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BigBadWolf -> Evolution of a Master (12/6/2004 12:47:37 PM)
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I was asked to Write a few words about the life style a while back...
Sadly after my son was murdered I didnt have the heart for it...
That was a year ago this Dec.22nd. and slowly I'm comming back.
So What I Write is just my personal Take on 20+ Years on the life style.
I came to be a master by way of having my nose broken once a week!!!
Way back when.... I use to love to go down on my then Girlfriend later to be Ex-wife.
Lets just say she would go wild....and I loved her reaction...
the down side?
she would throw her hands down to her pubic bone as she came...more times than not hitting me on the bridge of my nose.
Trust me when I say...Its a real Mood killer.
So I got to where I'd tie her hands to the headboard.
Back in the late 70's there were no message boards with tips on how to do things.
so I went through the stages..
first using neckties, then scarfs, belts, laundry cord...ect....
Most worked to some degree but if one snaped I'd have my nose broken again...good news was this way I was down to...broken nose about every two months.
for about two years thats how it went....untill a trip back home....
My Family were all ranchers and my dad a Horse doctor.
on a trip home one summer I had to help him restrain a mustang that got into LOCO WEED.
It makes a hore go wild for a few days.. so much so he may kill you or himself.
SO dad and I set out to hobble said horse...Hobbles being a kind of leg iron for horses.
after a day of trying not to get kick, bit and bumped, we got him in a harness that held him imoble.
now being a twenty something horny young master I got to thinking....I could do this to my lady on a smaller scale!
Two things happened kind of back to back that led to the next stage.
One was it took a while to make leather cuff's as I had to make them myself back then.
and my then new wife was around 6 months preggo with my first son.
I'd heard the stories about expecting women having odd cravings but this one throw me at first.
See I'd just got to where I would tie her up with no hope of escape...meaning no more broken noses.
when on night out of the blue she up and says..."Dear, Would you Whip me with a belt really really hard"?
up untill this point all I ever did was tie her up.
I never thought about whipping her.
I said "well okay but if I hurt you even the littlest you tell me and I'll quit"!
she said "I wont be able too, I'll be gaged"...
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Gaged?
"We dont want the nighbors to hear me scream do you:?
Anything for a lady was my motto and it was akward, odd, a bit of a test on both our parts.
but it was new and fun and as we learned together it became awsome.
the point to this little story is simple.
its not how much you know as a Dom or sub.
see the best part is finding what each other likes and doesnt.
its about learning to trust each other
and loving what you do for your love.
In hind sight with twenty+ years behind me including having trained one miss leather and nude usa.
If I had to learn it all over I'd still do it the same way.
with one lady I cared about, willing to explore anything and everything....
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