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Strap-on - 7/22/2006 2:47:40 PM

LotusSong

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In all honesty, has any Domme ever actually climaxed while using a strap-on without the clitoral stimulation?

I feel the recipient is far more satisfied than the giver with one.

What are your thoughts/experiences?

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RE: Strap-on - 7/22/2006 3:00:19 PM

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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

In all honesty, has any Domme ever actually climaxed while using a strap-on without the clitoral stimulation?

I feel the recipient is far more satisfied than the giver with one.

What are your thoughts/experiences?

Other times, the recipient may not be enjoying it. That's where the satisfaction sometimes lies.

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RE: Strap-on - 7/22/2006 3:35:19 PM

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Oh but the feeling of power as your giving it to your boy good and hard, knowing how many times he's done this to some woman and now its his turn. Its a rush for sure particulary if he's on all fours and you grab a handful of hair and *ride the pony* just like so many men love to do to women. I call mine all sorts of names, talk dirty to him and sometimes the rush of power that comes from that is better than an orgasm, or quite close.

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RE: Strap-on - 7/22/2006 3:38:48 PM

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Other times, the recipient may not be enjoying it. That's where the satisfaction sometimes lies.

*grins* .... must be one of those sadistic types! lol

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RE: Strap-on - 7/22/2006 4:17:25 PM

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In all honesty, has any Domme ever actually climaxed while using a strap-on without the clitoral stimulation?

I don't recall having climaxed, but only because I'm too focused on how I'm doing it, and the person I'm doing it to's enjoyment and well-being to relax and enjoy myself that much.

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I feel the recipient is far more satisfied than the giver with one

Not so at all; I very much enjoy doing it.

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What are your thoughts/experiences?

I love doing it to a boy I care for... For me it is one way of training him to be my obedient but whorish (with me only) male wife. M

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RE: Strap-on - 7/22/2006 5:25:52 PM

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I have enjoyed taking my pet by phone with a strap-on and got so hot telling him word for word what I was doing and hearing him do it. the mind is a powerful sex organ. If stimulated right it goes beyond anything that can be put in words.. moans and whimpers

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RE: Strap-on - 7/22/2006 6:08:46 PM

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The reason I posted this question is because.. I just never really got into the practice.. I'd do but,. fealt rather silly and there was no sexual stimulation about it. I see it is the fantacy aspect of it.

but what I did learn:: Guys, I take my hat off to you!. The effort you have to do to keep the thing IN on a constant basis while attemptin to stimulate.. no WONDER you roll over and want to go to sleep afterwards!!!

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RE: Strap-on - 7/22/2006 6:18:30 PM

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personally ,and,from not much experience ;i'm really surprized ,to hear a "reciever" is the happy one;personally as a giver ;it's work to give most times ,and a performance ;i don't mind; sometimes; but ;that's a rare lady; anyway.... thanks for the perspective;i never knew!i thot they wanted it to help the one they thot had to give it:again ;who knew?!
personally: i think the shafty thing used
bangs the arousal areas pretty much ,for the hopefully horney giver;no extra manipulation or stimulation needed,and personally ,again:
i'd ask, or find out from the giver;do you wanna ' give it!?....so you know they feel the arousal instead ,of the bun - muscle workout ,or pressure to look good while dying and delivering.

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RE: Strap-on - 7/22/2006 6:38:08 PM

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It did make me happy when I knew how much he enjoyed it and that's pretty much the onlyreason I did it. It never was a humiliation thing for us.

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