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Ghoztmaster -> How do subs/slaves feel about serving a couple? (12/20/2016 9:59:30 AM)

I am currently in a relationship but I'm also wondering if a slave or a sub would feel about being owned by a couple?



OsideGirl -> RE: How do subs/slaves feel about serving a couple? (12/20/2016 10:04:52 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Ghoztmaster

I am currently in a relationship but I'm also wondering if a slave or a sub would feel about being owned by a couple?

The answer is...it depends...



ThatDizzyChick -> RE: How do subs/slaves feel about serving a couple? (12/20/2016 10:07:01 AM)

Well technically my two Fellas count as a couple, so t least one sub figures it is the bestest thing ever.



littleladybug -> RE: How do subs/slaves feel about serving a couple? (12/20/2016 10:21:12 AM)

I would think that it would depend on the person.



stef -> RE: How do subs/slaves feel about serving a couple? (12/20/2016 10:27:50 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Ghoztmaster

I am currently in a relationship but I'm also wondering if a slave or a sub would feel about being owned by a couple?

Some are fine with it, others aren't. Is there something specific you're trying to figure out?



UllrsIshtar -> RE: How do subs/slaves feel about serving a couple? (12/20/2016 11:03:21 AM)

My slave girl is owned by a couple (my husband and me) she says it's exhausting, because there's two people to keep up with and one of them (me) is as intense as 2 people rolled in one already, so for her personally, it ends up feeling more like she's keeping up with 3 people.



ResidentSadist -> RE: How do subs/slaves feel about serving a couple? (12/21/2016 9:00:11 AM)

My slave was a unicorn when I first met her. She is a bisexual, poly, masochistic pervert... serving a couple just meant more fun for her.



kiwisub22 -> RE: How do subs/slaves feel about serving a couple? (12/21/2016 1:57:17 PM)

I wouldn't care for it if serving equals sex - because i'm not bisexual. If serving is non-sexual, then possibly ok - because i'm monogamous, and I really can't see me serving a couple - but I might try it.
As another poster said - it depends. Everyone is different, generalities don't work well in relationship based questions.



petitedarkling -> RE: How do subs/slaves feel about serving a couple? (12/22/2016 5:14:52 AM)

Hypothetically? I wouldn't mind it. Although it would depend entirely on how time-intensive the arrangement was, if they wanted me to serve nobody else (not happening) and a myriad of other things including vanilla compatibility.



ReMakeYou -> RE: How do subs/slaves feel about serving a couple? (12/22/2016 5:24:59 PM)

Just serving a couple is rare, but not unheard of.

You're asking about a more specific case, though. Where they drop everything to fit into your life, while understanding implicitly that they won't be acknowleged as full members. ("Must be willing to relocate for a live in 24/7/365 LTR. Must understand that we have children and discretion is advised or the consequences will be severe")

Include elements that almost invariably come with the territory (that the sub will come with no complications of their own, that you'll be able to just leave this person who upended their life if they don't work out for you), and you'll understand why most subs are massively disinclined.



Taramafor -> RE: How do subs/slaves feel about serving a couple? (12/22/2016 5:57:05 PM)

Depends on the couple. Even I know that. Are they jealous? Open? Loose leash or iron grip? There's just too many factors to take into consideration here.

Personally it's something I can get down with myself. I see it like this. If someone lets me be a part of their life and there's someone else with them then that person has every right to be there. Not because they were there first but because they matter to someone I might care about. Even if I don't like that person myself.

Bit of a story behind that but I'll not get into it here. Suffice to say I once knew a guy that could have been there for someone I care for and he wasn't able to be. Not because he didn't try though.



tamaka -> RE: How do subs/slaves feel about serving a couple? (12/22/2016 6:45:32 PM)

I've only done it when the woman in the couple submits to the man. I wouldn't be able to do it any other way unless she was something incredibly spectacular.



DesFIP -> RE: How do subs/slaves feel about serving a couple? (12/22/2016 7:37:13 PM)

Serving a couple? Maybe.

But serving you folks? Not a chance in hell.

You don't welcome her into your life. You admit that you can't be trusted by saying that you'll do whatever you want no matter how bad it will harm her. People have limits for good and sufficient reasons and you don't appear to understand that.

Basically, your ad reads as though you want a wife but you won't introduce them as such to your family. If anyone asks about them, you'll deny them and then punish them for your mistakes.

You are the last person anyone should enter into a relationship with. Thankfully, it's highly unlikely that you'll get any takers.



came4U -> RE: How do subs/slaves feel about serving a couple? (12/23/2016 1:28:53 AM)

quote:

I am currently in a relationship but I'm also wondering if a slave or a sub would feel about being owned by a couple?


Forget about a slave or sub, figure out the 'we' in your relationship first.

edit: sorry about that, perhaps you already have thought about this first.



SubbieSamurai -> RE: How do subs/slaves feel about serving a couple? (2/10/2017 8:34:54 PM)

As with most things, it would depend on the couple! ^.^. I have personally had very good experiences with serving a dominant couple but I was fortunate enough to find ones who were attentive and equally dominant. A lot of communication and such and worked off of each other well. I am not sure if this is echoed among everyone who has but it is really fun!



OsideGirl -> RE: How do subs/slaves feel about serving a couple? (2/11/2017 12:44:52 PM)


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ORIGINAL: SubbieSamurai

As with most things, it would depend on the couple!


I disagree. It depends on the individual. Some people are wired poly, the majority are not.



slutboy535 -> RE: How do subs/slaves feel about serving a couple? (2/13/2017 9:14:25 AM)

i am a bi male sub who LOVESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS SERVING A COUPLE AND DOING AS THEY WISH



kasss -> RE: How do subs/slaves feel about serving a couple? (2/22/2017 11:12:48 AM)

My partner and i have been talking recently about the prospect of finding a sub-girl to serve us both. Trouble is serving my partner involves quite a lot of cleaning. I feel it may be easier to just hire a cleaner at the slave wages that they work for these days.



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