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maxweber -> submissive duties (9/15/2016 1:33:39 PM)

Dear Folks,

The general rule, the only for many, is "SSC": safe, sane, and consensual. Unfortunately, we can't always add "legal," because many SSC practices are treated as illegal. But one practice which IS illegal, and should be, is writing homework and essays for domes in university. This is not being submissive, nor even submitting to abuse. It is perpetrating a legal and moral fraud. Dommes have no more right to fake a professional credential than anyone else. Please, do NOT do homework for dommes!

MW




ThatDizzyChick -> RE: submissive duties (9/15/2016 1:37:43 PM)

Or for Doms




freedomdwarf1 -> RE: submissive duties (9/15/2016 1:41:51 PM)

The only 'duty' a submissive has is to look after their Dom/es - whatever they require.
If that means the sub writing lines or essays for them, so be it.




ThatDizzyChick -> RE: submissive duties (9/15/2016 1:44:00 PM)

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If that means the sub writing lines or essays for them, so be it.

the Op meant writing the D-type's school essays




OsideGirl -> RE: submissive duties (9/15/2016 2:23:43 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick

quote:

If that means the sub writing lines or essays for them, so be it.

the Op meant writing the D-type's school essays

Exactly, essentially the Dom/me ends up with a degree they didn't earn.

The reality is that so many male "subs" are desperate for female attention and they won't care if it's morally wrong as long as there's a possibility of an orgasm.




freedomdwarf1 -> RE: submissive duties (9/15/2016 2:30:21 PM)

To my mind, if they are young enough to be going to school (and not as a 'mature' student), they haven't lived long enough to be a dominant.
All they know is kinky porn and think that's how it's done.




OsideGirl -> RE: submissive duties (9/15/2016 2:50:53 PM)

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ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1

To my mind, if they are young enough to be going to school (and not as a 'mature' student), they haven't lived long enough to be a dominant.
All they know is kinky porn and think that's how it's done.


Everyone has to start at some age and if someone is naturally dominant and alpha, then I think they can be. The same with anybody that starts off new, it's all about how they go about it.

Regardless of age, if there's a Dominant asking a submissive to do their homework...they're a liar and most likely not a Dominant at any age.




ThatDizzyChick -> RE: submissive duties (9/15/2016 5:33:48 PM)

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To my mind, if they are young enough to be going to school (and not as a 'mature' student), they haven't lived long enough to be a dominant.

And at what age does one get to be a dominant?




DesFIP -> RE: submissive duties (9/15/2016 7:01:20 PM)

Plagiarism is never right. And submitting someone else's work while claiming it is your own is wrong.

Now I do a lot of research for The Man for his business, and I proofread. After more than ten years of this he no longer transposes letters while typing form and from. Of course, that's probably because he rarely uses them anymore.




Gauge -> RE: submissive duties (9/15/2016 10:02:12 PM)


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ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick

And at what age does one get to be a dominant?



This is such an excellent question. I believe that it deserves it's own thread... and I am about to start one.




Babygirlaura -> RE: submissive duties (9/16/2016 8:29:22 AM)

Love thy Master!!!




Kana -> RE: submissive duties (9/17/2016 7:01:52 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: maxweber

Dear Folks,

The general rule, the only for many, is "SSC": safe, sane, and consensual. Unfortunately, we can't always add "legal," because many SSC practices are treated as illegal. But one practice which IS illegal, and should be, is writing homework and essays for domes in university. This is not being submissive, nor even submitting to abuse. It is perpetrating a legal and moral fraud. Dommes have no more right to fake a professional credential than anyone else. Please, do NOT do homework for dommes!

MW

Nah.
The only rule is do what works for you and yours and what anyone else does is on them..

AFAIC, you can take that SSC crap, roll it up like a newspaper, and use it for an insertable. Just like so many other flawed ideologies and blueprints for relationship parameters.
Do what works for you.
That's the only general rule and that's the only true rule...as long as it's done between consenting informed adults
(Gotta through the disclaimer in, lest peeps get downright idiotic)




Bunnicula -> RE: submissive duties (9/18/2016 2:07:49 AM)

I'm with Kana here. The boss woke me this morning so he could whip me soundly with electric flex. I won't go into details but rest assured laundry has to be done this morning😁

What we did was certainly not safe or particularly sane and he did not ask for my consent, but it works for us.




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