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ways i can better serve my Mistress - 7/23/2006 11:20:41 AM

subjayk

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my Spouse and i have been married for 4+ years and brought D/s into our relationship last November. It is has been incredibly fulfilling and She has brought me to know who i really am. All of the sub tendencies have been there all along in our relationship but now that it has been clearly defined, it has made me a better sub, spouse, and person.

my question is this:
We/we are coming into the last part of Our/our vacation time and i would like ideas of how to make this last week of time off even more special for her. Any ideas of how i can better serve her so that she can be even happier and more pleased with my service.(above and beyond her requests)

thank you ahead of time for your help.

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RE: ways i can better serve my Mistress - 7/23/2006 12:09:14 PM

LuckyAlbatross

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quote:

ORIGINAL: subjayk

my question is this:
We/we are coming into the last part of Our/our vacation time and i would like ideas of how to make this last week of time off even more special for her. Any ideas of how i can better serve her so that she can be even happier and more pleased with my service.(above and beyond her requests)

thank you ahead of time for your help.

subjayk

I don't know. I could tell you to order room service for her most favorite dish of the evening and create a mix cd for the perfect vacation- but she might hate room service and music.

If you don't know, we can't know. There are lots of general stereotypical ideas, but you really are inthe best position to know what she will like and what would best serve her.

Ask her.

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RE: ways i can better serve my Mistress - 7/23/2006 2:40:02 PM

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treat her like a Goddess. Dress her in the morning, undress her at night, and do it slow and sensual, without being sexual, bathe her, put her favorite body lotion on her, brush her hair. Have her not have to lift a single finger. make her dinner, <or in some cases have reservations> give her a foot massage, paint her nails. and make it all moody, candles and the like, when you speak to her, do it with the upmost "formal" respect.....

these are just a few ideas....

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RE: ways i can better serve my Mistress - 7/23/2006 6:02:36 PM

jonathan

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Oh boy! If i don't post something worthwhile to this thread i will be derelict in duties. i'll start by saying that i have been in your position more than once and know how good you must feel. i eventually gave up on that avenue, which turned out well for me, because i am now under serious consideration by Someone i adore. you have it surrounded when you mention your service to Her. That's what it's all about. What i would do, in you place, is give Her daily needs my complete focus, for the week of vacation and in the future. Forget about what you might like, ignore the sexual aspect unless She initiates it, and just find ways to make Her day easier. Pamper the blazes out of Her. you say that you've been married for over 4 years, you must know the special things that will make Her happy. One suggestion is to take one of those nights and cook and serve Her dinner, as Her boy. Find ways to go above and beyond, as you mentioned. And if you are at a loss, then just kneel at Her feet and ask for Her help to make you better.

Because i wanted to know who i was writing for, i looked at your profile. i am acquainted with the members of this group. you might want to explore that if She wishes to become more social in your D/s relationship. They are real people living D/s and small and select in membership in Tidewater and the Peninsula. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/VADommes_and_malesubs/

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RE: ways i can better serve my Mistress - 7/23/2006 6:13:13 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: subjayk

my question is this:
We/we are coming into the last part of Our/our vacation time and i would like ideas of how to make this last week of time off even more special for her. Any ideas of how i can better serve her so that she can be even happier and more pleased with my service.(above and beyond her requests)

Well, start off by waking her at 3 am, screaming "FIRE," and announcing that your dogs (or other pets, it doesn't matter) just died. Then laugh at your great joke, and continue bringing it up for a few days, all the while making comments like "You're not my mother," "You're such a bitch, and not the good kind," and "I slept with your sister, and at least she was more fun than a dead fish. You, on the other hand, are not. I know this because I once cheated on you with a dead fish."

Spit in her food, in front of her.
Bite her as hard as you can, if possible, drawing blood.
Go out and try to pick up women. Bring them to your hotel room. Ask your wife to excuse the two of you, and wait in the hall until you finish.

After that, really anything you do will make her happy.

Yours,

benji

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RE: ways i can better serve my Mistress - 7/23/2006 6:17:32 PM

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laughing so hard I almost peed myself...............damn

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RE: ways i can better serve my Mistress - 7/23/2006 7:24:56 PM

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With all sympathy to the OP and the seriousness of the question...

THAT was priceless

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