asking that and because I have a disdain for them and all cheats and liars and state they make up the bulk of the site and what do they have to do with the “lifestyle”

Even those few words have cost me a wee bit of my time on this site for so little an audience where the genuine are outnumbered many times by the fake pros, scammers, and men pretending they are women, then all cheats and liars.

I spent 6 months trying to get someone to help me with my own site..takers none….IC was the best of them all a few of you will remember it.

Coallarspace is actually a lot worse than fetlife or if you prefer these words totally fuked at 99% versus 90% – albeit it I always recommend the two equally. I may be a mad olde loon with a cat problem but 90-99% pish is not good enough for me..yet it would appear tis fantastic for that 90-99%..and for the record I am cool with honest attached people – not cool with attention whorebags seeking to feed of the words of liars

Am I done on this thread of mine or not?

But as i said i am approached on other sites, usually by cheats and liars, but the odd genuine one asks what became of you

shall i go with wicked tonight dizzy and how long do you think i will last ...i could go with a made up name or stolen pictures....but that is not my way th times is 9pm I will report back and if any of you are on there copy and paste this to eg john ;)


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RE: Update me v fetlife and here - 7/2/2016 1:42:26 PM   
Wayward5oul


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I unblocked you just to see what your inane answer on this thread would be. I was not disappointed.

quote:

ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire
Am I done on this thread of mine or not? And do you believe I was treated awesomely fairly or by liars and cheats and predators and posters who should not remotely be in any position of power

I believe that in your case, you have definitely reaped what you have sown.

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RE: Update me v fetlife and here - 7/2/2016 1:54:19 PM   
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so good he had to post it twice, IN THE SAME MESSAGE:)

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RE: Update me v fetlife and here - 7/2/2016 1:59:34 PM   
Wayward5oul


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ORIGINAL: Lucylastic

so good he had to post it twice, IN THE SAME MESSAGE:)

I thought so but I didn't go back to make sure because it gives me such a headache reading his verbal vomit. Now that I unblocked him, I am seeing his other posts around the boards and am starting to get a migraine. I'm going to go do some drinking now. But definitely NOT Chardonnay.

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RE: Update me v fetlife and here - 7/2/2016 2:00:55 PM   
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If I were a drinking woman...I would go straight for the brandy.

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RE: Update me v fetlife and here - 7/2/2016 2:03:03 PM   
Lucylastic


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ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire

and yet not one of you offered my words, or anyone lives ruined or raped words you sicken me........for you two are the many (would you care to join them now whoremods?)
dig this
Caretakers <[email protected]>

Jun 28 (4 days ago)

to me
While what we wrote is below, we only see what you type above this line.
James
JUN 28, 2016 | 02:55PM PDT

Hi there,

Sorry, but you need to understand, we keep records. You knew that you were permanently banned. An email was sent to you on Aug 12th, 2015, in case #606409 telling you that you were permanently banned from FetLife. You responded to it on August 17th, 2015 – a reply which included all the prior email conversations – so you knew when and why you were permanently banned. You had multiple emails in that thread explaining why you were permanently banned – and all for your own actions. They included multiple sock puppets, violations of your time outs, and more.

We won’t be responding to any more of your emails, just deleting you as you are found, as we’ve been doing for the past year.

James

i couldnt give a flying farting squirrel about your issues over on fet, Ive been there for a long time, seen anything about you....Shrugs



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RE: Update me v fetlife and here - 7/2/2016 2:05:43 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire
and yet not one of you offered my words, or anyone lives ruined or raped words you sicken me........for you two are the many (would you care to join them now whoremods?)

Well, if that is the case, please put me on hide or something. PLEASE do so. Because now that I have unblocked you I have seen where you have taken digs at me in threads where I was not even participating. WTF?

The only reason I have not immediately put you back on hide is because it is discouraged in the ToS, unhiding someone just to post to them and then putting them right back on hide thus not giving them the opportunity to respond.

But I am about to say Fuck it, mods. They don't hardly enforce ToS around here anyway so I am not too concerned.


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