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new guy peeks out of closet - 10/19/2016 1:17:19 AM

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Hi Collarspace. I am new to the overall scene and community. Kink revolving around power exchange has been a part of my fantasies for a long time, and it has been kind of overwhelming lately. In most of these fantasies I am submissive and made to degrade myself, compelled by my lust for a beautiful woman. I also fantasize about dominating women sexually, and my vanilla relationships have been more the latter than former. So I consider myself a switch. But I've always kept this strictly bottled, and it's only recently that I've shared this with anyone, and only anonymously at that.

I am now looking to explore kinks with a female playmate or partner. One thing that has been challenging is the vast gulf between BDSM in fantasy and porn versus the actual scene and lifestylers, which I am barely acquainted with. So that's what I'm working on, and figuring out how to make connections. I know that I need to do some local meets and events. I am wide open to any advice or suggestions. Please send anything overly critical privately.