jlf1961
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ORIGINAL: Greta75 quote:
FYI, massage, although generally relaxing is not always so, each human is different and in some cases, such as in physical therapy, massage is often painful, regardless of who, what sex or how gentle the masseuse tries to be. It is relaxing to YOU, and your experience is by no means applicable to every human on the planet. In other words, you have made an assumption, based on your experience, and applied it to an entire population group. I bet I can massage anybody and it doesn't hurt. It's all about pressure. Some masseuse believe in using pain to counter pain. Some people love painful massages and will ask the masseuse to use more force. But it's all about the amount of pressure applied. Like when I do foot reflexology, I ask them to only gently stroke my feet, zero pressure at all, so it's nice and relaxing. Some of my friends may want them to kill them with pain and ask for it to be harder. You know my best sex attended a theraputic massage class, and the massage does not even involve skin contact, but stroking very close to the skin to make the hair stand and you can kinda feel sensation, but no skin contact at all. That is another zero pain massage. I remembered when I was so excited he was taking the class, then I ask him to apply to me on what he learn in class, and I was like WTF? You aren't even touching me lol. And he said, yea that's exactly what it's suppose to be. Take it from someone going to PT three times a week, for the last 10 fucking years, if they do it so it does not hurt, then the desired result aint going to happen. Not to mention there are a number of medical conditions which result in over sensitive nerves, thus massage would be painful even if done correctly. Edited to remove anything that could possibly be considered an insult.
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