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TabooFromBirth -> A friendly tip for subs (8/27/2016 4:19:40 AM)

It is a good idea to either keep your profile hidden while you're not online or hide it as soon as you get online until you have gone through all the messages you have gotten while offline.


Allows you to spend more time to talk with people you actually want to.




Bunnicula -> RE: A friendly tip for subs (8/27/2016 4:39:54 AM)

I get a lot of messages and I still get plenty of time to talk to the people I want to.

Dealing with shitloads of mail is easy - 'scan, delete, block'. It only takes seconds.

The remaining one or two messages are from the people I want to talk to.

Oh, and welcome to collarchat.




peppermint -> RE: A friendly tip for subs (8/27/2016 6:19:52 AM)

My profile is never hidden. I don't see any need for that at all.

Welcome to the forums. Hope you enjoy your time here.




LilJuly76 -> RE: A friendly tip for subs (8/27/2016 7:49:09 AM)

got nothing to hide, so there is no need to hide




TabooFromBirth -> RE: A friendly tip for subs (8/27/2016 12:29:15 PM)

I'm a dominant male and sometimes have a dozen messages to go through when I get on, before I decided to filter out sub male profiles I'd have a few dozen. And I find it hard to keep up, although I actually read all messages I get and if they're not obvious spam or completely rude I answer them even if only to say thanks but no thanks.


Then also have my experiment a few months ago when I created a fake female slave profile, had it up for 3 weeks and got an average of just over 90 messages a day, and that was not having any ongoing conversations.


My opinion, doing what I suggested is the optimal thing to do. Just "scanning" you may be automatically ignoring people that you may actually enjoy getting to know. I know if I were a sub/slave female, I would leave my profile open whIle I'm offline, because again having it hidden would automatically reduce opportunity to get to know people I might like to, but would most definitely hide it as soon as I got on so that I could go through the mail I've gotten before getting more.


I guess to each their own processes and priorities.




Spiritedsub2 -> RE: A friendly tip for subs (8/27/2016 1:06:14 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: TabooFromBirth

I'm a dominant male and sometimes have a dozen messages to go through when I get on, before I decided to filter out sub male profiles I'd have a few dozen. And I find it hard to keep up, although I actually read all messages I get and if they're not obvious spam or completely rude I answer them even if only to say thanks but no thanks.


Then also have my experiment a few months ago when I created a fake female slave profile, had it up for 3 weeks and got an average of just over 90 messages a day, and that was not having any ongoing conversations.


My opinion, doing what I suggested is the optimal thing to do. Just "scanning" you may be automatically ignoring people that you may actually enjoy getting to know. I know if I were a sub/slave female, I would leave my profile open whIle I'm offline, because again having it hidden would automatically reduce opportunity to get to know people I might like to, but would most definitely hide it as soon as I got on so that I could go through the mail I've gotten before getting more.


I guess to each their own processes and priorities.


Re the bolded part, you're full of shit. Re the unsolicited "advice", well, ditto.




peppermint -> RE: A friendly tip for subs (8/27/2016 3:33:42 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: TabooFromBirth

I'm a dominant male and sometimes have a dozen messages to go through when I get on, before I decided to filter out sub male profiles I'd have a few dozen. And I find it hard to keep up, although I actually read all messages I get and if they're not obvious spam or completely rude I answer them even if only to say thanks but no thanks.





You are the only male dominant I have ever heard of who gets mail from a dozen females each time you sign on. I just find that hard to believe unless you are counting the scams. From what dominant males have told me, they almost never get mail from a female and they are lucky if 10% of the women they write to reply in any way.

You really need to stay on the forums and pass along this great technique you have. You must be doing something awfully special. Can you tell us about it? I am sure hiding your profile is not getting all these women to write to you.




LilJuly76 -> RE: A friendly tip for subs (8/27/2016 4:06:29 PM)

yet another "Dominant male" who doesn't know what he's talking about, move a long little man




WM4coloredslvs -> RE: A friendly tip for subs (8/27/2016 4:34:27 PM)

Well damn!!!




angelikaJ -> RE: A friendly tip for subs (8/27/2016 4:38:33 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: WM4coloredslvs

Well damn!!!


Forgot which nick you were posting under, didn't you, TFB?
[sm=biggrin.gif]




WM4coloredslvs -> RE: A friendly tip for subs (8/27/2016 5:08:12 PM)

No shortage of people that can read and believe what they want instead of what plain to see right in front of them. The man said sometimes. Ya know sometimes he has a dozen messages when he gets on. Never said all the time, and he never said that they were females sending the first message. I'm talking to 4 different people right now, and I'm newer and have a specific kink.



Oh and the guy says on his profile that he only gets on here with his phone. So how is he on here same time as me if we the same guy. Morons.




TabooFromBirth -> RE: A friendly tip for subs (8/27/2016 5:47:07 PM)

Nice! I've got a racist bigot defending me. He was pretty accurate though. I do have several ongoing conversations, seven I think. If I go a day without getting on, I've got those and any replies to ice breakers I've sent out.


I'm not as rude as the redneck is, but he was right...it would help if a little more attention was paid to what is said.


Btw, I've has about two dozen profile views and a handful of pm thanking me for sharing that tidbit about being able to hide your profile. From a view that didn't realize that you could hide it and unhide it as easily as you can.


Anyway. I think I see why despite there being hundreds of thousands of people on this site, the numbers on the message boards are barely into the thousands.




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