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RE: So let me ask the women here a question. - 12/13/2016 10:24:10 AM

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If you did that I will apologise I am man of my word and no issue with saying I was wrong unreservedly. Direct me to this picture as all the ones on your profile appear stolen. Do women call men dude? Dude is an American word not used over in my backward lands. Personally I think you are full of complete shit and also dangerous imo naturally...the second is where I draw my line

Her complete lack of understanding about American society confirms she's not an American.

True, however do keep in mind that WD also has a similar lack of understanding of American society, so he wouldn't recognize it in others.

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RE: So let me ask the women here a question. - 12/13/2016 10:45:36 AM

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I think it could go either way. I usually identify with the "instigator" in those scenarios, which could be the torturer or the cameraman depending on the scene.

Hopefully not being too forward here. Do you have a voyeur side?

I don't have much of one. If there's an added element of making somebody do the thing I want to watch, I'll get a bigger kick out of that. (Dominant, power trip, fun with control.)

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RE: So let me ask the women here a question. - 12/13/2016 10:58:04 AM

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If the woman isn't enjoying it, I won't either.
I need an emotional connection. And since I'm not a masochist, but into sensual play and bondage that leads to amazing orgasms, it makes sense that I enjoy it the same in porn.

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RE: So let me ask the women here a question. - 12/13/2016 11:13:06 AM

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Her complete lack of understanding about American society confirms she's not an American.

Her complete lack of understanding of Singaporean society and laws would suggest she doesn't live in Singapore either.

She only seems to know her own very isolated existence within her own circle of friends.

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RE: So let me ask the women here a question. - 12/13/2016 11:26:43 AM

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Stuff that turns a person on because they might want to do it or have it done to them?

Or aren't even invited to the party! In my case it's male/male prison porn as anything else is a yawner for me. Since I can't be involved on either side of that scene it's probably why it appeals. Gay porn without the prison setting does not do it for me. And kissing..that is to say watching others kiss... is too intimate an act to intrude on and is just a little uncomfortable for me. Just me though. I like to watch the raw (rare..watching is something I have done less than a scant handful of times in my life) but experience over viewership of the softer is preferable..to go along with all the fun reality stuff of course! When I am at the clubs watching, that is going to be from a student viewpoint..not a turn on at all as my focus is on techniques more than the reactions.

I gotta say that watching a tanned, in shape guy chopping wood without a shirt on and wearing nothing but shit kickers and levis..also has appeal..maybe it's the axe. ;D

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RE: So let me ask the women here a question. - 12/13/2016 10:57:38 PM

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OsideGirl ~~I fell asleep before the punchline~~ Actually I was on Mars and then my magic carpet broke down on the way home, near Antarctica, and..and then...magic penguins flew me home...i was going to take more pics but the cats ate the penguins...I know right!

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RE: So let me ask the women here a question. - 12/13/2016 11:32:59 PM

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I am starting to find WD's insanity genuinely hilarious.

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RE: So let me ask the women here a question. - 12/14/2016 1:36:36 AM

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Let's define porn as "something that gets your motor running". It doesn't need to focus on sex, nudity, etc.

With that in mind, what sorts of "porn" would appeal to you? I keep envisioning scenarios such as a woman getting a gentle spanking for stress relief, lots of dialogue during a scene, a man making a dinner and both eating it sensually, etc.

I prefer my porn written over visual, because I've got some unusual tastes, that it's hard to find photographed.

The stuff you described is pretty spot on, except that my tastes run way more extreme than 'a gentle spanking for stress relief', but I imagine that if that's what I was into, your description would be 100% accurate.
That is, I like my porn with tons of foreplay in it. The actual act of penetration doesn't interest me much, unless it's done in an usually creative way. I understand the whole dynamics of the in/out, I don't need it written out in detail, or see 10 minute close ups of it. What interest me is what he did before he got his cock out of his pants. The stuff he said, the things he did, the way he dominated her. The toys he used. The bondage she was in. The emotions he felt. The emotions she felt (her feeling lots and lots of fear is a really good on to get me going).
Likewise I care about the stuff that happens after the in/out. I don't like it when 'he came' = 'end of the scene' so he best keep doing some more stuff to her afterwards.
Creativity is one of the most important things for me as well. I can get into stuff that I haven't really ever been into before as long as it's presented in some sort of creative and interesting way. I really enjoy new takes on old techniques/toys/tortures, and if you can come up with something I have never even thought or heard of before, you get definite bonus points. If porn has a 'been there, done that, seen that' feel to it, I'm usually not interested at all, but new and creative porn will have be using the same piece over and over again, sometimes for years, even if it's obviously only new and creative the first time I see it/read it.

But then again, I'm extremely into kink, to the point that I prefer kink over sex any day of the week, and lots of my porn doesn't even have any penetration, of any kind including oral, by anybody, whatsoever in it, so I'm not really the norm you should base you conclusions on.

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RE: So let me ask the women here a question. - 12/14/2016 1:43:31 AM

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I like stories more than visuals, and what gets me going is stuff like rape, scat, blackmail, torture, snuff. Generally the more extreme the better.

We should exchange favorites some time...

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RE: So let me ask the women here a question. - 12/14/2016 1:45:08 AM

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If you did that I will apologise I am man of my word and no issue with saying I was wrong unreservedly. Direct me to this picture as all the ones on your profile appear stolen. Do women call men dude? Dude is an American word not used over in my backward lands. Personally I think you are full of complete shit and also dangerous imo naturally...the second is where I draw my line

Her complete lack of understanding about American society confirms she's not an American.

If that was the case, a fair number of Americans I know aren't either.

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RE: So let me ask the women here a question. - 12/14/2016 2:39:44 AM

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I like rape porn...

I like Greta.

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RE: So let me ask the women here a question. - 12/15/2016 2:54:04 PM

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I'm a weird little bunny when it comes to porn. I'm easily bored for a start. I like 'gay' porn, but very straight acting men rather than not. I have a thing for reverse cowboy, and I like the rider to also be hard. There are also men that can cum multiple times in a session, this I like a lot.

I also like the rape stuff. There are videos where the female appears to be sleeping ... some is better than others. I've been imagining been kidnapped since I was very little. It was inevitable that I was going to put sex in to that. Add in being drugged, tied up, pinned down, whatever ... I would rather watch several clips and money shots than one long scene. If it's taking too long then I'll switch to something else, but then I play like that too.

On the use of the word Dude ... English Bird here, and I use it.

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RE: So let me ask the women here a question. - 12/15/2016 4:48:23 PM

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If there's an added element of making somebody do the thing I want to watch, I'll get a bigger kick out of that. (Dominant, power trip, fun with control.)
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^This, rather than voyeurism. I get bored too easily to be a voyeur. I was trying to include the situation where the porn is being directed by someone not captured in the scene with my "cameraman" comment.

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RE: So let me ask the women here a question. - 12/16/2016 12:36:03 AM

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Okay, I gotta say. I love the cute Penguin one!!

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RE: So let me ask the women here a question. - 12/16/2016 12:54:34 AM

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Her complete lack of understanding of Singaporean society and laws would suggest she doesn't live in Singapore either.

Wow! I don't claim to know more about UK than British people. And I don't claim to know more about US than American people.

But you are claiming to know more about Singapore than a Singaporean who grew up here and lived here all her life, by your statement.

What is it about Singaporean society that you think you have superior knowledge about? You following Thompson false nonsense about Singapore constantly as verifiable proof?

BTW Alecta is Singaporean too. So she could be a second verification if your knowledge is more accurate than mine.

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RE: So let me ask the women here a question. - 12/16/2016 1:42:23 AM

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Her complete lack of understanding of Singaporean society and laws would suggest she doesn't live in Singapore either.

Wow! I don't claim to know more about UK than British people. And I don't claim to know more about US than American people.

But you are claiming to know more about Singapore than a Singaporean who grew up here and lived here all her life, by your statement.

What is it about Singaporean society that you think you have superior knowledge about? You following Thompson false nonsense about Singapore constantly as verifiable proof?

BTW Alecta is Singaporean too. So she could be a second verification if your knowledge is more accurate than mine.

Greta, there have been many times when you have proven that you know little about Singaporean laws and statutes.

You spout something and some of us look it up to find that you were wrong.

I haven't found that with Alecta.
Aaand.... Alecta's profile says she's in BC, not Singapore.

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RE: So let me ask the women here a question. - 12/16/2016 2:09:37 AM

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Oh for fuck's sake, shut up.

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RE: So let me ask the women here a question. - 12/16/2016 4:24:11 AM

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Aaand.... Alecta's profile says she's in BC, not Singapore.

Because she is based in BC now, but she grew up in Singapore. And comes here often. And is a true blue Singaporean like me too.

No you relied on Thompson bullshit websites and sources. The man who only visited in the 1960's where were like swamp land and lots of poverty, and he thinks Singapore is a shit hole, like the poorest country in Africa or something because that's his only memory of this place. Hell we haven't reached independence yet then, and couldn't progress.

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RE: So let me ask the women here a question. - 12/16/2016 7:25:30 AM

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Oh for fuck's sake, shut up.

Seconded.

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RE: So let me ask the women here a question. - 12/16/2016 8:01:41 AM

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You spout something and some of us look it up to find that you were wrong.

Aaand.... Alecta's profile says she's in BC, not Singapore.

It's true, context is important. No single wall of text guarantees the context and insight of a subject's full history.
I think you've just proven Greta's accusations regarding you and Thompson.
And what about the numerous times you have done the same about your version of the UK?
But I don't think you have any actual problems with the country. I think you just pick on it to antagonise Greta because she is more vulnerable about that than about her sexual preferences, which is what really offends you about her.
Of course, I could be wrong.

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