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Mods/Mistresses - 8/12/2016 7:30:41 AM

SteamGamer

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Mods,

I wanted to ask why there is not a section for suggestions, and glitches? I mean seams a bit strange you are not interested in making a thread for members to make suggestions as report bugs. Just wondering...

A few suggestions,

* More Actively Seeking options - Like "24/7 Live in", "FinDom" so if there is such a fetish those interested can be targeted instead of those like myself who despise these clowns.
* Blocking via Fetishes/Interests/Etc - So that members can block other members by their interests, fetishes, and other things in the profile. This would be nice for the lesbian ladies too so that they can auto block any males from messaging them, same with straight guys to block all males or couples, be great to be able to block all these so called FinDoms which in my opinion in turning CS into a TrollSpace because its next to impossible to find a real dom because almost every profile that is supposedly female now claims this bs fetish. Just say your lazy, have no ambition in life other then taking someones money, and your a gold digger, I mean it is what it is. You want something for nothing. Yes I am well aware of the mail blocking features, this is not what I mean.

Glitches,

* Send Pictures with Message - This does not work anymore for me. I have even tried to make a new account, installed Linux, used different browsers, and so much more. This use to work perfectly years ago, what has changed? I try to send pictures with a message & message is sent but the window for sending images stays open then disappears after a while but no pictures have been sent. Same with anything else I try to send with a message. Not using any popup blockers, ad removers, or anything else that should interfere with this script.
* Profile Gaps - This has been a problem for a while now. Does our webmaster even know how to code? No hate, but I mean how long till things get fixed?

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For The Mistresses Only, (No one who claims FinDom)

Where are all the actual Mistresses on here? Have you all disappeared? Nothing but a bunch of clowns & trolls on here now. Almost every so called Mistress that has messaged me has given me an email address & refused to talk here on CS because they always end up asking for money or some other type of rule breaker in the terms of TOS here. No one is for real, everyone thinks guys should just send them money for nothing. I am looking for a real life Mistress, one to which I am attracted to but they are pretty much non existent. FetLife has tons of real people, they just sit in silence so its just as pointless & trying to find someone here. When this was CollarMe.com I had better luck finding live in situations just back then I was new so no one wanted a new guy, they wanted experienced pets so I ran off to any female interested for temp live ins just to gain some experience. I know it must be just as hard for the Doms to find real subs, slaves, and pets because a lot of us are jaded.

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Please Webmaster/Owners of CollarSpace add more options so that those of us who do not want to play endless online games, messenger tag, and have to go threw endless never ending loops of bullshit to find a serious real life relationship can without all the side shit & drama. This was once a pretty damn good site, lets make it good again?

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RE: Mods/Mistresses - 8/12/2016 7:56:30 AM

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As to our suggestions, well, good luck with that.

As far as mistresses, we are on here. I know several in my local area. Maybe the profiles are not attractive to you? Maybe chasing hottie yoga girls is getting you the FinDoms? I dunno.

I do know we exist. *smiles*

That said, I've always met the people I spend time with quickly offline, and have had WAY more luck just meeting people at munches and events, especially FemDom events.

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RE: Mods/Mistresses - 8/12/2016 8:08:06 AM

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You're expecting a lot from a free site. The owner/caretakers don't give a damn what we want or think this site should provide for us. You will learn that in time, if you stick around long enough.

As for your rant about findoms and trolls here, it won't change because the owner/caretakers don't care as long as their registered number of users remains high, so get used to it.

Also, the moderators on this site and Collarspace are unpaid volunteers who don't spend all their time worrying about poor down trodden males who are bothered by findoms. Your concerns about who uses these sites will not be addressed.

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RE: Mods/Mistresses - 8/13/2016 7:31:44 AM

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You probably won't like my answer but I promise that I'm trying to help.

The part you addressed to the Mods. If they ever create the ability to search by interest/block by interest, I'll be so shocked that you could knock me over with a feather. There have been hundreds of threads over the years, (I'm being kind with that estimate) written by submissive men, who have made the similar suggestion about wanting to sort their search feature to avoid pros, fins, etc. I doubt it will ever happen because implementing that just plain doesn't translate into increased revenue. Depending on how you look at it, the idea could actually have the opposite effect, and no business is going to intentionally decrease their revenue.

Glitches, pictures, and other features that just plain don't work. No nice way to say it. They're aware. Some of the things you mentioned have been issues since last year. Fixing those things just doesn't seem to be real high on the priority list. I don't have a good answer for you.

Now, the other half of your comment Where are we?

Well, most of us are on Fet. Almost every lifestyle person who used to post here, has a Fet account. I'm not saying you'll avoid fins, pros, etc on the other site, because you won't. You also won't get the search features that you are asking for here. However, you're going to find a lot more lifestyle people.

The person I'm dating now? Met him through Fet. He found me by using the features that Fet provides. In turn, I answered his email because I could check him out by using those same features. Do we go to the same events? Do we know people in common? Are his 'friends' really friends? Does he just love hot pictures or do the people he knows wish him a happy birthday or congratulate him on something new in his life? For me, that made a lot of difference.

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RE: Mods/Mistresses - 8/15/2016 3:11:36 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

The person I'm dating now? Met him through Fet. He found me by using the features that Fet provides. In turn, I answered his email because I could check him out by using those same features. Do we go to the same events? Do we know people in common? Are his 'friends' really friends? Does he just love hot pictures or do the people he knows wish him a happy birthday or congratulate him on something new in his life? For me, that made a lot of difference.

This is one of the reasons I encourage submissives to vet me (and others they meet on this site and others) through Fet. To see how real we are, how we behave with our friends online,a nd see if there are photos or mentions of events with others in their feed and profiles.

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RE: Mods/Mistresses - 8/15/2016 9:59:15 AM

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ORIGINAL: MsLadySue

Also, the moderators on this site and Collarspace are unpaid volunteers who don't spend all their time worrying about poor down trodden males who are bothered by findoms. Your concerns about who uses these sites will not be addressed.

Let's also add that the Moderators on the forum side have nothing to do profiles side. So, he's bitching in the wrong place.

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