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mummy domme - 10/22/2016 7:20:44 AM

Cutebibabyboy

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Is there a link.
It seems to be the hardest thing to find.
I guess its a more sensual mistress/domme.

I need a mummy so bad.

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RE: mummy domme - 10/22/2016 9:10:22 AM

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Join the queue...

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RE: mummy domme - 10/22/2016 9:35:08 AM

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They don't tend to like potty mouths; or fake pics.

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RE: mummy domme - 10/22/2016 10:48:43 AM

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Join the queue...

No..stand out from it.

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RE: mummy domme - 10/22/2016 11:31:00 AM

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Join the queue...

No..stand out from it.

My guess is OP is looking for advice on how to do just that... Any tips on how to stand out in a desirable way? I could give OP lots of advice on how *not* to do it, but that would be a huge post and I think we're looking for the Mummy/Domme perspective anyway.

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RE: mummy domme - 10/22/2016 11:52:30 AM

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I think we're looking for the Mummy/Domme perspective anyway.

Ok..well, then tips from me are useless here. By all means..feel free to join the cattle call and stand in queue with the rest of the herd. You wouldnt want the likes of me helping. I get it, small pond..no worries.

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RE: mummy domme - 10/22/2016 12:09:13 PM

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My bad, sorry. I automatically assumed you were chiming in because you were a Domme and addressed you with that assumption in mind. Either way, I invite you to expand on the topic.

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RE: mummy domme - 10/22/2016 12:47:25 PM

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Any tips on how to stand out in a desirable way?

Every woman will find different things desirable.
My best advice: Stop playing the porn tropes and stereotypes and offer more than you ask for.

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RE: mummy domme - 10/22/2016 12:53:20 PM

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Try being a person looking for compatible person. Not a fetishist wanting a fetish delivery system.

Because you don't offer anything that would make a person say "Yes. I really want to fulfill this total stranger's desires". I'd say you could offer money in exchange considering you don't offer love, friendship, or anything else. But doubtful that you'll find anyone offering to fulfill your fetish even for money. You need to recognize that it's very difficult to lactate, that it leaches calcium from the bones, that it takes a huge amount of energy and time. Yet you're so selfish that you refuse to give anything to make being a hucow for you in return.

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RE: mummy domme - 10/22/2016 2:22:08 PM

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While you probably don't *need* one, I would probably agree that finding a Domme that's into AB/DL is more difficult than average. There are a lot of women who specifically have certain aspects of that on their hard limits list. (More male Dominants than female ones seem to be into it or even willing to tolerate it.) Outside of the AB/DL community specifically, it's often considered to be a niche kink. It's definitely a kink that you will probably have more luck within that specific community rather than the general kink community, because so many women have it as one of their hard limits. (This is also why professional *babysitters* make serious bank and can often get fantastic rates per hour if they advertise as having a full blown nursery.)

If I were you, I'd check out Fet with some of the groups that are AB/DL oriented.

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RE: mummy domme - 10/22/2016 2:37:34 PM

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Im a mommy/domme but sadly here in newzealand, and yes im very rare.

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RE: mummy domme - 10/22/2016 3:23:40 PM

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(This is also why professional *babysitters* make serious bank and can often get fantastic rates per hour if they advertise as having a full blown nursery.)

If I were you, I'd check out Fet with some of the groups that are AB/DL oriented.

We are not on Fet to check, so out of curiosity LadyPact, do you know whether these professional babysitters provide full-service breastfeeding like the OP is wanting?
Not only would that be a tiny niche within a small niche, but in real life, lactating women with breast milk to spare can make a tidy sum freezing and selling what they can pump out.

Hiring a wet nurse is a lot more expensive than what a couple would have to pay for a regular nanny or baby daycare services, comparatively speaking.

He is not just asking for crib time, diaper changes, baby-bottle feedings & pacifiers, which is a part-time job in itself, FFS.
What makes OP or other ABDL/littles think they can or should get all/some/part of any such labor-intensive work for free?

This is stupefying.

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RE: mummy domme - 10/22/2016 4:23:45 PM

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Regarding the pic, again I will take it as a compliment.
And, yeah I know it's better to meet someone the more natural, vanilla, conventional way.
Hopefully I will
There's nothing wrong with trying to find someone this way too.
Personally I would never pay for a Service but I would imagine there could be great money to be made.

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RE: mummy domme - 10/22/2016 4:25:13 PM

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I've only posted a couple of times on here, both had an unecasary negative post.
What is wrong with people on here?

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RE: mummy domme - 10/22/2016 6:17:13 PM

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Speaking only for myself, think of this as a dose of tough love for your own good.

Do you belong to the generation that expects a trophy just for showing up? What do you bring to the table as a submissive, in other words.

I do not know of a single mommy domme who wants to be surrounded by a bunch of useless parasites.

I shall tell you what my pet peeve is. Good-for-nothing "do-me" (male) submissives who cannot make the grade with *ordinary* women, assuming that quid pro quo should not have to apply to Femdoms because they are not *real* women.

Maybe that is not how you are, but there is absolutely nothing you have said or written which tells me any differently.

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RE: mummy domme - 10/22/2016 11:25:41 PM

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ORIGINAL: HoneyBears
We are not on Fet to check, so out of curiosity LadyPact, do you know whether these professional babysitters provide full-service breastfeeding like the OP is wanting?

Good Evening/Morning, Lisa.

Most professional 'babysitters' don't. It's like anything else. The more a person wants from a "session," the more they are going to pay. In my (admittedly) quick check, I only noticed a very few doing lactation' sessions, and those are going for thousands. You can find breast milk going by the ounce via mail.

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Not only would that be a tiny niche within a small niche, but in real life, lactating women with breast milk to spare can make a tidy sum freezing and selling what they can pump out.

From the quick check I did, I found this to be correct.

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Hiring a wet nurse is a lot more expensive than what a couple would have to pay for a regular nanny or baby daycare services, comparatively speaking.

The ads that I found were in the *thousands* range for actual lactating women. The few "suckling" things I found? I was shocked by how much it was per hour.

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He is not just asking for crib time, diaper changes, baby-bottle feedings & pacifiers, which is a part-time job in itself, FFS.
What makes OP or other ABDL/littles think they can or should get all/some/part of any such labor-intensive work for free?

Free?

LOL. No.

We're talking serious money here.

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This is stupefying.

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Agreed.

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RE: mummy domme - 10/27/2016 12:38:27 AM

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Another thing. I actually approach women normal. Wanting a real conversation. Most reply with this routine talking to a slave which I just switch off from. Seems no one here wants anything real.

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RE: mummy domme - 10/27/2016 1:29:00 AM

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Regarding the pic, again I will take it as a compliment.
And, yeah I know it's better to meet someone the more natural, vanilla, conventional way.
Hopefully I will
There's nothing wrong with trying to find someone this way too.
Personally I would never pay for a Service but I would imagine there could be great money to be made.

That's really you?

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RE: mummy domme - 10/27/2016 1:33:20 PM

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yes

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RE: mummy domme - 11/1/2016 8:24:56 PM

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When I was pregnant and then breast feeding, I had problems with the people who desired adult nursing wanting immediate gratification. I told people that I would be happy to develop a relationship, but the breast feeding would have to wait for a year or two. Potential ANR partners wanted to start nursing immediately, not caring about me or my family. So it never happened. Not that I would limit all levels of intimacy, just that I was hoping to simultaneously develop the emotional intimacy and wait until it was no longer a biological necessity.

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Try being a person looking for compatible person. Not a fetishist wanting a fetish delivery system.

Because you don't offer anything that would make a person say "Yes. I really want to fulfill this total stranger's desires". I'd say you could offer money in exchange considering you don't offer love, friendship, or anything else. But doubtful that you'll find anyone offering to fulfill your fetish even for money. You need to recognize that it's very difficult to lactate, that it leaches calcium from the bones, that it takes a huge amount of energy and time. Yet you're so selfish that you refuse to give anything to make being a hucow for you in return.

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