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RE: Submissive Female Seeking Advice - 11/18/2016 5:05:17 PM

UllrsIshtar

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ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl

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ORIGINAL: tamaka

You're right. I would.
.... and you're the one that decided i am magnificent. I am a slave... i don't think too many people think a slave is magnificent. I wonder why you do.
Why do you think all 'real women' should be perfectly submissive?

You don't understand sarcasm do you?

I'd argue that you're the one who clearly doesn't understand sarcasm.
But then again, you also clearly don't understand that in these exchanges with tamaka one of you ends up looking like a dumb bitch over and over again... and it's not the person you think.

So never mind, carry on with cluttering up the board with your personal little ever-losing vendetta of imagined wits.

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RE: Submissive Female Seeking Advice - 11/18/2016 5:06:32 PM

Greatlilbabygirl

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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar

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ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl

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ORIGINAL: tamaka

You're right. I would.
.... and you're the one that decided i am magnificent. I am a slave... i don't think too many people think a slave is magnificent. I wonder why you do.
Why do you think all 'real women' should be perfectly submissive?

You don't understand sarcasm do you?

I'd argue that you're the one who clearly doesn't understand sarcasm.
But then again, you also clearly don't understand that in these exchanges with tamaka one of you ends up looking like a dumb bitch over and over again... and it's not the person you think.

So never mind, carry on with cluttering up the board with your personal little ever-losing vendetta of imagined wits.

Why do you like her so much when she contradicts herself and is so wrong about a lot of things?

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RE: Submissive Female Seeking Advice - 11/18/2016 5:15:42 PM

UllrsIshtar

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ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl

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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar

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ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl

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ORIGINAL: tamaka

You're right. I would.
.... and you're the one that decided i am magnificent. I am a slave... i don't think too many people think a slave is magnificent. I wonder why you do.
Why do you think all 'real women' should be perfectly submissive?

You don't understand sarcasm do you?

I'd argue that you're the one who clearly doesn't understand sarcasm.
But then again, you also clearly don't understand that in these exchanges with tamaka one of you ends up looking like a dumb bitch over and over again... and it's not the person you think.

So never mind, carry on with cluttering up the board with your personal little ever-losing vendetta of imagined wits.

Why do you like her so much when she contradicts herself and is so wrong about a lot of things?

I don't particularly like or dislike her at all. And she's not wrong anymore often than a lot of other people on this board are. If I were to dislike everybody who was wrong about some of what they said, I'd pretty much dislike 98% of the posters here.

I do dislike you. But that has nothing to do with you being right or wrong either (you and tamaka are about on par on that count, incidentally) but everything with the fact that you constantly seem to feel the need to open your big flap to make little side-track ad hominem attacks at the people you dislike, and the rare times you do actually stick to the topic enough to respond to it, you do it by going on a morally righteous witch hunt against people based on thing they never even said.

Basically... I dislike you because you are nothing but a whole bunch of silly bluster and noise, constantly derailing topics with childishness, while nothing of substance ever come out.

While I don't dislike (nor like) tamaka, because while there's a lot of nonsense coming out of her to, at least she often sticks to the topic, and sometimes she adds interesting/unusual/new perspectives, and she occasional adds substance to a thread (or leads to a topic that leads to a discussion of substance).

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RE: Submissive Female Seeking Advice - 11/18/2016 5:18:04 PM

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Oh, and as for why I frequently speak up against you in favor of tamaka -if that's where your assumption that I like her is coming from- goes, that's simple: it's because the way you're hounding her around the board is nothing more than playground bullying. Plain and simple. And I don't like bullies (see, yet another reason I don't like you).

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RE: Submissive Female Seeking Advice - 11/18/2016 6:03:08 PM

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ORIGINAL: tamaka

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ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl

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ORIGINAL: Diffident

Being submissive does not mean not having no limits at all. Everyone has limits.

Not tamaka the magnificent. Well, except for fucking other girls, submissive men...........

But I'm sure if her Dom told her to fuck another girl or kick a guy in the balls she'd do it. Because she's so perfectly submissive, as all real women should be

You're right. I would.
.... and you're the one that decided i am magnificent. I am a slave... i don't think too many people think a slave is magnificent. I wonder why you do.
Why do you think all 'real women' should be perfectly submissive?

This is where you and the OP seem to be fundamentally different. You are a slave. She is submissive. Your dynamic may not allow for any choice other than to submit or not. OP and her dominant had come to an agreement beforehand. And she was feeling that he was coming uncomfortably close to a limit she had been allowed to set for herself. Everyone has a limit...including you. Your boundary just may lie somewhere beyond where hers is.

It doesnt make you magnificent. It doesnt make her magnificent either. Its just two differing paths.

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RE: Submissive Female Seeking Advice - 11/18/2016 6:21:36 PM

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Something I find myself telling a lot of subs is this: Do what you agreed to do. Well this works for the dominant as well.
Of course the corollary to this is applicable to both as well: Don't do what you agreed not to do.

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RE: Submissive Female Seeking Advice - 11/18/2016 6:45:10 PM

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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar

Oh, and as for why I frequently speak up against you in favor of tamaka -if that's where your assumption that I like her is coming from- goes, that's simple: it's because the way you're hounding her around the board is nothing more than playground bullying. Plain and simple. And I don't like bullies (see, yet another reason I don't like you).

Well Damn, I've never been called a bully before:(
I'm sorry

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RE: Submissive Female Seeking Advice - 12/15/2016 6:57:52 AM

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Everything in life, bdsm or out there in the everyday world, revolves around a couple a things. Self-respect, and communication. Self-respect is an individual thing, no dom can give that to you. Communication, is where you get to the meat of a d/s thing. If there is no 'space', to look each other in the eye,,and be able to discuss anything, then I would get the hell out of there. Being in agreement with full trust, is tricky at best.
Best to you....

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