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MstrssMissBehave -> Being a Findom (9/5/2016 1:48:28 PM)

I'm looked down on as a Findom. Being only 23 who would actually take you serious right? Well lol It's not about the age, or years of experience. I was financially dominating subs twice my age being 18. It comes natural to me . It's the power it gives me over some pathetic slimes life. One who knows he is worthless and has no purpose in life but to serve and please his Goddess since he is incapable of pleasing any other woman mentally, emotionally, or sexually. It's about the money but it is also the POWER you have being a Findom. Having total control over turning your subbies life upside down and him enjoying the ride along the way. No I don't shout give me because that's not what Findom is about. I don't utter a word and my slaves empty their wallets for me. The power of Mindfuck,Tease,Torture,Pain, & Pleasure all rolled into one connection between the two of us. I get to watch you Slave Squeal and Squrim for me and they LOVE it and I LOVE it because what I want I get. With no effort at all. With a snap of my fingers and saliva on my boot with money in my bank account well "It gets no better than that."


MISSBEHAVE




ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Being a Findom (9/5/2016 3:38:49 PM)

LOL




NookieNotes -> RE: Being a Findom (9/5/2016 4:54:25 PM)

You're not being looked down because you're a FinDom, or because you're young. You're being looked down upon because you are displaying an overall poor attitude.




OsideGirl -> RE: Being a Findom (9/5/2016 5:29:41 PM)


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ORIGINAL: NookieNotes

You're not being looked down because you're a FinDom, or because you're young. You're being looked down upon because you are displaying an overall poor attitude.

Exactly. A good Dominant shows concern for their submissives well being.




Gauge -> RE: Being a Findom (9/5/2016 6:42:13 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MstrssMissBehave

I'm looked down on as a Findom. Being only 23 who would actually take you serious right?



So far I'm with you.

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Well lol It's not about the age, or years of experience. I was financially dominating subs twice my age being 17/18.


OK... so... 6 years experience being a "FinDom".

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It comes natural to me


If it did, you would never say the following line:

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It's the power it gives me over some pathetic slimes life.


Believe this or not, dominants don't talk like this about someone that has submitted to them. The people that do talk like this usually are not what they claim to be.

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One who knows he is worthless and has no purpose in life but to serve and please his Goddess since he is incapable of pleasing any other woman mentally, emotionally, or sexually.


What a bunch of hogwash. How can someone be worthless, not be able to please any woman, and is able to please you? Why, because they are dumb enough to throw a few bucks your way? See, this is where you begin to go far, far away from understanding what it is you claim to be.

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It's about the money but it is also the POWER you have being a Findom.


No, it's about the money. Have you ever FinDommed in real life? Face to face? Seriously, you have no power over anyone on the Internet, only when you are in the same room with them does the real power begin.

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Having total control over turning your subbies life upside down and him enjoying the ride along the way.


As a dominant, I have no desire to turn my sub's life upside down whether or not she would enjoy it or not. Usually, a dominant brings order and a calming presence to their subs... they do not usually intentionally ruin their subs and gain pleasure from it.

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No I don't shout give me because that's not what Findom is about.


So, explain the total power exchange that a FinDom/submissive dynamic has. I would like to hear how what you do is similar or different than the people on here who have done financial domination.

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I don't utter a word and my slaves empty their wallets for me.


So, random people just send you money and you don't indicate that you want their money at all? Where do I sign?

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The power of Mindfuck,Tease,Torture,Pain, & Pleasure all rolled into one connection between the two of us.


Somehow, I doubt this, how do you inflict pain by having someone hand you money? How do you torture someone that is handing you money?

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I get to watch you Slave Squeal and Squrim for me and they LOVE it


OK...

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and I LOVE it because what I want I get


Now you are getting into the real heart of the matter of you completely missing what a BDSM relationship is all about.

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With no effort at all. With a snap of my fingers and saliva on my boot with money in my bank account well


How do you get saliva on your boot? Do you do these things face to face with your subs? Or is this more a metaphorical thing to make it sound good?

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"It gets no better than that."


Of course it doesn't get better than that, you learned a few buzz words and men are stupid enough to send you money.

I will await your response and I do look forward to your explanation of the power exchange dynamic. It would also be better if you didn't use buzzwords and things that sound like they are BDSM in your description.


Edited to add: After reading your profile... you talk a lot about taking money from people, and you even ask for $25-$50 dollars to prove they are worthy. Explain to me again how you never utter a word about money and slaves open their wallets.




MariaB -> RE: Being a Findom (9/6/2016 5:09:39 AM)

You really do need to research what you're doing because many of us here have read your line a thousand times from new school leavers and vanilla women who are under the illusion that this a get rich quick game.

Be a profressional and build yourself a fantastic website. Hell, get a sub male to build you a fantastic website. Invest in your advertising because when you come on here to advertise it like putting your business card up in the dollar store. You have to spend money to make money and you have to be very, very good at what you do and from what I just read on your profile, you aren't going to make it.

Also, why the hell does your profile insist on a commitment fee of $25-$50 ? I mean, is it $25 or is it $50 or do you leave that up to his discretion?




MstrssMissBehave -> RE: Being a Findom (9/21/2016 2:48:13 PM)

I wonder where my post disappeared to lol




LilJuly76 -> RE: Being a Findom (9/21/2016 4:26:56 PM)

your post is still there, you were calling submissives names, that's not any sort of Dominant at all. I'm with Gauge all the way (by the way Gauge you're so darn likeable)




Greatlilbabygirl -> RE: Being a Findom (9/21/2016 6:31:51 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LilJuly76

your post is still there, you were calling submissives names, that's not any sort of Dominant at all. I'm with Gauge all the way (by the way Gauge you're so darn likeable)

ALL the findoms I've seen do that. In fact all the online Dommes I've seen here and on fet do that. I thought in that circle it was expected and encouraged
I'm guessing the ladies in question wouldn't do it if they didn't get the response they wanted from their intended victims.....erm......audience




Alecta -> RE: Being a Findom (9/21/2016 8:11:58 PM)

Are we still flogging this horse? I thought this was a miscatergorised ad like all the other ones.




LilJuly76 -> RE: Being a Findom (9/22/2016 3:32:36 AM)

it usually is, hence her picture with the pouty lips.




Alecta -> RE: Being a Findom (9/22/2016 1:09:24 PM)

Are you sure the phone session did not happen? It was hypnosis afterall..........

What do you do when you give a guy $20 to wash your car and he doesn't do the job? Same thing.




WhoreMods -> RE: Being a Findom (9/22/2016 1:11:08 PM)


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ORIGINAL: MstrssMissBehave

I'm looked down on as a Findom.

You've got a nice mouth for a guy, at least.




stef -> RE: Being a Findom (9/22/2016 1:16:17 PM)


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ORIGINAL: subbimale69

So what do you do when a Mistress (midlifegoddess) on CS offers hypno phone sessions and after you give her a prepaid credit card with the security code and now that she has her money she goes stealth with no email replies. Very disappointing. She could have gotten so much more had she lived up to her commitment.

You post about it in the forums so people can point and laugh at your gullibility?




TNDommeK -> RE: Being a Findom (9/22/2016 10:35:23 PM)

I've always said, why the fuck are they "losers" and "worthless" ?!
My slaves are far from..they are very successful men, some with high powered positions. They definitely aren't worthless. They are my subs, they mean everything to me.
You're new sweetie. I had to learn as well. Research. Maria gave great advice, take it.

Subbiemale: first, don't hijack a thread. Second..research your dommes better. There are plenty of us with references, credintials, etc that will actually stick around.




OsideGirl -> RE: Being a Findom (9/22/2016 10:40:42 PM)

K! Glad to see you here.




UllrsIshtar -> RE: Being a Findom (9/23/2016 8:14:28 AM)


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ORIGINAL: subbimale69

had she lived up to her commitment.


That, right there, is why online FinDomme isn't actually domination, but a business transaction...




TNDommeK -> RE: Being a Findom (9/23/2016 10:23:43 AM)

Hi O!!!! Im trying to make a comeback lol.

Ullr, you know I gotta disagree with you there. She's clearly a fin "duck" or pay princess..so hers would be business. Actual FD is WORK!! LOL

also, I know have your Sig line song stuck in my head.




Awareness -> RE: Being a Findom (9/23/2016 7:20:43 PM)

Oh look, a deluded parasite.




LaTigresse -> RE: Being a Findom (9/29/2016 5:12:56 PM)


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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar


quote:

ORIGINAL: subbimale69

had she lived up to her commitment.


That, right there, is why online FinDomme isn't actually domination, but a business transaction...


My opinion as well.




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