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Titanium19 -> RE: How to find a Mistress for play (10/30/2016 7:30:55 PM)
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ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick
True, so why do the opinions of complete strangers who know fuck all about you bother you so fucking much?
cuz I came here with a geniune request for info, not for ppl who know absolutely nothing to try and 'fix' what they perceive to be 'wrong' with me or replies that are useless and unhelpful
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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1
I would try normal dating sites, and "Dating 2.0" sites like SeekingArrangement. There are definitely women who are 40+ and just looking for adventures. Divorced, kids finally out of the house, holy crap what do I do with myself. Come up with cool things you can do -- more than just dinner -- like going to Yosemite, or going to Paris, depending on your income level -- and seduce by offering experiences.
interesting, helpful and thanks.
I got casual vanilla play from those kinda sites (not tried seekingarrangements) but havent seen many options for kink on there, BUT it isnt impossible I suppose
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ORIGINAL: heavyblinker
OP can i ask what reasons you have for writing off the pros? Just because they're accepting money doesn't mean they're insincere, dirty, damaged, supporting a heroin habit... or whatever issues you're taking with them. I see you've brought up hookers, so I think you might have the wrong idea.
If you just want to dabble, it's a good way to do it... otherwise you will need to do a lot of work. Making yourself desirable to a demanding woman who can take her pick is hard enough without approaching it like a casual fling. Also, serving someone is best approached if you ask them what they want as opposed to telling everyone what you want.... the right attitude goes a long way.
Hmmm . . . I think that paid services are not a real experience, that the one receiving the payment is just offering a service and does whatever asked, it's a routine, not personal, but instead just a charade. I dont't equate a paid domme to a hooker or think that they are all dirty and damaged with a drug problem, hookers are just the only pay for play examples that I know of so that's why I used that example, but I take your point . . . it's probably something I should reconsider
I'm not opposed to doing some 'work', but not a whole lot, maybe the ease at which I have gotten casual vannila play has blind sided me to the difference in 'work' needed for kink casual play
at this point, all I wanna do is dabble, but with a real perspective, not the charade
thanks for your suggestion, it is very helpful
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