Termyn8or
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Many many good points here. Now let's add this to the mix (most are not going to like it but it is a part of reality). Here we have doctors in New Orleans committing euthenasia without the consent of the patient. In the case cited to me, and my opinion asked, the guy was in bed gasping for breath, fighting for each molecule of air he could get. They gave him a lethal injection without his consent, obviously since he couldn't talk, you have to be able to breathe to talk. Let me tell you this, I have awoken coughing badly, with saliva running down my windpipe. Thank whoever that this happens very rarely. When this hapens I MUST sit up, or it will never clear up. It has happened and the fact that I am alive means it worked. Did they try sitting this pateint up, or laying him on his stomach to help him cough this stuff out ? NO, I'd bet my life against a dollar that it never entered their mind. The entire medical community is totally incompetent. No matter what they make if you want a good life you make your own decisions. My Dad does this, and we caught mistakes that would'v killed him. He bought a PDR and straight up told doctors, " I won't take an MAO inhibitor nor a calcium blocker". They asked how he knew about this. Surprised actually. When I got shot in the face in about 1983, they tried to force me to lay down, see the bullet had been deflected down and was causing some bleeding. I was pretty strong at the time and when four of them tried to force me to lay down they brought out the restraints. I yelled "Look you stupid motherfuckers, I am bleeding into my lungs, I will not lay down and seriously need something to spit into as I cough up shit". The restaraints were removed immediately and things went better. Thing is they brought a wheelchair and I refused to sit in it, I said "I am walking into this place and I am walking out of it". ( I also refused all pain killers and sedatives ) They might know about anatomy, but they seem to forget about gravity. The doctors in New Orleans should not be doctors anymore if they did not sit the guy up, and whap him on the back a few times, force of course commensurate with his physical size. (they should've tried this long ago) They probably had him strapped down so he couldn't pull the IVs and leave, costing them money. I have a bad habit of being objective, and now on the other side of the coin is my buddy Mike. He got in a really bad car wreck and he and his olady had recently split up. They had to restrain him because he kept trying to leave, see the gershift had gone through his chest. Subsequently they had to put him in an induced coma, to save his life. They did, this was long before we had ever met. How is this relevant ? Well, his olady, and I call her that out of disrespect, was really pushing for them to pull the plug. She was a real bitch and I'm sure she wanted his insurance money. I am 90% sure of this because I know members of her family and they are some serious lowlifes. Now, we can sit here and bitch about the law all we want, but given these different circumstances how should law be applied ? This is a serious issue I agree, but some way must be found to keep our "owners" at bay while preventing abuses that were very possible in Mike's case, had the doctors not refused to cease life support. He didn't have any missing limbs or paralysis, no brain damage, he is as lucid as you or I and reads and writes just fine. Here's an idea, and I am serious. Let a family sign the death order, that is to authorize life support removal. Fine. But they sign that they give up their inheritance and any insurance proceeds doing it. I mean everything. That one person gets nothing unless it is by the good graces of the rest of the family. If this were law there could be alternates written into a will. This would be at the choice of the deceased. Really though, if the whole family wants rid of this person, oh well. Abuse could still happen, but if the person raised a bunch of greedy motherfuckers, they have now reaped what they have sown. They talk about nursing home abuse, well these are the old people who's children don't care about them, why is that ? If you abuse my Parents you will incur my wrath, don't do it. My Dad can get quite cantankerous at times, even abrasive. As such, you will learn to deal with it as I have, you are being paid to do so. So these old folks all abused, where are their families ? Some sires and bearers of children were so bad that some will purposely pick the worst nursing home they can find, and then sue later. (after the old folks are dad of course, to get all the money for themselves) It happens. When in a serious argument with Dad I actually considered it, or having him declared incompetent. I am glad I didn't do it. Things go better. At one time I was so pissed off I would've chosen the shittiest path of treatment, the worst home to take him. I would've grabbed his assets and squandered them, out of spite. This was years ago and this is not me now, but what if ............. Luckily for me, during that time in my karma, my psyche, my attitude, he did not become infirm. I was in my 20s. Perhaps it is time we should give up on a universal age of sufferage and concentrate on something more valid. How about this; Each student, before graduating highschool must write a will, from scratch. It will be judged on content and will be discussed. Those who say "My CDs go to Sherry, my stereo goes to Frank, my car goes to..."(even though the car is still in Dad's name). Well we scrutinize that. The student is given no form and no guidelines. The people who judge the document are not only sworn to secrecy, but otherwise unaffiliated with the author. Said people ar forbidden to enjoy any inheritance or benefit whatsoever. Said will shall have medical instructions as well, and none of the judges can be affiliated with the medical community either. Really I state facts, I state problems and I make generalities, much to the dismay of LaM I guess. If I say what I do not think is the truth I am lying and I will not lie. I have no reason to lie in this forum. Real change is needed, I don't think anybody will disagree with that. Problem is, just what direction should these changes take ? Consider my offerance. You can pull the plug on your family, but you are completely cut out of any money from it. To recieve one penny is considered premeditated murder. Think about it. And, let me ask you this, why the fuck does a hospital care if a young Man gets their chemo treatment or not, or if a young Woman gets a Csection or not ? ( hint : money ) I think it is more than the bills the can write and charge an insurance company or the government. I wonder what percentage of people undergoing double blind studies actually know about it. I am very skeptical of their motives. Aren't you ? T
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