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louisboy -> Rain drops and lollipops (10/1/2016 7:09:39 PM)

I'm an old geezeer now. But I was a personal servant for several men. I'm not into rough stuff, but orders are orders. You exist for his pleasure. I couldn't have been at his beck and call, if I didn't love him. My service was an expression of love. I'm not sure this applies to the more violent aspects of slavery/servitude, or does it?



Greatlilbabygirl -> RE: Rain drops and lollipops (10/1/2016 7:59:49 PM)

Good question. I do not think love must exist in bdsm or service for many. For me it would if I was devoting myself to someone as more than an occasional play partner, but I've heard many say love isn't a prerequisite for sincere service and certainly not for the receipt of some very intense and extreme pain.



ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Rain drops and lollipops (10/1/2016 8:56:41 PM)

Depends on the people involved.



OsideGirl -> RE: Rain drops and lollipops (10/1/2016 9:16:02 PM)


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ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick

Depends on the people involved.

^^^ This

Personally for me, there needs to affection with the possibility of love.

But, I have known others that have not had it and a few that prefer not to have it.



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