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Need advice - 9/29/2016 4:01:06 AM

Slutjohn

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New to life style. i am maie submissive with Male Dom. W/we meet for first time next week and i am looking for advice on preparation and what to expect.

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RE: Need advice - 9/29/2016 6:21:03 AM

Greatlilbabygirl

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First you need to ask your Dom those things. We can have no idea what he is going to do.

Second, this would be a better thread for one of the discussion forums

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RE: Need advice - 9/29/2016 8:15:54 AM

WickedsDesire

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1. Coffee, cake, wine, beer (not too much) and discussion.

2. Or did you mean a hookup kinda date straight into the fire so to speak – watch out for the branding iron. I myself like to brand them with my muffin-iron and declare them my property.

3. In essence I think you should expect option 1. I am not saying it’s not unheard of for certain elements of option 2 to also come into play. But I am a little more worried you/both don’t know what to expect or have even discuss.

4. Now I myself are housebound so they have to be comfortable coming over. No need for me to go into this all the time.

5. But always let someone know if its not a public place and a safe phone call to a friend.

6. Now ive no idea how long you have known each other, whether either of you are in another relationship, where you are meeting, but the answer is above and option1 is worth a re read,

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RE: Need advice - 9/30/2016 12:03:52 AM

DarkSteven

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What do you want to happen? Because that's a huge factor.

There's good advice not to play on the first date. (Although I think e everyone has broken that rule occasionally. )

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