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FieryOpal -> RE: The Difference Between Pro-Domme & Women Who Charge (10/30/2016 11:18:56 AM)
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starbucks, I see that you are only 21. I figured you for a twenty-something, but what I do not understand (in order for me to cut you some slack) is why do you call yourself a maleDOM when you are constantly chasing after Dominant women?
What is up with that? You have started several threads about getting burned, how you have been ripped off, etc.
First of all, you are the one insisting upon needing "slave training," which is what sub-fevered newbies typically want to sign up for.
I personally consider "slave/obedience training" to be a huge farce. This is because I do not believe in the concept of consensual slavery. But, many others do, so I am respectful of their choices.
If you haven't already shot yourself in the foot, did it ever occur to you that the gift selection process is a pivotal homework assignment in the "slave training" of newbie male submissives, one where you will have ongoing opportunities to impress your Domme by showing initiative and creativity, where you can earn extra credit by winning her approval?
Given your youth, if this Domme had said that in order to come party with her, you should bring over a blunt on each occasion, what would be the real issue?
(A) Cannot afford to pay for any stash, e.g. I am a cheap fock.
(B) Cannot afford to share my stash with anybody else, e.g. I am a selfish fock.
(C) I am used to mooching off of others' stash, drinks, food, videogaming & music downloads, wheels, etc., because I am a cheapskate loser.
(D) I have the imagination and gift-giving skills of a gnat, and/or
(E) I am getting an anxiety attack wondering just WhatTF to get a grown woman since I have only hung out with girls my same age, if even that.
(F) D & E
(G) All of the Above
(H) None of the Above, and I have a really believable excuse I can pull out of my arse to justify why I should be exempt from forking over a blunt or a joint to join her party de deux, when every other Domme I've contacted expects me to come up with an ounce's worth just to get my foot in the door.
Obviously, I'm being facetious.
Mcfly, I'm sure you have heard that we teach others how well or how shabbily to treat us, by default of either permitting or refusing to permit ourselves to get taken for granted.
You don't have to be a Dominant female to know this.
This Domme has made it clear what her stipulations are, and she is apparently the one doing the hosting, with OP's meager student budget in mind.
Maybe you don't see it, but she is cutting this newbie a big break, not setting him up as a flunkie.
If OP finds any of her conditions unreasonable, and cannot accept her authority, then he has every right not to consent and be on his merry way. He is not right for her, and she is not right for him.
A hundred, two hundred, three hundred Dommes or Domme-leaning Switches later, I am willing to bet that he won't run across another sweet deal like this, and he'll be kicking himself for the next decade or so.
You can attempt to gender polarize this all you want, but the fact of the matter is that this is a D/s relationship dynamic where OP has agreed to accept her authority as his Mistress in order TO BECOME her slave trainee. How she wants her slaves, slave trainees, subs, subs-under-consideration, and/or primary partner to interact with her is entirely her business. She is the one who is in charge and in control of them, per their mutual agreement.
As for Wicked, he would require you to bake him muffins and scones daily, pick up cat grub and bottles of Chardonnay, be his houseslave/sex slave/muffinBay slave, where he will put you up for bid to sell for cake money when he tires of you. [:-]
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