Knifepants
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Hello community,
I'm Lee (also Goddess/Master/Sir, depending on mood and scene)
I'm currently a FemDom, and had some great experience with FinDom, but recently encountering a lot of hate for pursuing that-- which I understand given the sudden spike in popularity and potential for abuse, but still, it's a bummer to encounter such open kink-shaming.
I'm interested in making friends with more people in the lifestyle, particularly other Dommes and femme types. I am fortunate to be part of a small community of kinksters and sex workers, but since for the most part we share a similar background, age range, location, etc, it can get a little echo chamber-y sometimes. I really value diversity of opinion, and within certain ethical boundaries believe there is no wrong way to kink if it works for those involved. Talking to me you'd probably be surprised that I'm a Domme, just as I was surprised a few years ago when I dated a true submissive, and found that the increasing severity and intensity of our sessions felt not only extremely salacious and exciting, but unbelievably... correct.
When not attempting to psych out a sub, I'm quite compassionate, friendly, permissive, and empathic. So perhaps what I love so well is the balance brought to my life by laying into someone for folding my shirts incorrectly, or remotely sending a shock to a collar because someone is taking too long fetching my drink.
I'm not interested in being hit on. I'm here to make friends with people I can learn from and bounce things off of, and ideally find a new sub or two.
I'm sorry to have to say this, but it tends to come up: it's true I and a switch and have enjoyed bottoming in the past. It takes an extremely specific person to draw that out in me. I'm delighted to talk with anyone half interesting, but men who insist that they "know what I need" in terms of topping me, or that I just haven't had a "real man", or otherwise insinuate that they are the key to me enjoying something I have experimented a lot with and largely feel "meh" about are a huge turn off.
Women/Femmes attempting are still novel enough that I kind of like it. :>
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Femme Dom-leaning switch, eagerly exploring the lifestyle. - 
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