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What do male subs want?

Online domination only.

0% (0)

Telephone domination only.

0% (0)

Someone to scene with only.

18% (6)

Someone to submit to fully.

27% (9)

A loving M's relationship.

30% (10)

Wack off material.

24% (8)

Total Votes : 33

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What do male subs want? - 7/24/2006 5:58:12 AM

twicehappy

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Our house, specifically the female half of the dom/domme couple i am owned by has been searching for some time for a male submissive to join our poly household. We are not looking for a play partner but for someone to become a much loved member of a poly fidelity family.

Mistress(ShiftedJewel) receives many answers, most of which are one liners looking for a quick kink fix, some who appear to be real until it is time to meet then they disappear and a few who are genuine.

So gentleman after you answer the poll please take a few moments of your time to describe what it is you are seaching for.

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RE: What do male subs want? - 7/24/2006 6:04:33 PM

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ROFLMAO.........

Evidently they do not want to take polls or tell us what they do want!

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RE: What do male subs want? - 7/24/2006 6:12:47 PM

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I want someone to submit to fully. However, I could not imagine being poly.

Yours,

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RE: What do male subs want? - 7/24/2006 6:44:40 PM

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Awwww...... you sweety, at least you answered. If you were poly we would snatch your cute little self right up.

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RE: What do male subs want? - 7/24/2006 6:48:21 PM

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I was actually just going to post..cause your little thread looked sorta lonely. Then I saw little dog had....and isn't that all a thread needs to make it perfect?

~Andrea

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RE: What do male subs want? - 7/24/2006 11:32:21 PM

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no, rawr

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RE: What do male subs want? - 7/25/2006 1:02:35 AM

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hmm *looks at the puppy and the tiger ..... smiling impishly* ... ohhh but I so want a menagerie ..... I promise you would be well fed... petted ... and you will love your cages *laughs*

but seriously, twice happy .... its interesting all the talk about more sub males than dominas .... I think its that more males that express a sexual fetish .. but less or equal when it comes to a ltr with D/s as its main focus ... and as always poly makes the numbers harder

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RE: What do male subs want? - 7/25/2006 2:03:26 AM

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As a Female Dominant, I have gotten replies from male subs representing all six of the above categories. Commonly, I hear from subs seeking #3 who are not interested in a long-term relationship. They evidently do not read profiles. Once in a while, I hear from subs seeking on-line or phone domination, or wack off material, and just ignore them (#1, #2, and #6). Another type of reply not listed above that I get once in a while is from subs who want to interact via webcam, which doesn't interest Me at all. I don't even have a webcam.

I am seeking someone looking for #4 or #5 and get a fair number of these responses as well. They are the only ones I seriously consider.

Lady Topaz

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RE: What do male subs want? - 7/25/2006 5:29:35 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MzMinx

its interesting all the talk about more sub males than dominas .... I think its that more males that express a sexual fetish .. but less or equal when it comes to a ltr with D/s as its main focus ... and as always poly makes the numbers harder

I agree with you Mz, i think most have a fetish but no real lifetime commitment desires. Yet if they were honest about those desires upfront instead of leading the Domme's on i would respect that; instead they play games until it is time to meet then disappear. Being poly does complicate the situation because the chosen one must suit not one partner but three at least emotionally; sexual contact being limited for them to Jewel alone.

I know that eventually the right one for this house will come along but in the meantime my heart breaks every time it happens because i see Jewel's disappointment and frustration. There have been a few who were upfront about only wanting casual contact and those few became friends though not playmates. There are those times that while i do not have a sadistic bone in my body i would love to have a half hour with a few of the players..........

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ORIGINAL: MysticFireTopaz

I am seeking someone looking for #4 or #5 and get a fair number of these responses as well. They are the only ones I seriously consider.

Mistress too gets a fair number of the #'s 4 and 5 type replies but as i noted above so far most of them dissappear when it is time to make contact.

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RE: What do male subs want? - 7/25/2006 6:07:47 AM

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ok i did the poll so i better answer here or else i dont want to get on the wrong side of twicehappy!!

Ok i put a loving M/s as that is the aim for me but i need some experience before that so would be happy for a few one off scenes to whet my appetite!!

Take care all and hope you find what you after here!

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RE: What do male subs want? - 7/25/2006 4:40:26 PM

twicehappy

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Thank you, no worrys about getting on my wrong side there are only a few key things that do that. Your honesty is refreshing and i do appreciate your answer.

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RE: What do male subs want? - 7/25/2006 4:45:10 PM

MistressDeAnnya

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First thing that came to mind, besides all the above was what most Dominant Women I speak to (including myself) run into:

Someone to scene with only.       18% (3)
Wack off material.       37% (6)

edited to add- altho most do CLAIM to want:
Someone to submit to fully.       25% (4)

Mistress DeAnnya

< Message edited by MistressDeAnnya -- 7/25/2006 4:49:27 PM >

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RE: What do male subs want? - 7/25/2006 5:13:59 PM

cheshireboy

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it could all depend on the mood of the moment? sometimes only wank off material works, other times, wanting to scene is just dandy, hell, even a phone call just to hear a voice out there late at night is good...and then the mature wise aged ones want the loving relationship...but boy? all he wants is a cookie.

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RE: What do male subs want? - 7/25/2006 10:08:12 PM

SavageFaerie

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*hands boy a nice crispy cookie*

Sorry for the hijack.....I have the benji flu

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RE: What do male subs want? - 7/25/2006 10:44:06 PM

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I got a cookie for him too.

lol

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RE: What do male subs want? - 7/25/2006 11:08:19 PM

Kagesuta

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Wellll, I figured that a loving M's relationship was close enough to what I'm looking for. I am relatively young and foolish, but looking for someone on a personals site to get masturbationatory (I dunno if that's a real word, but I'm going with it!) material from another person... Seems weird to me. I dunno. I'm here to meet like-minded friends, and one day find the perfect girl to ride off into the sunset with. Who rides who will probably be determined by coin-toss, or rock-paper-scizzors.

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RE: What do male subs want? - 7/26/2006 2:58:40 AM

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Good Luck darling.

Inhale, Misty

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RE: What do male subs want? - 7/26/2006 3:17:51 AM

cheshireboy

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~takes both cookies with his trademark grin~ yes, a simple want...ahhh the joys of being submissive.

cheshire
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RE: What do male subs want? - 7/26/2006 4:49:09 AM

twicehappy

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quote:

ORIGINAL: cheshireboy

~takes both cookies with his trademark grin~ yes, a simple want...ahhh the joys of being submissive.

Lol, my owners both know bazooka bubble gum bought at the co-op or cotton candy from the fair both get big dumb grins from me. Sometimes the simple things remembered are worth more than a week of scening.

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