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RE: Social experiment on Tinder. It's only men who are ... - 3/5/2017 6:15:42 AM   
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Speaking of childish, it's amazing how the utter childish attitude is missed from needles to begin with. She come into this thread and started attacking me with the "you can't get laid" tactic, which is a very childish way to act towards a male when he simply points out faults in the behaviour amongst women.

So what did I do, I made a chilish attack back. But of course its only wrong when I do it while the total childishness of the "you can't get laid" attack remainds totally unchecked in the discussion.

Yep, gotta love irony.

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RE: Social experiment on Tinder. It's only men who are ... - 3/5/2017 8:42:35 AM   
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No.

What you did was take a small, personal slight and decide to blow it up to unreasonable proportions.

To the original...

Whether you like it or not, if I don't like someone's approach, I just don't. This isn't up to you. It's up to me. If I am more receptive to one person than another, again, up to me.

Personal interactions are not the EEO.


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RE: Social experiment on Tinder. It's only men who are ... - 3/5/2017 8:50:58 AM   
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Nobody owes you a pity fuck. Get over yourself.

Either get professional help to become someone who is worth being with or accept that you will always be alone. Your choice. Take responsibility for your actions for once.

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RE: Social experiment on Tinder. It's only men who are ... - 3/5/2017 9:22:16 AM   
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Oh respectmen! Most are well-aware that no-one can ever shut you up; you need the scorn of others; without it you'd be left to face the unpleasant reality of your empty existence; inattention would be fatal to you; you'd be nothing but a nickname.

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RE: Social experiment on Tinder. It's only men who are ... - 3/5/2017 9:26:10 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MsLadySue

Oh respectmen! Most are well-aware that no-one can ever shut you up; you need the scorn of others; without it you'd be left to face the unpleasant reality of your empty existence; inattention would be fatal to you; you'd be nothing but a nickname.


Please everyone: give ^ a try.

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RE: Social experiment on Tinder. It's only men who are ... - 3/5/2017 11:12:43 AM   
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Oh respectmen! Most are well-aware that no-one can ever shut you up; you need the scorn of others; without it you'd be left to face the unpleasant reality of your empty existence; inattention would be fatal to you; you'd be nothing but a nickname.


Please everyone: give ^ a try.

But mocking the afflicted is fun...

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RE: Social experiment on Tinder. It's only men who are ... - 3/5/2017 11:19:23 AM   
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I looked at what the OP posted. Nowhere does it say how many women didn't respond well to this fellows messages. Basically someone cherrypicked the responses they wanted to get the impression they desired. Now, who that person might have been I couldn't possibly say.

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RE: Social experiment on Tinder. It's only men who are ... - 3/5/2017 11:48:44 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

No.

What you did was take a small, personal slight and decide to blow it up to unreasonable proportions.

To the original...

Whether you like it or not, if I don't like someone's approach, I just don't. This isn't up to you. It's up to me. If I am more receptive to one person than another, again, up to me.

Personal interactions are not the EEO.



No LP, I never blew this up to unreasonable proportions. Like it or not, people have to admit that women aren't faultless perfect princesses who should be immune to criticism.

There are plenty of women out there who play it like this. Not all. Even before this link existed I have seen this same scenario discussed. When I used to hang in the POF forums this particular scenario in discussion came up every now and then.

All people have done in this thread, except Greta and you, is made an attack against me and had no interest at the actual topic. That's the definition of childish. But I don't expect them to have the intelligence to see the irony.

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RE: Social experiment on Tinder. It's only men who are ... - 3/5/2017 11:53:07 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Nobody owes you a pity fuck. Get over yourself.

Either get professional help to become someone who is worth being with or accept that you will always be alone. Your choice. Take responsibility for your actions for once.


Where did I ask for a pity fuck? Oh that's right, you're making shit up out of thin air to form a personal attack because you are butthurt over the topic.

So I need professional help just for pointing out that women can have faults too and feminism is crap? I really wonder why feminists never do for pointing out men's faults all the time and having a problem with the mens rights movement. Double standards I guess.

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RE: Social experiment on Tinder. It's only men who are ... - 3/5/2017 1:17:54 PM   
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You need professional help because you don't learn. I don't recall anyone ever saying women are perfect, and neither do I recall any poster pointing out mens faults all the time. I have seen, however, individual posters pointing out logic flaws that you decline to acknowledge.

It blows my mind that you think that there are women, bunches of women, who do nothing but bash men all the time. And that men are oppressed by all these women.

As for mens rights.... what rights? Equal pay for equal work? The right not to be judged by looks alone, or the right not to have potential mate worthiness based on earnings? Or for that matter, on the ability to raised children?

Men, for better or worse, have the advantage in any modern society. There are individual issues they don't trump in - generally speaking, men won't get custody in any divorce, unless the mother can be proved to be unfit. And they have to wait for a woman to say yes before they access the vagina.

The fact that feminism exists at all proves that there is an imbalance between women and men. If there wasn't, the whole idea of feminism would be redundant, unnecessary. Do some women take it a bit far - sure, just as there are some women who don't go far enough, but in general most women are in the middle of these two extremes, so really you are railing at the very small number of women on the end of the curve. Kind of a waste of time really.

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RE: Social experiment on Tinder. It's only men who are ... - 3/5/2017 1:21:17 PM   
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Like it or not, people have to admit that women aren't faultless perfect princesses who should be immune to criticism.

Who here is claiming otherwise?

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RE: Social experiment on Tinder. It's only men who are ... - 3/5/2017 1:38:22 PM   
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No LP, I never blew this up to unreasonable proportions. Like it or not, people have to admit that women aren't faultless perfect princesses who should be immune to criticism.

There are plenty of women out there who play it like this. Not all. Even before this link existed I have seen this same scenario discussed. When I used to hang in the POF forums this particular scenario in discussion came up every now and then.

All people have done in this thread, except Greta and you, is made an attack against me and had no interest at the actual topic. That's the definition of childish. But I don't expect them to have the intelligence to see the irony.

I disagree. I think some of what you said to needles was pretty awful. Not to mention, if that's really her picture, it's damn untrue. Seriously, if that would be what you would categorize as fat, I'm inclined to ask you exactly when you hit your head that distorted your vision that badly. What you said to her was just plain nasty. Even if you're going to try the "but Mom, she started it" routine, damn dude, don't you have some kind of appropriateness meter?

Truthfully, I do agree with Oside that this wasn't related to BDSM at all. The closest you're going to get is that the subject *might* relate to how people interact in regard to sexual hook-ups. As you know, this is not my realm, so I'm out of my element here. Even if I wasn't, the examples given would have been the easiest way to end up in the reject pile.

It's probably not the angle that happened here, but the thought has occurred to me that some of this might be like what happens on the 'Return to Sender' group (on the other site) from time to time. Get the moron that writes something completely inappropriate? Troll the troll.

All of that aside, I'm still standing by my original statement. Best I can do is look at it from a casual (S/m) play angle and yes, two people can approach me and there might be something about one, rather than the other, that makes me more inclined to play with the first and not the second. Even if they say the same thing. (Take away what I consider disrespectful, because if I see it that way, you're toast.) I'm more likely to pick whoever is going to be the most fun, rather than on physical appearance, but for whatever reason I base that on is up to me.



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RE: Social experiment on Tinder. It's only men who are ... - 3/6/2017 11:10:35 AM   
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I can see why people are trolling respectmen's posts now. He definitely has an agenda. LOL

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RE: Social experiment on Tinder. It's only men who are ... - 3/10/2017 10:52:45 PM   
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Breaking News: Scientists just discovered that attractive young women are more attracted to hot guys than not so hot guys. Minds are boggled.

So basically, you're mad because you don't look like him.

For the record, I'm a middle aged woman who has been hit up for sex by quite a few young, hot, rippled guys on OKC and other sites including this one. They think I'm some kind of desperate cougar moped they can take a secret ride on. Well, I've got news for them. Not interested.

I don't expect any man to look like a model, nor do I look like a model. Just be decently attractive and treat me like a human being. Thanks.

Now, let's do an experiment with a picture of Megan Fox.

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RE: Social experiment on Tinder. It's only men who are ... - 3/10/2017 11:15:08 PM   
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I was thinking the same thing about cherry picking. I dare him to send me a message like that and see what kind of response he gets. There's no way that *nobody* told him off or ignored him, I don't care what he looks like. I would have been like should I call your mom or is there a boy band missing a member?

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RE: Social experiment on Tinder. It's only men who are ... - 3/11/2017 4:31:16 AM   
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So basically, you're mad because you don't look like him.


Not at all. I'm tired of his posting the same misogynist bull, time after time. If he dislikes women so much, he should just leave the site and his problems with the ladies here would be over. He won't do that because he loves the attention, like a child, any attention is better than none at all.

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RE: Social experiment on Tinder. It's only men who are ... - 3/11/2017 12:38:51 PM   
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I'm in agreemen with you. I was addressing the OP. I don't like the format of this website. When I just scroll down and leave a comment, it says I'm replying to someone who I wasn't. I guess I have to "reply" to OP from now on?

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RE: Social experiment on Tinder. It's only men who are ... - 3/11/2017 12:39:27 PM   
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kiwisub22

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You need professional help because you don't learn.


So just because I don't have the same opinion as you, a gynocentric opinion, it means I need help? Roars with laughter.

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I don't recall anyone ever saying women are perfect, and neither do I recall any poster pointing out mens faults all the time


No one has exactly claimed women are perfect but they sure as shit get really really really defensive when it's pointed out that women aren't perfect. On the other hand, it's normal everyday discussion to point out how horrible men are for only wanting a fetish delivery system.

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It blows my mind that you think that there are women, bunches of women, who do nothing but bash men all the time.


As mentioned above, it is considered normal discussion to whinge about men only wanting one thing. No one raises an eyebrow, no sensitivity against it. That's how normal and unnoticed it is. Just take a long hard think, all the time you've spent in the forums on this site and dating forums, how many times have you seen women whinge about men only wanting one thing? More than a million times? It's impossible to keep up and keep count. It's so normalised that you don't pay much attention to it. Yet when one thread is made about women going for one thing, OMG how dare you! Gotta larf

That said, speaking of really very constant male bashing, have you visited a feminist forum latey? There are plenty of feminist groups in fetlife.

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Equal pay for equal work?


This has been debunked over and over. I just recently made a thread in the politics forum that totally destroys the feminist argument to this.

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The right not to be judged by looks alone


Why is it okay for women to judge men on looks alone but it's not okay for men to judge women on looks alone? Why are so many women these days, particularly feminists, bloody hypocrites? Not only that, a man gets attacked for pointing out that women do this while you lot wouldn't find it appropriate to attack a woman who points out that men do this.

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Men, for better or worse, have the advantage in any modern society.


Women, for better or worse, have the advantage in any modern society as there is always an empathy gap in anything both genders face. There is always special assistance for women that men don't get. It's women who are privileged. You need to stop seeing it with only one eye open.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MKJ8x9ut1hU

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The fact that feminism exists at all proves that there is an imbalance between women and men.


That doesn't prove anything. I could make the same dumb stance with the men's rights movement.

Feminists exist these days because they are delusional whinebags that hate men.

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If there wasn't, the whole idea of feminism would be redundant, unnecessary.


It already is. The fanny firsters don't see it that way though. In the western world, what rights do men have that women don't?

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sure, just as there are some women who don't go far enough, but in general most women are in the middle of these two extremes, so really you are railing at the very small number of women on the end of the curve. Kind of a waste of time really.


Did you see how many showed up in the women's march and the complete nuttiness that came with it? Like the reputation of the women behind it and them all cheering at Madonna wanting to blow up the white house?

Gotta larf

LisaSadistic


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Breaking News: Scientists just discovered that attractive young women are more attracted to hot guys than not so hot guys. Minds are boggled.


In other breaking news, men already knew and don't care. Feminists still whinge about women being objectified though and how we should have fat acceptance. Feminists in Germany even tried or have banned hot women from TV commercials.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uOetVDqjwVM


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So basically, you're mad because you don't look like him.


No, basically, I'm laughing at these bitches for being stupid hypocrites. Likely these same women would reject and/or lecture not so hot guys if they happened to do the same approach. Not so hot guys get told that's not how to treat a woman while super hot guys get given a pass. The fact of the matter is that women can be pigs that only go for looks too. Does the truth annoy you? Suck it up. Feminists are always busy ranting about how bad men are and making out women are innocent victims. Just like how feminists only seem to have a problem with objectification against women.

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I was thinking the same thing about cherry picking. I dare him to send me a message like that and see what kind of response he gets. There's no way that *nobody* told him off or ignored him, I don't care what he looks like. I would have been like should I call your mom or is there a boy band missing a member?


As I have pointed out and you totally missed because you're dumb, not all women do this, just as not all men are only after one thing which women endlessly complain about on every fucking site. But of course, how dare men make a thread and point out that women are guilty too. The complaint is only allowed against men.

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RE: Social experiment on Tinder. It's only men who are ... - 3/11/2017 12:41:11 PM   
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You weren't even the last person to comment before me, so I don't know why it thinks I was replying to you. Sorry.

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RE: Social experiment on Tinder. It's only men who are ... - 3/11/2017 12:42:14 PM   
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Now I'm replying to myself. Lol. Terrible format here. A horrible website all around.

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