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I have not had a freind much less anything else in years. - 12/31/2016 7:11:17 PM

LenMoody

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I have not had a freind much less anything else in years. So I have no one to say Happy News to. So I am saying to any who sees this. Best wishes to all. Lynn

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RE: I have not had a freind much less anything else in ... - 12/31/2016 9:50:33 PM

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Happy New Year to you and welcome to the forums.

Why don't you have a friend?

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RE: I have not had a freind much less anything else in ... - 12/31/2016 9:52:41 PM

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Best wishes to you and I hope for friendship and much happiness to come your way in 2017.

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RE: I have not had a freind much less anything else in ... - 12/31/2016 9:55:25 PM

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Wayward got there before I did,
hope your year is better than last...
Good luck
Happy New year

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RE: I have not had a freind much less anything else in ... - 12/31/2016 10:10:24 PM

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Happy Easter.

Dont look at me I have 3 cats and a hot water bottle....4 cats if I count the ginger thieving bastard from two rows up

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RE: I have not had a freind much less anything else in ... - 12/31/2016 10:25:36 PM

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To those who said happy New Year to me. Thanks a bunch.

If I counted the strays I feed I guess I would have 6 lol.

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RE: I have not had a freind much less anything else in ... - 12/31/2016 10:34:40 PM

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Then you have a flock of cats and therefore of your rocker as any more than 2 cats makes you a doolally. Not that I can be contained with the coat of the shiny buckles.

Think I fell asleep at 1150 and its now 633am of the morning clock

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RE: I have not had a freind much less anything else in ... - 12/31/2016 10:44:09 PM

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I do not know. Most men I do not have anything in common with. I live in North Mississippi. People are not know for being open minded around here. Everyone goes to church and I do not. I am not a christian which is one of the first things people ask here, (where do you go to church.) The few cool people around here never have wanted me for a friend or anything else. I tried taking ballroom dancing and line dancing. Though I found out I loved to dance. I never meet anyone, but married ladies who's hubby's did not do things with them. Did you know I found out a couple of them was telling all of the single women bad thing about me that where not true. Why I guess they did not wish to lose someone to dance with. I tried the local BDSM monthly meet. No one talked to me much. No one ever ask me to be a part of anything. The male that lead the group pretty much just used for him to meet new women. I tried on here back when it was collar me. The only lady I met I drove 4 hours to meet. She did not real want to meet someone for any other than to have them work in her garden and fix on her house. Which I did for a whole week. Till it hit me she just want free labor. You know I lost a lot of weight back then. I thought maybe it was because I was fat. I am kind of fat again now. This will sound bad but I am poor. I have to be my mothers care taker. Ladies hate that. Plus I have been told in not so nice humiliating way that I was ugly a lot more than one time in my life. I do not know that answer to that. A friend I use to have, Told me it was because I did not lie about myself and I was to nice. He said people want to hear a line and bull. Maybe he was right. He always have had pretty ladies in his life and many friends. Truth there I stopped being friends with him because I got tried of seeing him with someone having fun all the time. So you tell me. I just do not know. This also will sound very bad, but the only two ladies who have wanted to go out with me. Well one is crazy bad. Plus they are both very fat. I like to ride a bicycles and do active things. Plus I do not care for lazy. Women who are that big well I am just not interested in, it is the truth bad are not.

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RE: I have not had a freind much less anything else in ... - 12/31/2016 10:49:51 PM

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Women are pretty rare on here if i see any i will cage us a couple each. Now, to woo a women you require obviously a cage, and a nice pair of shoes as bait.

There are probably munches and clubs in Mississippi and a bit of a river.

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RE: I have not had a freind much less anything else in ... - 12/31/2016 10:58:47 PM

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I am on the other side from the state from the river. If you will please read what I just answer to someone else. You will see I have tried many things to meet someone. Yes even the local munch. I had said, no one would talk to me much, I was never asked to be a part of anything. The guy who ran it most just used it for him to meet new women. Some of them seemed like nice people. I did try to talk to them and ask things. I did have a few write me and ask me a few thing on the yahoo group page that was a part of the munch. But the one time I wrote someone and ask them something which was not anything bad I am not stupid and would never say something out of place. Well I got my butt chewed on for doing it by the man who runs the local munch.

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RE: I have not had a freind much less anything else in ... - 12/31/2016 11:52:48 PM

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Ēostre or Ostara or Pascha day. Or maybe happy moveable feast day. Or Easter if I must. I think it is maybe called Lent to . I like Happy moveable feast day best. :)

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RE: I have not had a freind much less anything else in ... - 1/1/2017 12:06:30 AM

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Ēostre or Ostara or Pascha day. Or maybe happy moveable feast day. Or Easter if I must. I think it is maybe called Lent to . I like Happy moveable feast day best. :)
Now there is a lot more to the real story about the true Easter. From bible and from books much older like The Epic of Gilgamesh. But I tend to be to long winded as it is.

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RE: I have not had a freind much less anything else in ... - 1/1/2017 12:08:46 AM

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How do you delete a opps????

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RE: I have not had a freind much less anything else in ... - 1/1/2017 1:13:57 AM

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I have been called way worse than doolally A flock of cats is called a clowder of cats. I am a very well read doolally.

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RE: I have not had a freind much less anything else in ... - 1/1/2017 2:41:17 AM

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Dude, I'm thinking you don't need kink.

Find a support group.

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RE: I have not had a freind much less anything else in ... - 1/1/2017 3:09:08 AM

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You know I blocked you for a bit. Then it hit, Why would I do that for. You took the time to write something to me. So I should you to. Here it is. Thank you for thinking of me and what you think you should have said. Oh and happy new year.

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RE: I have not had a freind much less anything else in ... - 1/1/2017 6:01:57 AM

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"Blocking her for a bit" alludes to you have been here before under various usernames. But you already know I think that.

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RE: I have not had a freind much less anything else in ... - 1/1/2017 9:13:05 AM

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Well I hope that 2017 will be the year that things start to improve for you, and you know that for anything to change that you will need to start doing something different to what you have been doing up until now? Exactly what that is I don't know, since I don't know you and I don't know what is available in your area. Maybe Lady Pact had a good suggestion there? If things are very bad then some sort of counselling or support group could be a better place to start than a kink group.

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RE: I have not had a freind much less anything else in ... - 1/1/2017 1:16:38 PM

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I've been blessed with wonderful family and friends, for whom I'm deeply grateful.

But I've never quite gotten the hang of "much less anything else."

Over the years, I've identified assorted reasons for that: obesity, depression, shyness, fear of the dark nature of my desires, a mothlike attraction to unavailable men, unrealistic expectations, lack of role models.

Lately, though, it's struck me that another key factor is almost certainly a tendency to focus on what I'd like from a guy rather than what I have to offer.

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RE: I have not had a freind much less anything else in ... - 1/1/2017 1:40:49 PM

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ORIGINAL: LenMoody

You know I blocked you for a bit. Then it hit, Why would I do that for. You took the time to write something to me. So I should you to. Here it is. Thank you for thinking of me and what you think you should have said. Oh and happy new year.

Seriously, if you "blocked me for a bit," I'm gonna tell ya, do what you gotta do.

I'm sorry that you seem to be suffering. Truly, I am. I really don't know what it's like to not have friends, because I've always had that.

Best wishes.

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