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HoneyBears -> RE: Mistress says no porn but I want to watch it (10/23/2016 12:52:21 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Shandirra
Several points you and the OP are missing:
1) OP entered into an agreement that had strict rules.
2) OP broke those rules.
3) OP shows zero remorse.
This lack of integrity is weak. His word and action is without honor. He should be ashamed because to be without honor is a woeful state of existence. He is not worth any consideration by any dominant.
Part of what makes power exchange work is honor. Both parties must honor the role they've chosen and abide by the negotiated parameters. The OP has failed to do so.
To come here whining about it, seeking commiseration, probably also breaks another rule. For if it were I? I would not want my private interaction with a submissive male made public, as it were. Breach of privacy is a huge turn off.
^Exactly on every point^
Furthermore, his integrity appears to be nonexistent, not merely lacking, nor merely being weak in character.
Irregardless of his not being a properly obedient submissive (who strives to please, to listen, and to improve upon himself), this is the type of person one should avoid like the plague.
Untrustworthy, sneaky, a cheat and a liar. The kind of person who regrets getting caught for his misbehavior, not for the MULTIPLE offenses themselves.
Because such an individual fits the pattern of recidivism and typically cannot be rehabilitated successfully, this is a no-win situation for the other partner in the relationship.
Running his mouth in public like a brat, instead of asking for advice on how to remedy this situation respectfully, would qualify as a strike on top of the rest of the strikes and fouls he has surely already incurred by now, automatic deal breakers notwithstanding.
OP has given his Mistress plenty of good, solid reasons to kick this joker to the curb.
-- Lisa & Cub
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