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Hello Everyone. - 9/20/2016 5:48:47 PM

ThomasJay

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Hey everyone. Im really new to all of this. This site is great but I'm already having trouble understanding the interface and how to interact with people. I really new to the BDSM Community. Something about it that makes me excited above normal sexual activity. The reason I am on here is because there just isn't a community where i live. No one to talk to about it, practice it with, etc. Im looking for someone or some group to belong, preferably someone of the opposite sex because thats just what I'm into. Want someone to understand, relate with, and even practice with.

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RE: Hello Everyone. - 9/20/2016 6:05:32 PM

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Welcome to the forums.

What makes you think there are no groups near you? Philly isn't far away. Lots happening in Philly. Sometimes you gotta travel a little bit to get to a munch or event. Heck, we used to drive 120 miles to get to a munch when we live in MT. The problem got solved when we started a munch here.

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RE: Hello Everyone. - 9/21/2016 9:15:39 AM

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Welcome to the site and forums.

Geographically there is the world and that is the community although the jury is still out with hollow earth

as peppermint said I am sure there are munches and clubs near you. There are fine places, not scary places as most people think and just state you a re newbie and they will all make you welcome and sit you in a friendly group of kinksters. Not everyone wishes to go, infact most people in the lifestyle never attend so get participating and begin threads in the relevant forum on the forums and browsing and emailing. But please bear in mind most women are not sexual objects and the opposite of easy on these places.

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RE: Hello Everyone. - 9/21/2016 9:36:58 AM

Diffident

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Welcome to the site and forums.

Are we allowed to link Fetlife in here? Quite a lot of New Jersey groups over there.

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RE: Hello Everyone. - 9/21/2016 9:59:46 AM

WickedsDesire

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Diffident I think they will allow that - as this place does not have such a section. But we are not on all there or wish to be so. All you can do is give your finest suggestions.

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RE: Hello Everyone. - 9/21/2016 10:09:24 AM

Diffident

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Ok thanks.

If you want to find your local community then join Fetlife and search for New Jersey under "groups". There are loads.

Things that are happening in New Jersey

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