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Damaged in need or repairs - 9/28/2016 11:34:41 AM

littlejacob

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Hello,
I am a male slave that many consider damaged goods. My last Mistress was in control of every aspect of my life(as she should have been) but somewhere on that ride the train went off the tracks in a "extremely controlling" way. I bagan to loose control of my bodily functions. I now find myself needing to wear diapers and cannot seem to retrain myself to the toilet. Shortly after it started I would wet myself if it rained or I heard running water. Soon after that my Owner relocated to the U.K. for her job,( nice promotion) and I was unable to follow due to ill parent. i have become very interested in the ABDL sub culture since that day.

I am here looking for a Mommy/Domme or a Daddy/Dom as I really need to be owned again.
If interested please look me up,
If your just going to be rude or judgmental, save it for someone else, I've really grown tired of it.

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RE: Damaged in need or repairs - 9/28/2016 12:43:25 PM

OsideGirl

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As a piece of advice, I would suggest counseling and working on yourself, rather than using a D/s AB scenario as a crutch.

Having a relationship can't fix or repair you, only you can do that.

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RE: Damaged in need or repairs - 9/28/2016 2:52:43 PM

Shlawberry

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Have you tried Kegel exercises, and general strength training, like walking, and then rewarding yourself for using the toilet with something you love? Maybe that would help. People in really controlling relationships can get a conversion disorder. It's where emotional stress converts into physical symptoms. I was in a very abusive relationship and lost bowel and bladder function from a conversion disorder. I got out of the controlling relationship, but it took me years to recover emotionally, especially that first year. I agree with the other poster that if you heal first that is better, than just saying, that you will wear diapers cause it's a kink when maybe something else is going on. My bowel and bladder function came back after a short time. I went to loads of counseling. My psychiatrist says I will be completely recovered soon. I have zero interest in diaper kink. It was neurological loss of function.

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RE: Damaged in need or repairs - 9/28/2016 4:59:36 PM

littlejacob

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I am in therapy now and hay been for 4 months. I have also been reading up on age play and the D/s possibilities it opens up. There is something drawing me to it.

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RE: Damaged in need or repairs - 9/28/2016 8:25:01 PM

Shlawberry

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cool, cool. I like age play myself but when I do age play, I'm more of a middle.