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Charity Begins At Home - 8/24/2016 12:01:55 PM   
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I've often heard that this has come to mean roughly the opposite of what it used to mean. These days it means, for most, something like 'We need to look after ourselves (our family; people in our own country) first - until they're sorted out, we should devote no time/money/energy to those outside our own family/country.

In fact, it appears that the line 'charity begins at home' meant, roughly, 'If you've learned how to be charitable* at home, you'll later go out into the world with a charitable nature coming naturally to you.

[*i.e. kind, loving - 'charity' meant something different when it was first used in that phrase]

It's not a Biblical saying - it was first used in Thomas Browne’s 1642 book 'Religio Medici'. However, it sounds kind of Biblical which, I reckon, is why so many people trot it out - using it nearly always in its modern sense - in a tone of 'that morally trumps everything you've just said, mate!'.

Anyway, here are some other proverbs that are, apparently, commonly misused these days:

http://www.cracked.com/article_20251_the-5-most-frequently-misused-proverbs.html


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RE: Charity Begins At Home - 8/24/2016 12:03:02 PM   
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Good luck with this one, mate.

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RE: Charity Begins At Home - 8/24/2016 12:22:09 PM   
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Eh? Why? Just something I put out there, for people to look at if they feel like it. I'm not grinding my axe with this thread, no sirree.

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RE: Charity Begins At Home - 8/24/2016 12:23:43 PM   
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RE: Charity Begins At Home - 8/24/2016 12:49:36 PM   
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There is so much that is misused these days. My personal fave is Machiavelli's The Prince. So few people realize that is is a satire, it is a blueprint on how not to rule, yet so many take it as just the opposite.

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RE: Charity Begins At Home - 8/24/2016 12:57:12 PM   
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I remember seeing these bullshit yuppified translations of Musushi during the '80s.
"Read this and understand how the Japanese think!"
Not if you're reading it in English you won't...

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RE: Charity Begins At Home - 8/24/2016 1:00:47 PM   
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I agree that people will generally take it to mean look after your own affairs first, and I do admit that I have on occasion used it in exactly that format myself. For me though this is simply because without anything here at home I have nothing to give the outside, aside from myself. Other than that I can't say that I knew where the saying came from, but that I always took it to mean that you taught first in the home so that it spread way from home, as with all morals.

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RE: Charity Begins At Home - 8/24/2016 4:20:53 PM   
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I am led to believe there are no women on here <0.001% that seek a man to wreck them beyond utter comprenhension,,sure there a couple of marvelous whorebags who scream they are a re wondrous relationship and yet are here 25 hours from 24 talking complete shittery and a mad man, long gone with a mad case of the rabies and pix would not entertrtain them

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RE: Charity Begins At Home - 8/24/2016 6:29:26 PM   
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I have seen a few postings that would suggest that charity begins with a pay-pig.......

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RE: Charity Begins At Home - 8/30/2016 8:06:00 AM   
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Actually the very concept of charity and suggesting [it] start at home is a bit of a misnomer. If one spends or extends helpful energy at home...it's not really charity at all. It's defined first by involving actions or donations to aid the poor, ill, or helpless, so.....?

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