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RE: Why women moan during sex? - 11/18/2016 7:01:55 AM

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I dont watch much porn either - is it a squeak sound eeeeek eeeeek eeek - fuked if I know.

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RE: Why women moan during sex? - 11/18/2016 8:41:29 AM

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The squeak denotes both youth (you may notice they often wear schoolgirl sailor type outfits) and also unwillingness. In short a lot of Japanese porn is about raping young girls. You may also notice them saying "eeyay" which means no, and "damei" which means the same sort of thing (I once dated a Jap-porn enthusiast), and yes I was rather young at the time.

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RE: Why women moan during sex? - 11/18/2016 8:51:49 AM

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In short a lot of Japanese porn is about raping young girls. You may also notice them saying "eeyay" which means no, and "damei" which means the same sort of thing (I once dated a Jap-porn enthusiast), and yes I was rather young at the time.

"No" and "don't". These are considered soft denials. What's lost in translation is that culturally, Japanese believe that no female should enjoy sex, that those who do are wicked shameless hussies and they used to drown them in wicker cages. As a result, the idea of girls being embarrassed by their own arousal is an expected norm in Japan, which is where all the verbal "soft denials" come from.

Rape is tricky in a culture where most women think all sex is rape, since they can't tell the difference. Technically, no still means no, it just has to be a "forceful no". Like "Stop", "leave me alone", or actually fight them.

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RE: Why women moan during sex? - 11/18/2016 10:46:37 AM

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The squeak denotes both youth (you may notice they often wear schoolgirl sailor type outfits) and also unwillingness. In short a lot of Japanese porn is about raping young girls. You may also notice them saying "eeyay" which means no, and "damei" which means the same sort of thing (I once dated a Jap-porn enthusiast), and yes I was rather young at the time.

OK. But Japanese *femdom* porn?

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RE: Why women moan during sex? - 11/18/2016 1:34:14 PM

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No idea, I wasn't aware that any of that actually existed.

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RE: Why women moan during sex? - 11/18/2016 1:35:26 PM

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Interesting, and that does make some sense given the little I do know of Japanese culture.

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RE: Why women moan during sex? - 11/18/2016 3:30:55 PM

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No idea, I wasn't aware that any of that actually existed.

Oh yes. Plenty of it.

Here's an example (fear not, it's not particularly 'strong'). http://hotntubes.com/itm/japanese_femdom?p=2

At around 2:50 the squeaking commences - while he's licking her bum, of all things.

I think that the squeaking thing is partly to do with the naturally high voices of Japanese women (OK, I'm guessing on that one) and partly to do with ingrained cultural expectation. Squeaky noises from women in Japan have come to be taken to be sexy; it's ingrained, and that is that. Perhaps a bit like high heels have come to be taken as sexy for women in the west ... women can't run in them, can't even walk all that well in them - they're almost literally crippling. But femdoms in western porn wear them nonetheless. If anything, femdoms in western porn wear higher heels than women in vanilla porn.

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RE: Why women moan during sex? - 11/18/2016 5:15:52 PM

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Yeah, even for a femdom clip, she seems pretty well subjected to him.

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RE: Why women moan during sex? - 11/18/2016 6:57:19 PM

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Why, in the name of all that is holy, has this thread continued for 4 pages?

I mean we have learned a few things about some of our users, such as the fastest way to get lucy out of bed is for her man to wear socks to bed....

But four pages?

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RE: Why women moan during sex? - 11/18/2016 7:43:31 PM

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But of course, apparently if you take your cues from porn - especially white guy porn - men need to wear tube socks during sex.

Don't have the source on hand, but I remember reading that people who wear socks in bed have better sex. Apparently being ice cold interferes with enjoyment, and if your feet are warm, the rest of you is more likely to be warm also.

I always wear socks when I have sex. It's for warmth and traction.

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RE: Why women moan during sex? - 11/18/2016 7:47:55 PM

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Some guys like it when the women wear those little bobby socks. Especially if they have the little puffy balls on them.

I just wear the ankle socks to keep my feet warm now that fall has come but its too early for the electric blanket. I prefer seamed stockings if I am playing...

Ok them little socks with the balls make me want to fuckem in the ass and cum in her ear. There's a door where the beast is locked up. Those socks are a key to that door.

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RE: Why women moan during sex? - 11/19/2016 2:26:23 PM

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I'm a loud one. I didn't used to be. I tried to keep quiet. Then I found that making noise helped me let go. In the beginning I'd force the first few moans/noises -- it seemed to help me open up, relax, get in my body as opposed to my head. It opened the door to feeling, whereas I had been concentrating on holding back. It wasn't until after that point that I learned how to truly orgasm. I'm loud enough that to others, I must sound like I'm faking it, but I'm not. We're lucky the neighbors are deaf, or else they surely would have called the cops by now!
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I don't understand the sock/no-sock issue. I don't care at all what my partner has on their feet. Then again feet are a hard limit to me. I don't want to even touch anyone else's feet from a "germ averse" perspective, and having my toes sucked just feels like slimey horribleness. If I was wearing socks before sexy things start up, I prefer to keep my socks on. I wrote a poem about it.

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on socks.

oh, i don’t mind shedding every layer of cloth
between Your eyes and my body --
i’ll gladly sacrifice every inch of skin to You
for fingers, for tongue, for cock
there’s nothing i want to hide from You
(as if i could hide from You anyway).
however i hope You’ll understand when i say
i’m a socks on kind of girl
because i want no distractions
once You put me in position,
so my ankles can grip around You to pull You in
or You can rest the soles of my feet against Your chest
without jumping away from the ice buckets that i call feet
because that’s not the type of shock to Your system that I intend to be.