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This is probably a guy thing but..... - 8/7/2016 3:05:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		Anyone ever wonder....the one that got away....why you fucked up....how you fucked up.....are you still fucking up (as to....the future Mrs/Mr Wuhnaful)....did you stop fucking up....do you care...are you past the point....do you wanna stop fucking up....do you wish that today you were with her/him (?)
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RE: This is probably a guy thing but..... - 8/7/2016 4:52:32 PM   
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RE: This is probably a guy thing but..... - 8/7/2016 4:59:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have one that got away.....she's Bi Polar.....there's no way to say the right thing...EVERYTHING is wrong....I could say "the sun just came up...it's fabulous...better than any before it...come here....look at it"...it'd be wrong...and yet...she's the one I dream about.....even as I've told her never to contact me again.

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RE: This is probably a guy thing but..... - 8/7/2016 6:02:18 PM   
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RE: This is probably a guy thing but..... - 8/7/2016 9:09:36 PM   
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RE: This is probably a guy thing but..... - 8/8/2016 5:20:19 PM   
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RE: This is probably a guy thing but..... - 8/8/2016 7:24:44 PM   
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RE: This is probably a guy thing but..... - 8/8/2016 7:53:53 PM   
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RE: This is probably a guy thing but..... - 8/8/2016 8:15:06 PM   
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He knows what bipolar means.


Yup, a north and south pole.

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RE: This is probably a guy thing but..... - 8/9/2016 9:01:10 AM   
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ORIGINAL: AtUrCervix

Anyone ever wonder....the one that got away....why you fucked up....how you fucked up.....are you still fucking up (as to....the future Mrs/Mr Wuhnaful)....did you stop fucking up....do you care...are you past the point....do you wanna stop fucking up....do you wish that today you were with her/him (?)
Fuck, no: https://youtu.be/Gaid72fqzNE



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RE: This is probably a guy thing but..... - 8/9/2016 11:09:04 AM   
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ORIGINAL: jlf1961


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ORIGINAL: Spiritedsub2

He knows what bipolar means.


Yup, a north and south pole.

I thought it was a pole that swings both ways.
Like if it's propping up your washing line, and there's a gale blowing?

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RE: This is probably a guy thing but..... - 8/9/2016 12:46:08 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Awareness


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ORIGINAL: AtUrCervix

Anyone ever wonder....the one that got away....why you fucked up....how you fucked up.....are you still fucking up (as to....the future Mrs/Mr Wuhnaful)....did you stop fucking up....do you care...are you past the point....do you wanna stop fucking up....do you wish that today you were with her/him (?)
Fuck, no: https://youtu.be/Gaid72fqzNE




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RE: This is probably a guy thing but..... - 8/9/2016 3:45:46 PM   
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ORIGINAL: thedeityspeaks

Are you using "bi polar" as a synonym for contrary? If so, that's just one area in which you're fucking up.


No....I was actually using the term "bi polar"......for someone who was......uhhhhmmmm....."bi polar".

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RE: This is probably a guy thing but..... - 8/9/2016 3:52:31 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Spiritedsub2

He knows what bipolar means.


Yup, a north and south pole.


Well...that would be an easy out....and I'm not.....so....I can't possibly know....sue me but....bi polar is a disease.

It's a beautiful disease actually because....it enables those conflicted to be exceptional....and.....also....dire.

It's a disease that puts those afflicted in to a horrible spin and, spectacular heights.

It's a disease that takes people to places few of us can ever grasp....and places none of us would ever want to go...except for the good times.

It's a horrible disease. It's a disease that....those afflicted would rather not go there (even they) but, at their heights....everyone of us would love to join them.

And it is debilitating....on its best day.

(It's also a place where...if you love that person...truly...you'd want to spend your every last minute with).

"ORIGINAL: Spiritedsub2

He knows what bipolar means."

(Yes....I do...as much as I'm capable of).


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RE: This is probably a guy thing but..... - 8/9/2016 6:04:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: AtUrCervix

Anyone ever wonder....the one that got away....why you fucked up....how you fucked up.....are you still fucking up (as to....the future Mrs/Mr Wuhnaful)....did you stop fucking up....do you care...are you past the point....do you wanna stop fucking up....do you wish that today you were with her/him (?)

Nope, I never ever had "The one that got away."
I have like no regrets in any of my relationships. The ones that I let got away, I look back and always feel like, I am genuinely better off without them. I grew up with no love from my parents, so whenever I love someone, I give my 200% and treasure every moment with them, and never take them for granted and make sure they know they are loved and well care for. So even if it doesn't work out, there are just no regrets. And there is nothing better I could have done. It really takes two hands to clap.

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RE: This is probably a guy thing but..... - 8/9/2016 6:24:58 PM   
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she's the one I dream about.....even as I've told her never to contact me again.

That's seriously stupid. Men! It's like when me and my best sex fight, and he says stupid things, like that, then later he gets sooo fucking relieved, I ignored what he said. Because I know him well enough to know that he didn't mean it and say it in the heat of the moment. He has abandonment issues. Each time I can see his so fucking relieved when I contact him after he cools down, and I know his been anxiously hoping to hear from me, at the speed of his reply, like his on stand by on his phone, instant reply and eager to make peace. Usually when things are good between us, his slow in responding. So the difference is super obvious. As his male ego would have prevented him from retracting his words.

Why don't you just contact her again?







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RE: This is probably a guy thing but..... - 8/9/2016 6:34:13 PM   
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She emailed me out of the blue to announce she's moved across the country (to my side).

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RE: This is probably a guy thing but..... - 8/9/2016 6:35:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		I had 2 that "got away" recently. One because within minutes of saying we are moving forward but we should both not close any options, specifically our collar space accounts, then within 10 minutes I was the biggest asshole in the world because I didn't close my collar space account. I should have known better than to not hear the real meaning, to close my account

The other was that I misunderstood what LTR meant. It meant that I was 4th in line after 2 lovers, some sissy that dropped by on occasion to "drain his balls" and the fact that I was supposed to assume the role of fluffier and used cum disposal unit.

I regret losing them both but in the long run, it was better for me.

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RE: This is probably a guy thing but..... - 8/10/2016 4:22:59 AM   
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she's the one I dream about.....even as I've told her never to contact me again.

That's seriously stupid. Men! It's like when me and my best sex fight, and he says stupid things, like that, then later he gets sooo fucking relieved, I ignored what he said. Because I know him well enough to know that he didn't mean it and say it in the heat of the moment. He has abandonment issues. Each time I can see his so fucking relieved when I contact him after he cools down, and I know his been anxiously hoping to hear from me, at the speed of his reply, like his on stand by on his phone, instant reply and eager to make peace. Usually when things are good between us, his slow in responding. So the difference is super obvious. As his male ego would have prevented him from retracting his words.

Why don't you just contact her again?



Because she's bi polar.

It's unfixable.

Many that are, stop taking their meds and it's a roller coaster.

As much as I would love to spend my life with her, she's broken.

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RE: This is probably a guy thing but..... - 8/10/2016 8:29:18 AM   
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Status: offline 		Not all bipolar refuse to take their meds. Why do you assume she will do that if she hasn't exhibited that behavior?

If she does exhibit that, then the question to ask yourself is why are you only attracted to unhealthy women? Where did you learn this? And why haven't you sought help to change this?

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