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Kinkypupper -> RE: a brand new pain lover......my massacist (help) (7/22/2006 9:37:12 AM)
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My concern with this thread is not with the OP and their knowledge level , they( you) are asking all the right questions and thats a good thing.
My question / concern is for the submissive in this relationship, How does she know what she wants, if you both are in this isolated small community- guess what its not so isolated and small and my guess is there are a lot more then just the two of you there, its just a little harder to find then looking on the surface.
Anyway my concern and issue here is what does the submissive partner want. and how do they know they want what you are giving.
A masochist they may not be. One who is kinky and wants to do "dirty" things perhaps. I think you both are trying to find out whoand what you both are and want and that indeed is a GOOD thing. but please do not use anything on her that you do not KNOW about and have tried on yourself to some extent to see the reaction of that toy. One of the worst things you can do is to do something with them and have a violently negative result that will harm both of you.
Some of the most kinky toys imaginable can be found in the kitchen, heck there are 101 things you can do with one toothpick.
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