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smkarin -> online relationship? money? (7/31/2016 6:18:51 AM)
Hi all, i'm not new to this site (i'm sub male). i just re-registered. However, it's the first time i use the forum. First, i'm wondering, should an online relationship with a Mistress/Domme be a financial one? That's, all i met for online where asking for tributes from the beginning! i understand that time is valuable for some; but shouldn't it be reasonable and on reasonable time? Second, do you think an online relation could last for long time?

OsideGirl -> RE: online relationship? money? (7/31/2016 10:05:40 AM)
Did you see the warning when you sent the email that says "DO NOT SEND MONEY"?

WickedsDesire -> RE: online relationship? money? (7/31/2016 10:08:39 AM)
do you have cake money or not..do not test I waves at OsideGirl i could get a custard cream for you

DocStrange -> RE: online relationship? money? (7/31/2016 10:47:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: smkarin Hi all, i'm not new to this site (i'm sub male). i just re-registered. However, it's the first time i use the forum. First, i'm wondering, should an online relationship with a Mistress/Domme be a financial one? That's, all i met for online where asking for tributes from the beginning! i understand that time is valuable for some; but shouldn't it be reasonable and on reasonable time? Second, do you think an online relation could last for long time? caveat emptor - Buyer beware! Save your money, go to a local munch, meet real people in person. The only money that will cost you is gas money to get there and the price of a meal. Real people discussions are priceless and don't cost you any money.

smkarin -> RE: online relationship? money? (8/1/2016 5:08:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl Did you see the warning when you sent the email that says "DO NOT SEND MONEY"? Yes i saw it. i'm asking in general about the online relationship. quote: ORIGINAL: DocStrange Save your money, go to a local munch, meet real people in person. The only money that will cost you is gas money to get there and the price of a meal. Real people discussions are priceless and don't cost you any money. Thank you. i think this is what i should do.. However, general discussion might not fulfill the need inside a submissive. It might be good though to forget about it!

LilJuly76 -> RE: online relationship? money? (8/1/2016 5:42:59 AM)
oh man you can not have a BDSM or D/s relationship online, you go to munches, or events in your area you might actually meet lifestylers instead of hooking up with someone online in another place and saying yay I have a D/s relationship!

smkarin -> RE: online relationship? money? (8/1/2016 6:43:18 AM)
Thank you, i got it... and i removed online from my profile

LilJuly76 -> RE: online relationship? money? (8/1/2016 7:21:36 AM)
if you think you can do it go for it. To me it would not work. I'm a masochist so I can't do S & M sessions online, also I couldn't even tell online if the "Dominant" is capable of leading a relationship with a submissive, I ended up hooking up with some fakes in the past, a lot of people know how to play a role.

smkarin -> RE: online relationship? money? (8/1/2016 10:56:50 AM)
Yes, don't tell me about fake people out there online :) This is the main reason i started this topic here

OsideGirl -> RE: online relationship? money? (8/1/2016 10:56:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: smkarin quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl Did you see the warning when you sent the email that says "DO NOT SEND MONEY"? Yes i saw it. i'm asking in general about the online relationship. What makes you think it doesn't apply to what you asked? Here's the thing, if you enjoy financial domination, find someone that you can actually meet in real life, does it responsibly and that you can have a relationship with. If you're not into financial domination, find someone that you can actually meet in real life that you can have a relationship with. It shouldn't require money to meet for coffee. I would also highly recommend finding the munches/socials in your area. I would also recommend volunteering to staff local event and serve with grace. It will let the local Dommes see you in action.

smkarin -> RE: online relationship? money? (8/1/2016 11:03:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl I would also highly recommend finding the munches/socials in your area. I would also recommend volunteering to staff local event and serve with grace. It will let the local Dommes see you in action. Wow.. Brilliant.. Never thought of this! Thaaaanx a lot.

ThatDizzyChick -> RE: online relationship? money? (8/1/2016 11:21:12 AM)
quote: should an online relationship with a Mistress/Domme be a financial one? That's up to you to decide.

masmiss -> RE: online relationship? money? (8/1/2016 11:24:23 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: smkarin quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl I would also highly recommend finding the munches/socials in your area. I would also recommend volunteering to staff local event and serve with grace. It will let the local Dommes see you in action. Wow.. Brilliant.. Never thought of this! Thaaaanx a lot. Married and obnoxious. You should have no trouble finding a Domme. [:D]

freedomdwarf1 -> RE: online relationship? money? (8/1/2016 11:37:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: smkarin quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl I would also highly recommend finding the munches/socials in your area. I would also recommend volunteering to staff local event and serve with grace. It will let the local Dommes see you in action. Wow.. Brilliant.. Never thought of this! Thaaaanx a lot. A 40yo married man and you didn't think of this simple solution???? Sheeesh! And I thought the younger generation lacked imagination!!! [8\|] Though to be fair, Qatar isn't exactly the right country to be an oopenly male sub.

smkarin -> RE: online relationship? money? (8/1/2016 8:18:38 PM)
Thank you all for sharing thoughts & advice. Appreciate it.

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