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New dom with older sub. I need advise - 7/18/2016 4:19:45 PM   
Master2submilf


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Status: offline 		Hey I'm new to this but I've had a sub for a while. I'm looking for some advise, mentor and parties that we can go to in the jersey area.
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RE: New dom with older sub. I need advise - 7/18/2016 4:37:55 PM   
Wayward5oul


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Status: offline 		Have you tried attending lifestyle events such as munches to meet others?

Are you on Fetlife? If not, try it. And search your area for events and groups. The site is heavily used to advertise events and help locals in communities network.

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RE: New dom with older sub. I need advise - 7/18/2016 4:50:54 PM   
ThatDizzyChick


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Are you on Fetlife? If not, try it.

Fet is not accepting new members at the moment.
https://fetlife.com/users/sign_up

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RE: New dom with older sub. I need advise - 7/18/2016 4:52:51 PM   
OsideGirl


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Status: offline 		I agree, it's easiest to find events on FetLife and I'll advise that you attend everything you can - Demos, discussion groups, munches, etc.



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RE: New dom with older sub. I need advise - 7/18/2016 4:53:00 PM   
Wayward5oul


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ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick

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Are you on Fetlife? If not, try it.

Fet is not accepting new members at the moment.
https://fetlife.com/users/sign_up

You are right. I forgot about that.

Isn't there a website that tracks munches in different cities? I have seen the link posted in here before.

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RE: New dom with older sub. I need advise - 7/18/2016 4:54:51 PM   
OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: Wayward5oul

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ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick

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Are you on Fetlife? If not, try it.

Fet is not accepting new members at the moment.
https://fetlife.com/users/sign_up

You are right. I forgot about that.

Isn't there a website that tracks munches in different cities? I have seen the link posted in here before.

Oh, hell it's been ages since I've been on FetLife, I didn't know that.

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RE: New dom with older sub. I need advise - 7/18/2016 5:45:51 PM   
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RE: New dom with older sub. I need advise - 7/18/2016 6:07:11 PM   
ThatDizzyChick


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RE: New dom with older sub. I need advise - 7/18/2016 6:32:29 PM   
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Apparently it is to do with the infestation of trolls and socks. They are toying with the idea of making it an invite-only site.

There has been been issues with spammers too, posing their ads in discussion threads. Until that gets cleared up memberships are closed.

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RE: New dom with older sub. I need advise - 7/18/2016 6:40:20 PM   
ThatDizzyChick


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Status: offline 		Yeah, them too. Not sure how they are going to stop them while allowing new members though, it's pretty much impossible.

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RE: New dom with older sub. I need advise - 7/18/2016 9:35:18 PM   
DarkSteven


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ORIGINAL: Master2submilf

Hey I'm new to this but I've had a sub for a while. I'm looking for some advise, mentor and parties that we can go to in the jersey area.



Okay, saying "New Jersey" is too broad. Your sub is in Mount Laurel, so I did a quick search on the greater Philly area on Fet.

Southern NJ/Philly Munch group: https://fetlife.com/groups/2764

Greater Philadelphia Tri-State Area: https://fetlife.com/groups/18092

Rope Bite Philadelphia: https://fetlife.com/groups/6617

Good luck.




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RE: New dom with older sub. I need advise - 7/19/2016 2:50:52 PM   
Master2submilf


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Status: offline 		Thank you for the help but I can't get on fetlife. I've emailed a munch this morning but I haven't heard back. My sub is a little nervous about going to one of these meeting so I may have to find one farther from our area.

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RE: New dom with older sub. I need advise - 7/19/2016 2:52:56 PM   
OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: Master2submilf

Thank you for the help but I can't get on fetlife. I've emailed a munch this morning but I haven't heard back. My sub is a little nervous about going to one of these meeting so I may have to find one farther from our area.

Why is she nervous?

It's a bunch of people at a vanilla event that are all there for the same reason you are.

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RE: New dom with older sub. I need advise - 7/19/2016 3:59:56 PM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: Master2submilf
Thank you for the help but I can't get on fetlife. I've emailed a munch this morning but I haven't heard back. My sub is a little nervous about going to one of these meeting so I may have to find one farther from our area.

Some of the prior posters are correct. If you are not already on Fetlife, you won't be able to use the info there until they are allowing new accounts again. There's been a hold on new sign ups for the last nine days as they are attempting to control a bot problem. It shouldn't last long but I couldn't tell you how long it will be.

One quick word about the munch organizer not getting back to you yet. Give them some time. They are regular people with jobs, lives, and responsibilities just like everyone else. Not every munch organizer is on the account that they use for events all of the time, so give them a few days to send you a response.

There is a gentleman on this site by the name of PonyGroom who keeps a pretty up to date list of munches and events all over the country. He might be able to help you.

Best of luck.



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RE: New dom with older sub. I need advise - 7/19/2016 6:04:45 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		In the event that someone recognizes her and "outs" her (blows her civer), that person will be banned from future events. Outing is not taken lightly.

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RE: New dom with older sub. I need advise - 7/19/2016 6:18:07 PM   
ThatDizzyChick


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Status: offline 		Also, wouldn't somebody outing her for being at an event also be outing themselves for being at that event?

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RE: New dom with older sub. I need advise - 7/19/2016 6:51:30 PM   
OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick

Also, wouldn't somebody outing her for being at an event also be outing themselves for being at that event?

Exactly

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RE: New dom with older sub. I need advise - 7/20/2016 12:40:23 PM   
WickedsDesire


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Status: offline 		Did they not ban I, delicious wicked, many times for saying things were out of hand and complaining about the millions of stolen images they have, and all those weird men pretending they are women and pondering what cheating had to to with the lifestyle and their group owners, many , are out of hand - may with stolen pictures and on and on I go....it is just like this place and I am long on the re cord as having said that

How does one moderate a site - I've thought long and hard about it - I have no answer yet. But i would get rid of the fakes and stolen imagery and add a verification system. Did many of you people on here know this site has more men pretending they are women that actual women as does fetlife.

As for liars and cheats - you cannot moderate for those...so they are an accepted part of the system but when any sites user base resemble Ashley Madison then that is not a good thing (fabswingers (that place has a versification system-yes I knew one of the two of the original owners - she was alovely person)does and I know some of you know that site and yes they got upset when I asked what does cheating have to do with swinging)

as for JB I sent him enough mails one was do you remember why you started this site - then I had many a run in with caretakers and forum moderators - who should have never been in that position

I have been on the intent too long, perhaps I will simply vanish one day - it will be for love but at 46 time is escaping me
1, start my own site - I could not get one credible decent person to help me...I have so few true friends
2. How many more fake profiles must I observe on all off these places my mind is utterly drowned with them
3. Nowt I can do for cheats and liars and sophists
4. i have seen so many lies ruined and this occur in the majority of instances - this is not right things have to change

and make no mistake i single out no site - they could be better

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Now you tell me you mailed your local munch and they have not replied...this is very unusual...if you care to give me a link...not that i particularly believe any words you have said....i will email and may give them a bit of a row

as for this places shudders and as docstrange threaded today did anyone see naught-cinema

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