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20 year old Findomme, a little about me - 9/23/2016 1:24:07 AM

GoddessLawson

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Hello everyone!

I just created my profile and figured it would be appropriate to do a quick introduction.

I'm a 20 year old verified financial domme. From some of the posts I've already read I have the understanding that financial domination generally isn't accepted here.

Thats completely understandable. I've only been practicing financial domination for a short time now and I can definitely see why so many people hate it. There are so many fakes out there or vanilla teenage girls that think this is the non sexual alternative to a sugar daddy.

However, that is not me. I am a financial domme because I love power. And we all know the reason a sub gets into any form of domination is because they want to loose control for a moment. To not have their decisions be their own. To not have to worry about all their normal responsibilities. They want their life to be simple where they can only focus on their respective domme and how to please her during a session. I don't think this is free money or a get rich quick scheme. I work two jobs and am self sufficient. However, having a sub hand over his hard earned money is a higher form of submission than any physical torture. Bruises fade but the money he gives to me never returns. He's choosing to work and send in hopes of increasing my happiness versus spending the money on his own luxuries. That's ultimate submission to me. In return I love providing a understanding almost motherly role to my subs outside of sessions. I want what's best for them and to improve their life in any way I can.

In return I love providing a understanding almost motherly role to my subs outside of sessions. I want what's best for them and to improve their life in any way I can.

Before I got into findom I practiced traditional BDSM as a switch. I say switch because i did play a submissive role on very rare occasions. I started experimenting at the age of 17 when I went to college. That's roughly 4 years of experience.

Two of my favorite things are orgasm control and tease/denial. I'm a true sadomasochist and love giving pain as much as i enjoy recieving it.

My favorite tool/toy is currently a flogger. It's very astheticly pleasing to me. The sound, the way the leather feels against skin, how easily it is to go from teasing to torture in a split second with it.

Sorry for the novel guys and gals but I wanted to get everything out at once and try to squash any questions about my legitimacy before they even arose. I won't be posting the "looking for a paypig" spam posts, that's not my style at all. I'll be around in the forums trying to provide a bit of insight/helpful convo in the meantime. If anyone cares to talk or has any questions feel free to message me. I'm always up for talking to another domme/dom in a polite conversation whether they're into findom or not. Subs should refer to the last paragraph on my profile for message protocol.

Hope everyone enjoys their day!

< Message edited by GoddessLawson -- 9/23/2016 1:25:16 AM >

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RE: 20 year old Findomme, a little about me - 9/23/2016 9:38:34 AM

Diffident

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Welcome to the forums. Don't worry, it is the manner in which many findommes post that gets the bad responses here, and that was a good introduction.

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RE: 20 year old Findomme, a little about me - 9/23/2016 10:16:48 AM

TNDommeK

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Actually, you're most welcome here. You acted like a decent person, that's all we ask. There are a few of us FDs here, I'd like to think we are liked. :)

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RE: 20 year old Findomme, a little about me - 9/23/2016 10:27:23 AM

OsideGirl

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Welcome to the forums.

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RE: 20 year old Findomme, a little about me - 9/23/2016 12:44:39 PM

stef

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ORIGINAL: GoddessLawson

Hello everyone!

I just created my profile and figured it would be appropriate to do a quick introduction.

I'm a 20 year old verified financial domme. From some of the posts I've already read I have the understanding that financial domination generally isn't accepted here.

It's not financial domination that isn't accepted here, it's the 18-year-old "queens", "empresseses", "goddesses", etc. who pop in to declare how superior they are and then command all "worms", "pay pigs", "losers", etc. to pay their rent or make their car payment. Their profiles usually have a picture in it that has been around the world a few thousand times, and they're probably as genuine as the last Nigerian prince who emailed you. They pop in, drop their load and are rarely heard from again as they are off to post their ad on whatever other websites they can find.

Don't t be one of them and things will be much better for you here :)

Welcome!

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RE: 20 year old Findomme, a little about me - 9/23/2016 8:25:11 PM

MissBynxieQuinn

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Lovely intro! If you start to get flack that's why there is a block button, but from what I have read you have full control and understanding of what REAL findomming is!

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