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MisPandora -> RE: If I were yours? (8/1/2006 12:27:44 PM)
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ORIGINAL: TeeGO
Have they put themselves out publicly in a place like this while being unattached? If so did they present in a submissive stance, or would they if they have not done something like this?
They don't do the online chat sites, however, they occasionally attend me at RT events. Yes, they are in a place of submission when attending me, however, if they need to ramp things up and be the Alpha, they will and do. I have in my mind a particular incident at International Mr Leather in Chicago a few years ago. My boy rj ended up marching into the kitchen of the restaurant full of leatherfolk that my guests and I were eating in to gain the attention of the manager and waitstaff. He did this in my collar, attired in full swat gear and a shaven head. I assure you that he was not in a "submissive stance" when he discussed with the manager and the assigned server why we'd been waiting 30 minutes, why we had to call down to the front counter and come down to get anyone's attention, let alone some service. He got a round of applause from the patrons on the first floor (we were upstairs on the balcony); apparently, many other people were being treated with poor service in this establishment and the guys were impressed that the boy did his duty to ensure that his mistress was well cared for.
My expectation of my supplicant is that he is always a reflection of me and my training. He escalates a situation only if it is necessary and takes action in order to execute an order or make his Mistress' life easier. Examples of these would include clearing a path in a crowded bar or event or retrieving a lost item in a play space. He can hardly get tasks like that accomplished without being more aggressive.
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I can truly respect the idea that if I was yours my picture would be a reflection of you. But as I am independent and master of my own life at this point in time, I can only present myself as who I am. To bow down, to submit, to become owned requires that I be inspired to do so by a worthy Domme. Rest assured I will when that connection happens.
Understood. You solicited opinions of what *might* happen, hypothetically.
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Let me relate a true story and one that put my mind to this idea. I was training with a Domme some time ago, it did not work out for "other" reasons yet we remain best friends. We went up to Chicago one night and the rules were I follow behind her in a very submissive way. She had a lot of fun with this in the various shops and places we went to. However as we were walking down the street a derelict started following us, we couldn't shake him. She got a bit nervous and almost walked right into the path of an oncoming car, I reached out and yanked her back in the nick of time. The derelict was right there eyeing us. At that point I made a decision. I told her this is not working so well, when in the stores I will resume my place but her on the street I am going back to who I am and you just need to think of my presence as a reflection on you. She wholeheartedly agreed. I stood up straight, took the lead, gave that guy a dirty look that sent him scampering in the other direction. Back inside where it was safe I resumed my position, on the street I exhibited strength as a Knight protecting his Queen.
That's an excellent example. I'm ok with him escalating a situation as needed, but he will always remember his place when that situatuon is over.
It's all a matter of personal preference. Again, you asked for opinions, and one was shared. Take it for what it's worth: the text on a website.
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