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What sex can do for me - 8/14/2016 10:45:07 AM

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Another topic I posted got super derailed when people focus on my declaration that sex is the numero uno for me in life partner.

I thought I start a whole new thread on this.

First of all, since a kid, I've always knew sex is gonna one of the most wonderful thing I will ever experience in my life. I knew I was gonna love sex and just absolutely fall inlove with it. I feel like I knew this since I had memories. I was a very sexually aware child since very young.

When it happened, everything that I thought it was, was totally true for me.

And then, I just wanted more and more of it, I just absolutely love it.

The reason sex is so important, personally for me is.

Sex and intimacy actually does solves all my problems. I mean, seriously.....

When I am angry, have sex with me, I'd stop being angry.

When I am crying, have sex with me, I'd feel comforted and happy again.

When I am depressed or sad, have sex with me, it'd just make me happy again!

If I am going through a major life crisis, or work crisis, where everything is crashing down and I feel like it's the end of the world. Have sex with me. I don't need to talk. I need to be touched, held and made love to. I don't need any solutions from you. Have sex with me, it'd comfort me, and then allow me to clear my mind, figure it out and find my own solutions and solve my own problems. It would empower me to solve my own problems.

And when I am happy and in cloud 9, nothing's better than celebratory sex just for feeling happy.

What can I say?

Sex is the solution to all my problems! Like literally.

And when I say sex, it comes with sexual compatibility. Sex that nourishes my soul. Not just any kind of sex.

I believe for many other people, if they are going through a bad time, like even men, if they are stressed, some lose their libido. Women if they are stressed, many definitely, the last thing they wanna do is to have sex.

But for me, if I am stressed, sex is totally gonna take that stress away and clear my mind and get me back on focus on how to solve whatever problems I am facing.

So considering that, and the way I work, and how sex is the my miracle cure to everything going wrong in my life, the one thing that will never fail to cheer me up when I am sad and start helping me see rainbows and sunshines again.

It just makes perfect sense that, a future partner needs to enjoy sex as much as I enjoy it. And his make up has to be like mine. When he is stressed, his libido shouldn't go down, it should go up. Then we'd be perfect for each other.

If someone's libido goes down due to stress, they might be perfect with another person who reacts to stress the same way.

It's all about compatibility.

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RE: What sex can do for me - 8/14/2016 10:47:54 AM

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Who would I be having sex with?
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RE: What sex can do for me - 8/14/2016 10:52:14 AM

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Who would I be having sex with?
Who are you man beast or women show your self

Sometimes I think you are possessed by a poltergeist.

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RE: What sex can do for me - 8/14/2016 10:57:48 AM

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Who would I be having sex with?
Who are you man beast or women show your self

Sometimes I think you are possessed by a poltergeist.

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RE: What sex can do for me - 8/14/2016 11:02:59 AM

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ORIGINAL: Greta75

Another topic I posted got super derailed when people focus on my declaration that sex is the numero uno for me in life partner.

I thought I start a whole new thread on this.

First of all, since a kid, I've always knew sex is gonna one of the most wonderful thing I will ever experience in my life. I knew I was gonna love sex and just absolutely fall inlove with it. I feel like I knew this since I had memories. I was a very sexually aware child since very young.

When it happened, everything that I thought it was, was totally true for me.

And then, I just wanted more and more of it, I just absolutely love it.

The reason sex is so important, personally for me is.

Sex and intimacy actually does solves all my problems. I mean, seriously.....

When I am angry, have sex with me, I'd stop being angry.

When I am crying, have sex with me, I'd feel comforted and happy again.

When I am depressed or sad, have sex with me, it'd just make me happy again!

If I am going through a major life crisis, or work crisis, where everything is crashing down and I feel like it's the end of the world. Have sex with me. I don't need to talk. I need to be touched, held and made love to. I don't need any solutions from you. Have sex with me, it'd comfort me, and then allow me to clear my mind, figure it out and find my own solutions and solve my own problems. It would empower me to solve my own problems.

I am wondering if you might understand the reason why people wonder if it might fall into the area of addictive behavior if you see how they might see it.

Substitute the work cocaine or alcohol for sex and that is probably where the similarity is.

Having said that I am glad you have found something that works for you.

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RE: What sex can do for me - 8/14/2016 12:00:51 PM

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Greta such as your desires and condition inspiring those desires, you simply confirm what the sexologists tell us in that libidinous Canon that informs...you've segued very nicely into your ever lov'n, prime-time, can't-get-enough sex 30's.

So you want sex at the drop of a hat and you'll...drop the hat.

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RE: What sex can do for me - 8/15/2016 3:24:13 AM

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Greta, I get what you're saying. I do. I have some similar reactions.

Sex, to me, is a panacea.

However, and you mention it lightly here:

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Sex that nourishes my soul. Not just any kind of sex.

There is sex that could essentially be masturbation. There is sex that is fun—a romp. Then there is the sex that mends things, puts things in perspective, and evens me out. THAT sex, I only get in my deep long-term relationships.

And I agree with you. It's required.

I can and do love many people without sex.

I can and do enjoy sex with people I am not in love with.

However, that soul-nourishing sex is something special. And when I have it, I'm more productive, creative, alive, driven...

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I am wondering if you might understand the reason why people wonder if it might fall into the area of addictive behavior if you see how they might see it.

Substitute the work cocaine or alcohol for sex and that is probably where the similarity is.

Having said that I am glad you have found something that works for you.

I get what you're saying, and I see your point.

As a return point, I will mention that according to many studies, this is what sex is supposed to do for the feminine brain. It sparks clarity of thought, creativity, boundless energy, and etc.

If you've not yet read Vagina by Naomi Wolf, I would suggest it. It's interesting what scientists are finally uncovering about the female sexual nervous system, and how deeply integrated it is into our psyches.

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Greta such as your desires and condition inspiring those desires, you simply confirm what the sexologists tell us in that libidinous Canon that informs...you've segued very nicely into your ever lov'n, prime-time, can't-get-enough sex 30's.

So you want sex at the drop of a hat and you'll...drop the hat.

I'm curious how you get that from what she wrote. She says she's ALWAYS liked sex and wanted sex. Not that it's become a thing for her at a particular age.

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