Wayward5oul
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ORIGINAL: Greta75 quote:
ORIGINAL: Wayward5oul Its not 'let him' as in giving consent, Greta. Its 'let him' as in, after the fact, when they should have been accusing him of doing that, they don't because they know it will do no good. Honestly right, when you hook up with anybody. There is a vibe right? Most of the time, they don't ask permission when to kiss you, or if it's okay to touch you. It goes by feel. If the man misinterprete where this is going, and starts caressing you, or kissing you. And you inform him that is not okay. Usually he apologises and that's the end of it. At least in my experience of hooking up with strangers, it's like that. One of my hook ups, everything just happened so naturally, we were both equally attracted to each other, he kissed me, I kissed him back, and then he fingered me. It was great! Spontaneous, and just feeling equal passion at that moment. He never asked permission. The feeling was right. But if I didn't feel the same, I'd simply have told him, sorry, this is not okay. Usually the guys back off. Oh ffs.
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