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ORIGINAL: ilovestarbucks

Let's say a man is working too much and doesn't have time for a relationship. Or he is pursuing a career, or going to college, and doesn't have time for a relationship. Yet, he wants to experience all types of BDSM and fetish play. He is hard pressed to find a woman in the same situation so he has to pay for it. And even though he pays for it, the woman may not want to do his particular fetish.

Let's even extend it beyond BDSM, say he just wants sex. It's the same situation.

It's 50% men and 50% women. But yet I don't see any women wanting random sex. Why not?

Why are women different in this regard?

Please no need to criticize my profile or posts that I made. I would honestly like an honest opinion.

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ORIGINAL: ilovestarbucks

"You're forgetting that if a woman couldn't find a partner to satisfy her kink, she'd need to go without or pay a pro, too."
Can you name some kinks and fetishes that women have that men don't want to do?

"And not all of us women can just pick up a casual partner -- I wouldn't have the slightest clue how."
PlentyofFish, Match.com, Fetlife, this site, and a dozen other sites. Craigslist. Bars and nightclubs.

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ORIGINAL: ilovestarbucks
But yet I don't see any women wanting random sex. Why not?

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ORIGINAL: KitsapReign

Exactly the responses I expected.

First, a little about myself - which most of you won't believe because it pretty much flies in the face of what you want to stereotype me as. I not only have an IQ in the top 2%, making me a genius, I have an IQ in the top 2% of the top 2%.

So not stupid.

Next stereotype you'll try to label me with is I lack social skills. The smart nerd with no street smarts, no wisdom, an inability to relate. I work closely with people every day in a setting where my social skills are critical. As for women, I've had 89 lovers, but only 10 were one night stands. I've had many long lasting relationships with women and carried on many multiple relationships at the same time.

So, if you can now lay down your stereotypes and digest the fact that I'm a highly intelligent, educated and successful male, perhaps you might want to actually hear me out:

Let's talk biology. I'm sure you've all heard in school that the one thing that drives all species is sex. The drive to procreate. Now, in our species, as someone pointed out in this very thread, men hunt and women nest. What do women need to make a nest? Material. (I am a material girl). What do men do with the food they catch besides eat it? They give it to the women and children. Why do men do such an altruistic thing as share their food they survive on with the women and children? So the species can procreate.

Why do the women nest? to provide a safe place to raise the children. So the species can procreate.

This immediately creates an exchange system where the male gets sex for bringing home food. The better hunter, the better the chance to survive. Fuck the best hunter and get fed. The nest is safer with the best hunters. If a male doesn't hunt, he's not going to get sex. All males therefore hunt.

Note that this situation doesn't exist this way in all species. Lions, for example. That is because male humans are better equipped to hunt, human children take a long time to be able to leave the nest and a host of other factors. Because of this naturally occurring social reality, females of the human race become hardwired to think like whores. It's no coincidence that the man buys the woman that big diamond ring proclaiming his love. She is a material girl after all and he is proclaiming to her that he is the great hunter.

But what has been the long term consequences of this arrangement? The pressure on men to be more and more successful. The biological imperative to procreate is driving our species to create a system that drives men to try to earn more and more. A consumer driven, materialistic society that will ultimately and quite ironically bring about the extinction of the human race.

I find it quite interesting that Revelations states that Babylon is a whore dressed in red. The same book says Money is the root of all evil. But what is money? An abstraction for our labor. And what was labor for 99% of human existence? Hunting for food to give to girl so you can fuck her. Money, success, wealth, power, all abstractions for the ability to say to the female, "Fuck me, you'll more successfully procreate. Your children will have the best survival chances."
So it's no coincidence that the people who wrote the bible saw the correlation between money being the root of all evil and that the drive to acquire money being rooted in the drive to get pussy. Babylon truly would seem to be a whore dressed in red.

I'm an atheist by the way.

To try to even make the ludicrous claim that women are not all hard wired to be whores is absurd. For every 10,000 female prostitutes you'll fine 1 male prostitute our there servicing only women. Male prostitutes service men. And to be blind to the fact that this reality is driving a capitalistic system that is destroying the earth, causing wars (Helen of Troy anyone?) and bringing misery and death to countless masses is to be seriously in denial.

The good news is that our species is waking up. Feminism, though hugely misguided in many ways, is also freeing the species from the whore mentality. Women are starting to believe they should bring in their own from the hunt. Men are starting to be accepted as home makers. the Domme and her submissive is becoming socially acceptable. And on the other side of the coin, more and more women are realizing that their submission needn't come at a price. That is how a true slave should think. What she gives, she gives freely.

But that side of it, the side where the woman releases her inner hardwiring as a whore and freely chooses to be a slave/sub is coming along much more slowly than the rise of Dommes.

The other day I saw a profile of a girl who said she was a feminist and a slave. She said people told her that couldn't work. I thought "Somebody finally fucking gets it!" She goes out, she hunts, she brings in her own food - AND SHE DOESN'T ASK FOR ANYTHING, SHE JUST FUCKS HER MASTER!

If we had an entire species like that one girl, men would quit going to war. Men would quit trying to become richer and more powerful. The species would quit being so materialistic. We'd stop destroying the Earth and each other in a vain attempt to rise to the top to show women that we are the best procreators. There would be no more pressure to succeed so we can fuck. Because if all women had slave mentality's then they would fuck because that's what they do, not because that's what they've whored for. And all women would be hunters and nesters because in a technological society, the old rules no longer apply.

What we need is a paradigm shift. It's happening, but slowly and sometimes incorrectly. Our women need to see the inner whore and reject it for their inner slave all the while embracing their feminist side and demand equality in the workforce.

When we are all hunters and we are all nesters then nobody is a whore and nobody is going to be driven to grab wealth and power to meet their biologically driven imperatives.

We are only part way there. Women have risen up to demand acknowledgement that in a technological society women can hunt for themselves. What they haven't done is acknowledge that in a technological society where they can hunt for themselves, if they want equality, they better stop being whores. To do that, they have to honestly acknowledge that yes, that is what has happened throughout the species past. If we want to have a future for our children, that needs to change as well.

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ORIGINAL: KitsapReign

Exactly the responses I expected.

First, a little about myself - which most of you won't believe because it pretty much flies in the face of what you want to stereotype me as. I not only have an IQ in the top 2%, making me a genius, I have an IQ in the top 2% of the top 2%.

So not stupid.

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Next stereotype you'll try to label me with is I lack social skills. The smart nerd with no street smarts, no wisdom, an inability to relate. I work closely with people every day in a setting where my social skills are critical. As for women, I've had 89 lovers, but only 10 were one night stands. I've had many long lasting relationships with women and carried on many multiple relationships at the same time.

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So, if you can now lay down your stereotypes and digest the fact that I'm a highly intelligent, educated and successful male, perhaps you might want to actually hear me out:

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Let's talk biology. I'm sure you've all heard in school that the one thing that drives all species is sex. The drive to procreate.

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Now, in our species, as someone pointed out in this very thread, men hunt and women nest. What do women need to make a nest? Material. (I am a material girl). What do men do with the food they catch besides eat it? They give it to the women and children. Why do men do such an altruistic thing as share their food they survive on with the women and children? So the species can procreate.

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Why do the women nest? to provide a safe place to raise the children. So the species can procreate.

This immediately creates an exchange system where the male gets sex for bringing home food. The better hunter, the better the chance to survive. Fuck the best hunter and get fed. The nest is safer with the best hunters. If a male doesn't hunt, he's not going to get sex. All males therefore hunt.

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Note that this situation doesn't exist this way in all species. Lions, for example. That is because male humans are better equipped to hunt, human children take a long time to be able to leave the nest and a host of other factors.

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Because of this naturally occurring social reality, females of the human race become hardwired to think like whores.

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It's no coincidence that the man buys the woman that big diamond ring proclaiming his love. She is a material girl after all and he is proclaiming to her that he is the great hunter.

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But what has been the long term consequences of this arrangement? The pressure on men to be more and more successful. The biological imperative to procreate is driving our species to create a system that drives men to try to earn more and more. A consumer driven, materialistic society that will ultimately and quite ironically bring about the extinction of the human race.

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I find it quite interesting that Revelations states that Babylon is a whore dressed in red. The same book says Money is the root of all evil. But what is money? An abstraction for our labor. And what was labor for 99% of human existence? Hunting for food to give to girl so you can fuck her.

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Money, success, wealth, power, all abstractions for the ability to say to the female, "Fuck me, you'll more successfully procreate. Your children will have the best survival chances."

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So it's no coincidence that the people who wrote the bible saw the correlation between money being the root of all evil and that the drive to acquire money being rooted in the drive to get pussy. Babylon truly would seem to be a whore dressed in red.

I'm an atheist by the way.

To try to even make the ludicrous claim that women are not all hard wired to be whores is absurd.

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For every 10,000 female prostitutes you'll fine 1 male prostitute our there servicing only women. Male prostitutes service men. And to be blind to the fact that this reality is driving a capitalistic system that is destroying the earth, causing wars (Helen of Troy anyone?) and bringing misery and death to countless masses is to be seriously in denial.

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The good news is that our species is waking up. Feminism, though hugely misguided in many ways, is also freeing the species from the whore mentality. Women are starting to believe they should bring in their own from the hunt. Men are starting to be accepted as home makers. the Domme and her submissive is becoming socially acceptable. And on the other side of the coin, more and more women are realizing that their submission needn't come at a price. That is how a true slave should think. What she gives, she gives freely.

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just more babble that i had to snip because it was tedious

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What do men do with the food they catch besides eat it? They give it to the women and children. Why do men do such an altruistic thing as share their food they survive on with the women and children? So the species can procreate.

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If a male doesn't hunt, he's not going to get sex. All males therefore hunt. Note that this situation doesn't exist this way in all species. Lions, for example. That is because male humans are better equipped to hunt,

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It's no coincidence that the man buys the woman that big diamond ring proclaiming his love. She is a material girl after all and he is proclaiming to her that he is the great hunter.

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I find it quite interesting that Revelations states that Babylon is a whore dressed in red. The same book says Money is the root of all evil. But what is money? An abstraction for our labor. And what was labor for 99% of human existence? Hunting for food to give to girl so you can fuck her. Money, success, wealth, power, all abstractions for the ability to say to the female, "Fuck me, you'll more successfully procreate. Your children will have the best survival chances."

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To try to even make the ludicrous claim that women are not all hard wired to be whores is absurd. For every 10,000 female prostitutes you'll fine 1 male prostitute our there servicing only women. Male prostitutes service men. And to be blind to the fact that this reality is driving a capitalistic system that is destroying the earth, causing wars (Helen of Troy anyone?) and bringing misery and death to countless masses is to be seriously in denial.

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The good news is that our species is waking up. Feminism, though hugely misguided in many ways, is also freeing the species from the whore mentality. Women are starting to believe they should bring in their own from the hunt.

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The other day I saw a profile of a girl who said she was a feminist and a slave. She said people told her that couldn't work. I thought "Somebody finally fucking gets it!" She goes out, she hunts, she brings in her own food - AND SHE DOESN'T ASK FOR ANYTHING, SHE JUST FUCKS HER MASTER!

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If we had an entire species like that one girl, men would quit going to war. Men would quit trying to become richer and more powerful. The species would quit being so materialistic.

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There would be no more pressure to succeed so we can fuck.

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ORIGINAL: KitsapReign



First, a little about myself - which most of you won't believe because it pretty much flies in the face of what you want to stereotype me as. I not only have an IQ in the top 2%, making me a genius, I have an IQ in the top 2% of the top 2%.

So not stupid.

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Let's talk biology. I'm sure you've all heard in school that the one thing that drives all species is sex. The drive to procreate. Now, in our species, as someone pointed out in this very thread, men hunt and women nest. What do women need to make a nest? Material. (I am a material girl). What do men do with the food they catch besides eat it? They give it to the women and children. Why do men do such an altruistic thing as share their food they survive on with the women and children? So the species can procreate.

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A consumer driven, materialistic society that will ultimately and quite ironically bring about the extinction of the human race.