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Okay....someone TOTALLY missed the mark here!!!! - 7/10/2016 2:19:47 PM   
AtUrCervix


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Status: offline 		Local bar/restaurant....I go there nearly every day to get work done....tons of paperwork....no phones...I get a lot done....

One of the girls there is MAJOR hot....23 or so...cute as a bug (and she brings me my drinks FAST....my favorite aspect about her other than her tits, hair, smile and incredible body)...sweet kid, 5 foot nothing...as I said....major hot....she showed me some photos of her as a teen....HUUUUUGE girl...you literally look at those pictures (which I'm sure were difficult for her to show others) and for her prom (for the guy she's still with) she determined she was going to get in shape and be the "most beautiful girl in the world".....for him....and she did....lost something like 20% or more of....her (awwwww.....so....now you see why I say....she's a sweet kid....the guy was already totally in love with her but....she wanted to give that gift to him....so he would have the hottest {"HOLY SHIT!!....Did you see so and so????!!!!"} chic in the entire school)....as things go...you never know how a conversation began or evolved but this one evolved in to one where I told her about this fellow (I was a bit lit) who used to work for me....totally in love with this girl he was to marry....he...a holy roller...she...less so, but compliant, wanting to do the right thing for love (reminds me of me/my later scenario in reverse)...I'm about 5 - 7 years older than this employee...he, very good looking....potential model quality, she a bit butch/stocky but very pretty.....everything all seemed fine....he'd been with my firm for 2 years or so....one of my leads....and he comes in one day (they were a month or so away from being married), all sorrowful....."she just told me she also likes girls".

She laughed hard (my little hotty waitress). I thought it was either because she felt bad for the girl....or knew enough about men that she knew that chic could have written her own ticket....with the right guy....either way....I passed it off and went back to my docs.

And....for him....that was a deal breaker....and they (he) called it off.

We're all (on the production crew and m'se'f) thinking (natch)...."Bud....you just won the Trifecta!!!"

He of course, saw it differently.

Of course, every guy on my crew (self included) are looking up the "guy code" wondering (since he dumped her) "how soon is too soon to ask this chic out????"

(Every ONE of us was counting the days).

So....today, this waitress tells me privately....she also likes girls but her boyfriend (of 7 years....who are planning on getting married soon) says "that's not gonna fly with me".

I'm thinking....a) "that shit ain't going away" and b) "are you on CRACK son????".

Not my place to get involved...none of my damned business but....sheeeeeaaaaaat!!!!! FUUUUUCK!!!!

If I had hair, was even remotely reasonably attractive and of course....wasn't going to die in 20 or 30 years....I'd be all OVER that shit!

WTF is wrong with men today????



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RE: Okay....someone TOTALLY missed the mark here!!!! - 7/10/2016 3:28:25 PM   
ManOeuvre


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Status: offline 		AUC, I sympathize with your incredulity.

I do a little volunteer work with young men in my city, most of whom have no father in their lives. It's officially lifeskill lessons, but in reality it's anti-counselling and building a confident young man out of a slope-shouldered virgin.

Young men's incapacities to seize opportunities are only matched by their ability to miss them entirely.

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RE: Okay....someone TOTALLY missed the mark here!!!! - 7/10/2016 3:37:39 PM   
ThatDizzyChick


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Status: offline 		Just as people like what they like, people don't like what they don't like. Also a woman being bisexual does n't mean there will be automatic threesomes, the other girl get's a say as well.

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RE: Okay....someone TOTALLY missed the mark here!!!! - 7/10/2016 3:39:43 PM   
LilJuly76


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Status: offline 		I'm bi-sexual and I have only had one threesome and the guy wasn't that good

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RE: Okay....someone TOTALLY missed the mark here!!!! - 7/10/2016 3:58:18 PM   
thompsonx


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I'm bi-sexual and I have only had one threesome and the guy wasn't that good


Did you offer him any advice or did you just let him proceed to wallow in his ignorance?

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RE: Okay....someone TOTALLY missed the mark here!!!! - 7/10/2016 4:16:52 PM   
LilJuly76


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Status: offline 		he was vanilla, that's probably why I don't find vanilla guys exciting in that way. I spent today recovering from an erotic session yesterday. and yes when he asked if I would do it again I said possibly but not with you.

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RE: Okay....someone TOTALLY missed the mark here!!!! - 7/10/2016 5:17:14 PM   
Wayward5oul


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Status: offline 		The implication being that having a girlfriend that likes girls as well automatically means threesomes... yeah, no.

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RE: Okay....someone TOTALLY missed the mark here!!!! - 7/10/2016 5:36:09 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Just because she's bi doesn't mean she is automatically poly either.

I like men by that doesn't mean I have to have sex with more than one.

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RE: Okay....someone TOTALLY missed the mark here!!!! - 7/11/2016 3:15:14 AM   
LilJuly76


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Status: offline 		frankly in today's world I don't know how anyone can feel safe having sex with more than one partner at a time

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RE: Okay....someone TOTALLY missed the mark here!!!! - 7/11/2016 7:31:39 AM   
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frankly in today's world I don't know how anyone can feel safe having sex with more than one partner at a time.


Living in relatively close proximity to licensed brothels has it's advantages.

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RE: Okay....someone TOTALLY missed the mark here!!!! - 7/11/2016 4:00:21 PM   
LilJuly76


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Status: offline 		if you look at it this way sure. I was just thinking about a porn biography I just recently saw. I guess not that long ago there was someone with aids that spread it to some of the actresses and they temporarily shut down the porn industry to deal with this issue. I have been with Dominants that have had fantasy's with me with groups of people but the only way I could ever do that is if I know my life won't be put in danger, including getting something like aids.

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RE: Okay....someone TOTALLY missed the mark here!!!! - 7/15/2016 2:43:48 AM   
MizzSpitfire


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Status: offline 		Put your 3 some fantasies back in the locker, fella. A woman's bisexuality doesn't mean she's necessarily going to act on her same-sex urges, and if she does, it probably won't be for YOUR benefit.
Personally, I find men who are obsessed with 3 or more-somes to be a huge turn off. They seem immature, over eager , hugely needy. Confident, mature men who focus on me as a person rather than an avenue to other women might actually GET a 3 some. Slobbering, begging, ass sniffers never will.

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RE: Okay....someone TOTALLY missed the mark here!!!! - 7/15/2016 6:23:35 AM   
satanscharmer


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WTF is wrong with men today????


Nothing. They're monogamous. They don't want to share their partner, with anyone.

It's happened to me twice, both citing the fear I would fall in love with her and leave them.
They were probably right.
And I'm not bi.

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RE: Okay....someone TOTALLY missed the mark here!!!! - 7/15/2016 9:14:14 AM   
Awareness


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Status: offline 		I'm citing you for ellipses abuse. Clearly you've never had much time with hot girls and it's impacted your ability to construct coherent sentences.

Don't let it happen again. Putting women on a pedestal and being unable to think are steps on the way to becoming a pathetic male feminist.

(I know, I know. It's a tautology. Nevertheless... )

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RE: Okay....someone TOTALLY missed the mark here!!!! - 7/17/2016 8:31:29 AM   
kiwisub22


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Status: offline 		thank goodness someone else apparently had trouble with the original post. I tried to read it three times and still couldn't figure out what the poster was trying to say - mostly because I would get a third of the way into it and lose the will to live.
It would help if it were a little more focused.

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RE: Okay....someone TOTALLY missed the mark here!!!! - 7/17/2016 9:31:33 AM   
Spiritedsub2


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Status: offline 		Wow. I must be nuts. I had no problem with the original post but was bemused to see how far off the rails the thread went. Lookie, block the spitz asshole. Trust me.

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RE: Okay....someone TOTALLY missed the mark here!!!! - 7/17/2016 7:47:47 PM   
Awareness


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Status: offline 		For me, it was the unique combination of his stream-of-consciousness babbling combined with the fact that he was basically drooling over some chick.

I don't mind either, but in combination they lead to incoherence.

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RE: Okay....someone TOTALLY missed the mark here!!!! - 7/18/2016 2:35:41 AM   
Whiplashsmile4


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ORIGINAL: Spiritedsub2

Wow. I must be nuts. I had no problem with the original post but was bemused to see how far off the rails the thread went. Lookie, block the spitz asshole. Trust me.


Ahh it's great to see this place hasn't changed much over the years. (just saying).

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