RE: Should I put myself up on the auction block?

RE: Should I put myself up on the auction block? (Full Version)

All Forums >> [Casual Banter] >> Polls and Other Random Stupidity

Message

Lucylastic -> RE: Should I put myself up on the auction block? (12/12/2016 8:09:09 AM)
what did I do this time? [:)]

ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Should I put myself up on the auction block? (12/12/2016 8:55:25 AM)
No sorry, that was meant to be an FR post to the entire thread. I honestly have no fucking clue what is going on here.

Curmudgeonly1 -> RE: Should I put myself up on the auction block? (12/12/2016 9:16:36 AM)
It has changed. Unless you saw it before the change it's unlikely to make any kind of sense. [sm=smoking.gif]

OsideGirl -> RE: Should I put myself up on the auction block? (12/12/2016 11:51:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lucylastic I also noticed the rapport from some of the other creepy dipshit nasties found their way to your thread... Well, at least now, his statement that there are stalkers on this poll is correct.

stef -> RE: Should I put myself up on the auction block? (12/12/2016 12:22:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl Well, at least now, his statement that there are stalkers on this poll is correct. Yeah, but just a little one ;)

LadyPact -> RE: Should I put myself up on the auction block? (12/12/2016 12:25:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lucylastic what did I do this time? [:)] Not a slight on you, but I would have to say that both of us should probably refrain from calling the OP "mikey". I have no problem saying I don't think much of the OP as a person. The emotional manipulation tactics that EVERYBODY saw for what it was being bullshit. It's crap. However, if this poster is in the process of transitioning, I'm not going to call the poster by the former male identity, and at least make my attempt to use the pronoun of preference. It's what I would attempt to do if it were any other poster who identified as transgender, and whether I like them or not isn't the basis of importance in my thinking on this. (Believe me, I'm far from perfect on it, especially if I knew the person before they began transition. I absolutely make mistakes.) Personally, I feel like I'm disrespecting OTHER transgender people if I were to intentionally do that and there's something about that, for ME that doesn't feel good. This is not to say that any other person has to feel that way. I just know it's what's right for me. Maybe I mix it up in what I think is the difference between calling a person on their shit and what I would have seen, for me, as something intentionally done. Had I done it, intentionally, I'd have probably had to say I was wrong. That's for me. I'm not saying it has to apply to anybody else. While I'm here, OP, I might as well take care of business. TAKE THE ISSUES YOU ARE FACING TO YOUR THERAPIST! Like it or not, that's the person trained to help you. Bad analogy, but have you ever heard of Chantrix? It's a smoking cessation drug. Works for a lot of people. Unfortunately, it has a really, nasty side effect for some. It gives them suicidal thoughts and tendencies. Even on their own commercials, they tell you if you experience this to CALL YOUR DOCTOR RIGHT AWAY. Gee, maybe they are onto something with that idea. While you're at it, print this thread and your last thread up and TAKE IT WITH YOU TO YOUR NEXT THERAPY APPOINTMENT. If you are not telling your therapist the ACTUAL TRUTH about what you are thinking and DOING, you are removing their ability to actually HELP you.

OsideGirl -> RE: Should I put myself up on the auction block? (12/12/2016 1:01:37 PM)
Honestly, I believe that the OP has more than just than depression and gender identity issues. Judging by the the threads and responses, I'm guessing that the OP is dealing with Bi Polar at the very least and possibly another issue as well. The best place for her would be off of kink websites, and probably out of the BDSM community until she's dealt with herself.

Curmudgeonly1 -> RE: Should I put myself up on the auction block? (12/12/2016 6:01:02 PM)
It's human to see that the herd is starting (somewhat belatedly) to recognise that a couple of bulbs might have blown on OPs Christmas tree lights and that the rabid pack attack may have been just a tad inappropriate. And possibly dangerous. I believe that successful prosecutions have been brought against cyber bullies goading vulnerable people to suicide before. It's encouraging to see you girls finally showing a bit of decency. Don't use it all up at once though. All indications are that you don't have a lot and some could be needed in the future. But if you carefully nuture the little humanity you do have it can be coaxed to grow and even flower and fruit in extreme cases. Good girls. [sm=angel_smiley023.gif]

LadyPact -> RE: Should I put myself up on the auction block? (12/12/2016 8:22:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Curmudgeonly1 It's human to see that the herd is starting (somewhat belatedly) to recognise that a couple of bulbs might have blown on OPs Christmas tree lights and that the rabid pack attack may have been just a tad inappropriate. And possibly dangerous. I believe that successful prosecutions have been brought against cyber bullies goading vulnerable people to suicide before. It's encouraging to see you girls finally showing a bit of decency. Don't use it all up at once though. All indications are that you don't have a lot and some could be needed in the future. But if you carefully nuture the little humanity you do have it can be coaxed to grow and even flower and fruit in extreme cases. Good girls. [sm=angel_smiley023.gif] Two things and you and I are going to get along a lot better. First, is the reminder that I have told you before. Don't send me email. I delete it unread. (Had to do the same when the OP sent me three mails and tried the crap there.) I've got a real chip on my shoulder about people who create sock puppets to harass other people. Second, stop trying to diminish people by calling them "girl". If you can't respect me as a Dominant, at bare minimum, respect the fact that I'm closer to fifty than forty, so "girl" isn't an appropriate term. My own Leather Elders don't call me "girl," so I'm not going to sit back and say nothing when some condescending jerk does it. With these two things in mind, I am of the opinion that the rest of your post is completely hypocritical. I have seen you troll the shit out of people under your various screen names, and if you're going to try to sit in judgement about how you think people are bullying others on the internet, that old expression about "people in glass houses" applies to you. It might also behoove you to do a little more work on the definitions of terms. I'd like to point out that nobody sought out this OP to be 'mean' to her. The OP specifically started two attention seeking threads to pull the 'woe is me' card, (if you missed what Oside said about this being a pattern, she nailed it) started contacting other posters, and then reacted badly when emotional manipulation didn't work. If that went over your head. don't blame the people who actually caught on.

Lucylastic -> RE: Should I put myself up on the auction block? (12/12/2016 9:18:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact quote: ORIGINAL: Lucylastic what did I do this time? [:)] Not a slight on you, but I would have to say that both of us should probably refrain from calling the OP "mikey". I have no problem saying I don't think much of the OP as a person. The emotional manipulation tactics that EVERYBODY saw for what it was being bullshit. It's crap. However, if this poster is in the process of transitioning, I'm not going to call the poster by the former male identity, and at least make my attempt to use the pronoun of preference. It's what I would attempt to do if it were any other poster who identified as transgender, and whether I like them or not isn't the basis of importance in my thinking on this. (Believe me, I'm far from perfect on it, especially if I knew the person before they began transition. I absolutely make mistakes.) Personally, I feel like I'm disrespecting OTHER transgender people if I were to intentionally do that and there's something about that, for ME that doesn't feel good. This is not to say that any other person has to feel that way. I just know it's what's right for me. Maybe I mix it up in what I think is the difference between calling a person on their shit and what I would have seen, for me, as something intentionally done. Had I done it, intentionally, I'd have probably had to say I was wrong. That's for me. I'm not saying it has to apply to anybody else. I cant disagree with you on that, but she did bring up who he was before, herself, and as I had issues with "him" the last time, along with the various posts from the other creeps, yeah I was aggravated when I realised who it was. Along with the emotional outbursts on the other thread she does not inspire pleasantries.. Im far from being anti trans, my history will show that, but yes, I do see where you are coming from. And I see your POV and I apologise generally for treating allison as other than a whiner. It didnt help my point, thats for sure. That apology also extends to Allison. Mea culpa

LadyPact -> RE: Should I put myself up on the auction block? (12/12/2016 10:04:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lucylastic I cant disagree with you on that, but she did bring up who he was before, herself, and as I had issues with "him" the last time, along with the various posts from the other creeps, yeah I was aggravated when I realised who it was. Along with the emotional outbursts on the other thread she does not inspire pleasantries.. Im far from being anti trans, my history will show that, but yes, I do see where you are coming from. And I see your POV and I apologise generally for treating allison as other than a whiner. It didnt help my point, thats for sure. That apology also extends to Allison. Mea culpa It's probably because I know you and know your stance on much related to trans* issues that got me thinking about it. I can't speak for other people, but if there is an 'ally' category, I definitely see you as that. Allow me to reiterate. This is something that I screw up, A LOT. It can be harder for it to click in my head when I knew the person (even just a screen name) by a former gender. Trust me. I've had to make a number of apologies in this area. Maybe this would make for good discussion on a better thread in the future?

OsideGirl -> RE: Should I put myself up on the auction block? (12/12/2016 10:17:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact quote: ORIGINAL: Lucylastic I cant disagree with you on that, but she did bring up who he was before, herself, and as I had issues with "him" the last time, along with the various posts from the other creeps, yeah I was aggravated when I realised who it was. Along with the emotional outbursts on the other thread she does not inspire pleasantries.. Im far from being anti trans, my history will show that, but yes, I do see where you are coming from. And I see your POV and I apologise generally for treating allison as other than a whiner. It didnt help my point, thats for sure. That apology also extends to Allison. Mea culpa It's probably because I know you and know your stance on much related to trans* issues that got me thinking about it. I can't speak for other people, but if there is an 'ally' category, I definitely see you as that. Allow me to reiterate. This is something that I screw up, A LOT. It can be harder for it to click in my head when I knew the person (even just a screen name) by a former gender. Trust me. I've had to make a number of apologies in this area. Maybe this would make for good discussion on a better thread in the future? I'm guilty of doing it in this thread for that very reason. She and I had a dust up where I urged her (then a him) to seek counseling for the issues arising from dealing with the gender identity. So, I owe an apology for t.

Curmudgeonly1 -> RE: Should I put myself up on the auction block? (12/12/2016 11:25:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact quote: ORIGINAL: Curmudgeonly1 It's human to see that the herd is starting (somewhat belatedly) to recognise that a couple of bulbs might have blown on OPs Christmas tree lights and that the rabid pack attack may have been just a tad inappropriate. And possibly dangerous. I believe that successful prosecutions have been brought against cyber bullies goading vulnerable people to suicide before. It's encouraging to see you girls finally showing a bit of decency. Don't use it all up at once though. All indications are that you don't have a lot and some could be needed in the future. But if you carefully nuture the little humanity you do have it can be coaxed to grow and even flower and fruit in extreme cases. Good girls. [sm=angel_smiley023.gif] Two things and you and I are going to get along a lot better. First, is the reminder that I have told you before. Don't send me email. I delete it unread. (Had to do the same when the OP sent me three mails and tried the crap there.) I've got a real chip on my shoulder about people who create sock puppets to harass other people. Second, stop trying to diminish people by calling them "girl". If you can't respect me as a Dominant, at bare minimum, respect the fact that I'm closer to fifty than forty, so "girl" isn't an appropriate term. My own Leather Elders don't call me "girl," so I'm not going to sit back and say nothing when some condescending jerk does it. With these two things in mind, I am of the opinion that the rest of your post is completely hypocritical. I have seen you troll the shit out of people under your various screen names, and if you're going to try to sit in judgement about how you think people are bullying others on the internet, that old expression about "people in glass houses" applies to you. It might also behoove you to do a little more work on the definitions of terms. I'd like to point out that nobody sought out this OP to be 'mean' to her. The OP specifically started two attention seeking threads to pull the 'woe is me' card, (if you missed what Oside said about this being a pattern, she nailed it) started contacting other posters, and then reacted badly when emotional manipulation didn't work. If that went over your head. don't blame the people who actually caught on. First, DO NOT talk about Fight Club. Second, I reached out to you and offered you an olive branch. You batted it away in a fit of childish petulance. I'm OK about that. Third, neither you nor anyone else has ever seen any posting by me under any name other this one. Your contention is unsubstantiated nonsense probably meant to make yourself appear more switched on and grown up than your behaviour would indicate. Fourth, Whether you and I get along better is entirely up to you. I'm willing but as I get older and grumpier I do find it harder to indulge childish tanties. Fifth, of Hokonui 'shine. Sixth, hic. Seventh, about how old you're behaving despite your advancing years. Eighth, A rather silly looking word. English can be an odd language. Ninth, Lose the chip on your shoulder. It's unseemly in an older female. Tenth, If I please I'll call you Mulligatawny. Girl is just easier. Get over it. Or don't. Eleventh, I'll 'respect' you as whatever I see from you on these forums as I have no other yardstick by which to assess an opinion. So far you're not looking too flash. Twelfth, What daft language has 'lfth' in a word. Could almost be Polish if there was a 'z' and a 'w' in there. Fourteenth, Please keep your behooving to yourself, thank you very much. Some of us are Christians. Fifteenth, You may not have sought the OP out but having found her you and your herd wasted no time in gratuitously attacking the perceived vulnerability. There's no collective name for a group of domes is there? I hereby formally propose 'a Viciousness'. Sixteenth, Your inability to walk on by someone else's attention seeking and focus on your own is a further indication of your immaturity. Seventeenth, It's only thanks to OsideGirl that that rest of the Viciousness realised what total cunts you were being and started resiling from it a little. Well done that girl. Eighteenth, Not as daft looking as eighth. Nineteenth, Grow up. [sm=jumping-04.gif]

ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Should I put myself up on the auction block? (12/13/2016 12:15:23 AM)
I still have no idea what is going on in this thread.

Curmudgeonly1 -> RE: Should I put myself up on the auction block? (12/13/2016 12:22:57 AM)
It's best you don't know. Trust me, I'm from the Government. We're here to help you. [sm=angel_smiley027.gif]

DesFIP -> RE: Should I put myself up on the auction block? (12/13/2016 3:22:07 PM)
20th) we all just put you on hide. Hey I offered the op useful advise in her suicide thread. I suggested ECT if the SSRIs don't work. But yeah, I'm now wondering about bipolar type II if a mood disorder. But the sneaking suspicion that she needs to be evaluated for ma personality disorder as since crossed my mind. And they're almost untreatable simply because the treatment is serious therapy and people with it won't do the work.

tamaka -> RE: Should I put myself up on the auction block? (12/13/2016 3:29:23 PM)
Whatever the fuck it is i don't feel sorry for someone that comes here and threatens people with their problem. We all have our demons to deal with.

Page: << < prev 1 2 3 [4]

Collarchat.com © 2025

Terms of Service

0.078125