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ORIGINAL: RainbowsandUnico
I post this text message in an attempt to not harrashly react to my emotions upon reading it. It would be easly for me to think. "No way that's cruel and no one should ever say that" however, perhaps there is a train of thought behind it from a Master view point that is logical?
Any Master's out there that hold similar beliefs, or thought processes, that might care to explain their feelings behind statements such as this below? The deal is reference is ony referring to my agreement to give myself to him in a relationship and the fact that some punishments are outstanding at this point.
"You understand that with this deal, when you are tied down crying and screaming "Please Sir I dont want this" and "please no", I will mot be stopping and will not release you...?
This seems harrash...am I veiwing it the wrong way?
With 5 years of communication and negotiation, I would have to assume that whatever act you would be wanting to stop had already been discussed, and that you have agreed to it fully.
And if it's a punishment, then you know, and probably agree that you 'Have it coming'.
So, completely ignoring 'no means no' which has been discussed already, think about why you would want or need to stop any scene, why he feels it should last longer, and tge consequences of doing both.
Sorry, but you can't get off the rollercoaster halfway through, just because you have to piss. And you can't just get out of the airplane until it's landed and completely stopped.
If you've discussed and agreed to various scenes and play types, then it's easy to have a verbal/mental walkthrough, and to examine legitimate reasons to end the scene, or to switch to something else, possibly alternating back to the original action.
I'll give you a personal example.
Every sub I ever even consider, I warn that I'm going to fuck their throat. I tell them bluntly that in that moment, I won't give a damn about their gag reflex, or if they can breathe, or if they're crying, or have whatever coming out of their nose. They're told that in that moment, my orgasm is the top priority. They've all agreed, but when it's time, it can be too much for them, and they can't finish.
None of them get a second chance. First of all, my dick isn't big enough for me to have any sympathy for them. None of them were ever in danger of losing consciousness from lack of oxygen. I've never actual made any of them puke.
That leaves the only possible true reason for ending the scene being because they just didn't want to finish it. Even though none of them could possibly have any sense of how much longer I would have needed to continue. Not only does that show me a lack of trust and a lack of true submission, but also a selfishness that I have no desire to deal with.
So weigh your true dedication to your Master against whatever reasons you may have for ending the scene, barring actual injury. And in the case of punishments, correct the behavior so that the punishment scene isn't necessary in the first place.
Everything else can be discussed again once the scene has ended as your Master had originally planned.
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