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Can a Dom manage a couple as his subs - 9/28/2016 2:30:50 AM

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We would like to know if a Dom can treat a married couple as his subs. Can this be a relationship between three people, or will it always end with someone missing out. Or the Dom only wants the sub women and rejects the sub male. If any one with some experience on this please.

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RE: Can a Dom manage a couple as his subs - 9/28/2016 2:49:23 AM

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Unless the Dom is is Bi and willingly equal on both genders, it is very likely that one of the couple is likely to get left out.

Unless you strike it lucky, I would think you'd be better off finding a Dom/Domme couple for your needs - especially at your age.

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RE: Can a Dom manage a couple as his subs - 9/28/2016 7:47:13 AM

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Depends on what it is you're looking for.

It's significantly easier to find a Bull for a cuck couple, where the Dom and wife cuckolds the husband than to find a Dom who wants an equal poly triangle with both husband and wife, and easier to find someone who just want to play once in a while than live the dynamic.

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RE: Can a Dom manage a couple as his subs - 9/28/2016 8:13:05 AM

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I think a lot would depend on the Dom and the sub couple in question. It's hard to make generalisations that cover every case, though as the two replies above make clear, you're a lot more likely to get unlucky than lucky with any case at all.

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RE: Can a Dom manage a couple as his subs - 9/28/2016 8:51:37 AM

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I think a lot would depend on the Dom and the sub couple in question. It's hard to make generalisations that cover every case, though as the two replies above make clear, you're a lot more likely to get unlucky than lucky with any case at all.

I agree.

I do know of a poly family that is set up this way. The Dom does not interact sexually with the male sub, but he will play with him. The female sub has been ranked above the male, so any sexual activity comes from her.

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RE: Can a Dom manage a couple as his subs - 9/28/2016 9:50:22 AM

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It is not impossible.
It is very unlikely.

why?

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RE: Can a Dom manage a couple as his subs - 9/28/2016 10:59:10 AM

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quote:

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I think a lot would depend on the Dom and the sub couple in question. It's hard to make generalisations that cover every case, though as the two replies above make clear, you're a lot more likely to get unlucky than lucky with any case at all.

I agree.

I do know of a poly family that is set up this way. The Dom does not interact sexually with the male sub, but he will play with him. The female sub has been ranked above the male, so any sexual activity comes from her.

This ^ tends to work fairly well for some.

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RE: Can a Dom manage a couple as his subs - 9/28/2016 11:57:37 PM

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The basic answer to your question is Yes.

In regards to somebody missing out or not. This all depends upon the drives, motivations and interests of the people involved. Some couples tend to enjoy a cuckold situation. Some couples may wish to be used somewhat equally.

Also, D/s alone does not convey sexual activity one way or another. Some people enjoy none sexual service based D/s, some are after humiliation and such past the realm of sexual. Although sexual activity can be included or excluded in service or humiliation.

So in regards to the successfulness, It al depends upon what everybody is looking for.

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