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Now....I'll couch my statements with presumptions.... - 9/30/2016 4:26:16 PM   
AtUrCervix


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Status: offline 		Every guy that has been accused of heresy....and (some of us.....actually.....are decent fellows)....we are presumed (by VIRTUE of our appendage) to have a predisposed position......I'm rambling.......gawdammit....can we get a goddamned break?????

Jessssus fucking H!!!

Fuck it....ya know what....some of us ain't assholes.

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RE: Now....I'll couch my statements with presumptions.... - 9/30/2016 4:39:55 PM   
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RE: Now....I'll couch my statements with presumptions.... - 9/30/2016 5:32:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: AtUrCervix

Every guy that has been accused of heresy....and (some of us.....actually.....are decent fellows)....we are presumed (by VIRTUE of our appendage) to have a predisposed position......I'm rambling.......gawdammit....can we get a goddamned break?????

Jessssus fucking H!!!

Fuck it....ya know what....some of us ain't assholes.




I feel your pain, bud.

Unfortunately the assholes make it difficult for the non-assholes, who may be assholes at times but are generally decent human beings.

It aint fair to your average non-asshole male that some women go for guilty until proven innocent, but (spoiler alert) life isn't always fair. And you don't know what shit they have been through.

There are plenty of decent people out there who believe in innocent until proved guilty or the benefit of the doubt.

Personally I just go for avoiding being an asshole and shrugging my shoulders when someone makes unfair assumptions without knowing me.

I know you know this but butt-hurt never helps and alienates the very people who, if given the chance, could turn out to be your best friends.

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RE: Now....I'll couch my statements with presumptions.... - 10/1/2016 8:47:05 PM   
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RE: Now....I'll couch my statements with presumptions.... - 10/1/2016 8:59:54 PM   
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ORIGINAL: AtUrCervix

Every guy that has been accused of heresy....and (some of us.....actually.....are decent fellows)....we are presumed (by VIRTUE of our appendage) to have a predisposed position......I'm rambling.......gawdammit....can we get a goddamned break?????

Jessssus fucking H!!!

Fuck it....ya know what....some of us ain't assholes.



well yanno, we can all be assholes. Some more than others, some better than others.

I still lubs you even when I disagree with you. but it doesnt become you.

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RE: Now....I'll couch my statements with presumptions.... - 10/2/2016 4:46:08 AM   
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Status: offline 		What man hasn't been in the middle of a long, drawn-out verbal fight with a woman, while not having a clue what the hell he did wrong? That's not saying she didn't have cause, but although we share the same air on this planet, women and men are separate bundles of flesh and energy, determined to collide for pleasure, conflict, or companionship. We all tend to base our opinions of the other sex based on past performance, and in the past, men do not have a good track record. Women never forget ... men always forget. The day you finally figure out that a woman is not a man with tits, and that the thought pattern is about 180 degrees off from yours on a regular basis, is the day you might be able to understand why they are NOT like you, and if you can figure out a way to experience their warm loving nature without poking things that set them off, you need to write a book on the topic, as you will make millions. As someone who was actually trained by a woman to try to think like a woman, believe me when I say, it's way more complex than the normal black & white thought patterns men are used to. Lets just say that gender is much more than physical appearance, and society has tainted what at one time was a mating process, into a battle arena with opposing teams ... men have clubs & stones ... women hate clubs and stones. Look no further than these sites for reason, as a good percentage of men on here are looking for extramarital sex more than true BDSM.

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RE: Now....I'll couch my statements with presumptions.... - 10/6/2016 9:23:00 PM   
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Don't worry, tomorrow will come soon enough.

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RE: Now....I'll couch my statements with presumptions.... - 10/7/2016 11:29:24 AM   
Awareness


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ORIGINAL: AtUrCervix

Every guy that has been accused of heresy....and (some of us.....actually.....are decent fellows)....we are presumed (by VIRTUE of our appendage) to have a predisposed position......I'm rambling.......gawdammit....can we get a goddamned break?????

Jessssus fucking H!!!

Fuck it....ya know what....some of us ain't assholes.


And that is your problem. If you're an asshole, women know they can't manipulate you. If you're a pussy, they know they can.

Guess which group they're attracted to. Go on.... guess.


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RE: Now....I'll couch my statements with presumptions.... - 10/7/2016 11:42:11 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Awareness


quote:

ORIGINAL: AtUrCervix

Every guy that has been accused of heresy....and (some of us.....actually.....are decent fellows)....we are presumed (by VIRTUE of our appendage) to have a predisposed position......I'm rambling.......gawdammit....can we get a goddamned break?????

Jessssus fucking H!!!

Fuck it....ya know what....some of us ain't assholes.


And that is your problem. If you're an asshole, women know they can't manipulate you. If you're a pussy, they know they can.

Guess which group they're attracted to. Go on.... guess.



The nice ones with great ass......ets
At least that's me.

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RE: Now....I'll couch my statements with presumptions.... - 10/9/2016 12:03:00 PM   
WickedsDesire


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Status: offline 		So you are proposing immediate enslavement of all women kind? The thinkers to the muffinium mines of delicious toil, the lookers drizzled in oil, the ones bewitched with stick known as ugly banished to the savage lands known engliend.

They are not all women open your eyes.

I know what you mean. But understand men created the ones you are talking about, or enabled them. And by virtue of volume men are simply worse.

It cannot be fixed. I have no solutions. I actually feel sorry for the so called genuine men there are a few

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RE: Now....I'll couch my statements with presumptions.... - 10/9/2016 5:29:33 PM   
StrongSpirit


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Status: offline 		There is some truth to the belief that 'men treated women badly, so women treat men the same'.

But guess what? The circle of pain does not stop there. Those men that treated women badly? They were treated badly by other woman.

When people claim that women are just reacting to men, they are being incredibly sexist. You are basically saying that women aren't responsible for their own actions, that you have to forgive them for being the victim of bad men. But you aren't willing to forgive the men for being victims of bad women.

That is bull shit. Women are just as capable as men - which means THEY are just as responsible for their bad actions as the men are for their bad actions. Women are not children that need to be protected, they are adults that can take care of them selves and are responsible for their own bullshit.

In my personal experience, the real truth is that a small minority of men treat women very very badly, while a large majority of women treat men mildly badly. While there is no way to accurately measure the crap we give each other, I trust in two main philosophical beliefs to account for this.

1) Women are fundamentally human beings, not another species. We are equals at heart. This means equally bad as much as equally good.

2) Humans react to how we are treated by spreading the pain around. (or the kindness, but, less so). So eventually, it evens out, at least over large groups such as "male" and "female"




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RE: Now....I'll couch my statements with presumptions.... - 10/9/2016 8:37:17 PM   
Kana


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ORIGINAL: AtUrCervix
Fuck it....ya know what....some of us ain't assholes.


Yeah, about that. I'm an asshole and I'm OK with that.
Hell, point of fact, I'm often proud of it.
Bottom line is that in general I try to be a nice guy, give people some rope, cut some slack. But there comes a time when the BS gets to deep and then someone needs to be a dick.
I'm OK being that guy.
In fact, usually by the time I get to that point, I'm going to utterly enjoy being an asshole, I'm gonna be a big on and the recipient is gonna damn well deserve it.
Fuck nice.
Nice is all good and fun and kind and shit. But in the end, sometimes you gotta be a dick to get shit done, keep things in line and people accountable.
Nothing wrong with that. Takes character. :-)

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Those men that treated women badly? They were treated badly by other woman.

Snickers. Yeah. Pretty much every guy I ever met, asshole or not, had their heart torn out by a broad.
Usually while still young and dumb enough to be naive and trusting.
Later, when women ask why men are so jaded and guarded, they should maybe consider that pain taught them to be that way.


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RE: Now....I'll couch my statements with presumptions.... - 10/12/2016 5:57:56 PM   
AtUrCervix


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ORIGINAL: longwayhome


quote:

ORIGINAL: AtUrCervix

Every guy that has been accused of heresy....and (some of us.....actually.....are decent fellows)....we are presumed (by VIRTUE of our appendage) to have a predisposed position......I'm rambling.......gawdammit....can we get a goddamned break?????

Jessssus fucking H!!!

Fuck it....ya know what....some of us ain't assholes.




I feel your pain, bud.

Unfortunately the assholes make it difficult for the non-assholes, who may be assholes at times but are generally decent human beings.

It aint fair to your average non-asshole male that some women go for guilty until proven innocent, but (spoiler alert) life isn't always fair. And you don't know what shit they have been through.

There are plenty of decent people out there who believe in innocent until proved guilty or the benefit of the doubt.

Personally I just go for avoiding being an asshole and shrugging my shoulders when someone makes unfair assumptions without knowing me.

I know you know this but butt-hurt never helps and alienates the very people who, if given the chance, could turn out to be your best friends.


Yep....flawlessly stated.

Chics get "abused" because....they're chics.

(So do men....but for very different reasons).

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RE: Now....I'll couch my statements with presumptions.... - 10/12/2016 6:33:44 PM   
AtUrCervix


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ORIGINAL: Awareness


quote:

ORIGINAL: AtUrCervix

Every guy that has been accused of heresy....and (some of us.....actually.....are decent fellows)....we are presumed (by VIRTUE of our appendage) to have a predisposed position......I'm rambling.......gawdammit....can we get a goddamned break?????

Jessssus fucking H!!!

Fuck it....ya know what....some of us ain't assholes.


And that is your problem. If you're an asshole, women know they can't manipulate you. If you're a pussy, they know they can.

Guess which group they're attracted to. Go on.... guess.



Yeah.....I know.

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RE: Now....I'll couch my statements with presumptions.... - 10/13/2016 4:32:12 PM   
kiwisub22


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Status: offline 		My Sweetie tells me that all men are pigs.

I find myself agreeing with him, but men are saved from eternal loneliness because of their thoughtfulness, kindness, fun, intelligence and so on and so forth etc etc etc.

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RE: Now....I'll couch my statements with presumptions.... - 10/18/2016 4:49:49 PM   
AtUrCervix


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ORIGINAL: StrongSpirit

There is some truth to the belief that 'men treated women badly, so women treat men the same'.

But guess what? The circle of pain does not stop there. Those men that treated women badly? They were treated badly by other woman.

When people claim that women are just reacting to men, they are being incredibly sexist. You are basically saying that women aren't responsible for their own actions, that you have to forgive them for being the victim of bad men. But you aren't willing to forgive the men for being victims of bad women.

That is bull shit. Women are just as capable as men - which means THEY are just as responsible for their bad actions as the men are for their bad actions. Women are not children that need to be protected, they are adults that can take care of them selves and are responsible for their own bullshit.

In my personal experience, the real truth is that a small minority of men treat women very very badly, while a large majority of women treat men mildly badly. While there is no way to accurately measure the crap we give each other, I trust in two main philosophical beliefs to account for this.

1) Women are fundamentally human beings, not another species. We are equals at heart. This means equally bad as much as equally good.

2) Humans react to how we are treated by spreading the pain around. (or the kindness, but, less so). So eventually, it evens out, at least over large groups such as "male" and "female"



Flawless.

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RE: Now....I'll couch my statements with presumptions.... - 10/18/2016 4:50:51 PM   
AtUrCervix


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ORIGINAL: Kana


quote:

ORIGINAL: AtUrCervix
Fuck it....ya know what....some of us ain't assholes.


Yeah, about that. I'm an asshole and I'm OK with that.
Hell, point of fact, I'm often proud of it.
Bottom line is that in general I try to be a nice guy, give people some rope, cut some slack. But there comes a time when the BS gets to deep and then someone needs to be a dick.
I'm OK being that guy.
In fact, usually by the time I get to that point, I'm going to utterly enjoy being an asshole, I'm gonna be a big on and the recipient is gonna damn well deserve it.
Fuck nice.
Nice is all good and fun and kind and shit. But in the end, sometimes you gotta be a dick to get shit done, keep things in line and people accountable.
Nothing wrong with that. Takes character. :-)

quote:

Those men that treated women badly? They were treated badly by other woman.

Snickers. Yeah. Pretty much every guy I ever met, asshole or not, had their heart torn out by a broad.
Usually while still young and dumb enough to be naive and trusting.
Later, when women ask why men are so jaded and guarded, they should maybe consider that pain taught them to be that way.



Flawless (again).

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RE: Now....I'll couch my statements with presumptions.... - 10/18/2016 4:52:06 PM   
AtUrCervix


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ORIGINAL: kiwisub22

My Sweetie tells me that all men are pigs.

I find myself agreeing with him, but men are saved from eternal loneliness because of their thoughtfulness, kindness, fun, intelligence and so on and so forth etc etc etc.


Niiiiice.

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RE: Now....I'll couch my statements with presumptions.... - 10/19/2016 7:09:25 AM   
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ORIGINAL: AtUrCervix

Every guy that has been accused of heresy....


You gotta look at the bright side, sweetie.. folks used to get burned at the stake for that sorta shit and, yanno, we have mostly shunned that practice..so..there is progress being made. :D

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and (some of us.....actually.....are decent fellows)....
I am aware. I get along well with decent fellows.

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we are presumed (by VIRTUE of our appendage)
I would never presume an appendage to have virtue.

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to have a predisposed position......I'm rambling.......gawdammit....can we get a goddamned break?????


I must admit I did supppose that guys liked standing up to pee..but by all means, if you need a break..sit down and take a load off. Other than that, ya get 10 mins in the morning, ten mins afternoon and 30 mins for lunch. Yer off at five O. How many more damn breaks ya want?!

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Jessssus fucking H!!!

Fuck it....ya know what....some of us ain't assholes.




Yeah well, it ain't the asshole that matters..it's the butt plug. Too big and you bleed..too small the damn thing falls out..but that perfect fit..that brings the contented sigh.

Go for the sigh.


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