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johnsk -> Bunch of newbies on CS ?? (3/14/2017 1:20:56 PM)

Whole bunch of young girls, ages 19 to about 23, different names, all list their weight as about 60 to 63 pounds...really? Unless they are severe anorexics, seems quite unlikely to me. More likely a young lady or two who crave attention. I doubt they are real. Not too many young adult women weigh 60 pounds.




MissKatya -> RE: Bunch of newbies on CS ?? (3/14/2017 1:28:17 PM)


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ORIGINAL: johnsk

Whole bunch of young girls, ages 19 to about 23, different names, all list their weight as about 60 to 63 pounds...really? Unless they are severe anorexics, seems quite unlikely to me. More likely a young lady or two who crave attention. I doubt they are real. Not too many young adult women weigh 60 pounds.


So don't message them. Problem solved.




needlesandpins -> RE: Bunch of newbies on CS ?? (3/14/2017 1:31:17 PM)

Actually you also get a lot of men that get this incorrect too, and all it boils down to is that they get lbs and kilos confused, as well as the fact that they have no idea what they weigh. Or they are just putting in a random number because weight is a number that is very much used against women as a tool to beat the shit out of them with. Have you not learned anything from watching the abuse that Respectmen hurls about at us all because it's so much easier than acting like a grown up?

If you were actually a female you'd realize that no matter what weight we have been, are, or ever stand to be, there is always going to be some weak ass twatwaffle that doesn't get their own way, and so instantly resorts to body shaming when they don't get their own ways.

Sits back and awaits the storm.

Needles




respectmen -> RE: Bunch of newbies on CS ?? (3/14/2017 2:20:06 PM)

When plenty of women don't get their own way in discussion or with men in gerenal, the you can't get laid tactic gets thrown about which needles is very guilty of because that's so much easier than acting like a grown up. You live in your mum's basement is another one.

Men get shamed with such childishness all the time whenever they dont have a female point of view.




stef -> RE: Bunch of newbies on CS ?? (3/14/2017 2:25:19 PM)


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ORIGINAL: johnsk

Whole bunch of young girls, ages 19 to about 23, different names, all list their weight as about 60 to 63 pounds...really? Unless they are severe anorexics, seems quite unlikely to me. More likely a young lady or two who crave attention. I doubt they are real. Not too many young adult women weigh 60 pounds.

What does this have to do with BDSM?




needlesandpins -> RE: Bunch of newbies on CS ?? (3/14/2017 3:35:45 PM)


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ORIGINAL: respectmen

When plenty of women don't get their own way in discussion or with men in gerenal, the you can't get laid tactic gets thrown about which needles is very guilty of because that's so much easier than acting like a grown up. You live in your mum's basement is another one.

Men get shamed with such childishness all the time whenever they dont have a female point of view.


Oh stop with the fucked up victim play, and the lies. I didn't say you couldn't get laid, I asked if you weren't getting any, there's a difference, so stop being a drama queen and twisting my words, because generally men that are getting laid don't bitch about women as much as you do, and they certainly don't act as weak as you and go for the body shaming like you do.

The fact that you even have to turn this thread in to just how bad women are to men shows what a narcissist you are. It seems to slip your mind that men use the 'You live in your Mum's basement' just as much, if not more than women, and when women do use it it's because men have behaved in a manner that deserves it first. Usually in the body shaming ass hat way you usually are, and no doubt will be in reply to this post, just to prove my very point, because you just can not help yourself. Something that always totally seems to slip your attention every time I tell that's exactly what you're going to do.

Needles




longwayhome -> RE: Bunch of newbies on CS ?? (3/14/2017 9:58:32 PM)


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ORIGINAL: needlesandpins

Actually you also get a lot of men that get this incorrect too, and all it boils down to is that they get lbs and kilos confused, as well as the fact that they have no idea what they weigh. Or they are just putting in a random number because weight is a number that is very much used against women as a tool to beat the shit out of them with. Have you not learned anything from watching the abuse that Respectmen hurls about at us all because it's so much easier than acting like a grown up?

If you were actually a female you'd realize that no matter what weight we have been, are, or ever stand to be, there is always going to be some weak ass twatwaffle that doesn't get their own way, and so instantly resorts to body shaming when they don't get their own ways.

Sits back and awaits the storm.

Needles


I have to admit, I still struggle with my 14x table because, as a Brit, I only really understand stones.

60-63kg is just under 10 stone which is a perfectly normal weight for a woman - a bit higher or lower than average (no judgement intended) depending on height.

It has to be said though that calculating and filling weights incorrectly also sometimes goes along with other warning signs that a profile is fake.

I'm not randomly approaching local women for play or romantic purposes so it's no biggie for me but the "don't message them - problem solved" post gets my thumbs up.




longwayhome -> RE: Bunch of newbies on CS ?? (3/14/2017 10:05:57 PM)


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ORIGINAL: respectmen

When plenty of women don't get their own way in discussion or with men in gerenal, the you can't get laid tactic gets thrown about which needles is very guilty of because that's so much easier than acting like a grown up. You live in your mum's basement is another one.

Men get shamed with such childishness all the time whenever they dont have a female point of view.


Hey mate,

A guy who regularly comments all the time about how "fat" or "disgusting" fellow posters are shouldn't really be getting into a argument about this.

In making personally offensive comments about others, you kinda lose the right to complain when people hit back at you.

You play the game, you take the knocks.




OsideGirl -> RE: Bunch of newbies on CS ?? (3/14/2017 11:04:38 PM)

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ORIGINAL: longwayhome




60-63kg is just under 10 stone which is a perfectly normal weight for a woman - a bit higher or lower than average (no judgement intended) depending on height.



Yup, 2.2lbs per kilogram, so in the 130lb range and a lot of people confuse that on this site. If they say that they're in the U.S. it's a red flag.

My personal favorite was a profile with a photo of a blonde haired, blue eyed woman that had the ethnicity as Native American and a weight of 60lbs.




respectmen -> RE: Bunch of newbies on CS ?? (3/15/2017 2:17:07 AM)

needlesandpins

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I didn't say you couldn't get laid, I asked if you weren't getting any, there's a difference, so stop being a drama queen


Rubbish. That is pretty much the same thing. You're assuming I can't get laid as a shaming tactic.

I'm trying to find that post to quote it but I can't. I know exactly what it implied. You're just being intellectually dishonest now to cover your arse.

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because generally men that are getting laid don't bitch about women as much as you do


^ that proves my point.

How is that any better than fat shaming? It's equally as childish.

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and they certainly don't act as weak as you and go for the body shaming like you do.


I guess all women are "weak" when they whinge about men only wanting a fetish delivery system. Oh wait, double standards laughs. Yes, I'm forgetting, It's only weak, pathetic, and all the other shaming crap when men complain. How can I be so wrong!

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The fact that you even have to turn this thread in to just how bad women are to men shows what a narcissist you are.


Holy fucking hypocrisy batman!

Guess what post number 3 from you is about? Here's a trip back to memory lane...

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Or they are just putting in a random number because weight is a number that is very much used against women as a tool to beat the shit out of them with.


How bad men are to women? Bingo! That must make you are narcissist too? Oh wait, double standards laughs. Yes, I'm forgetting, It's only narcissistic when men complain. How can I be so wrong!

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It seems to slip your mind that men use the 'You live in your mum's basement' just as much, if not more than women


I agree that men are probably just as guilty but not more guilty. That's because men are more likely compared to women to stick up for the opposite gender. There are a fuck load more male feminists than there are men's rights activists. There are a fuck load more men who are neither and prefer to defend women and not their own gender compared to the opposite. It's the age old gynocentric empathy gap at work. Men aren't really big bad oppressors after all when they would do more for women than they would for their own gender.

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and when women do use it it's because men have behaved in a manner that deserves it first


Which is childish within it's self as you are basically shaming a man by making up silly stories about who he lives with simply because he disagrees with the said women. Do you call that mature? That's totally child like.

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Usually in the body shaming ass hat way you usually are, and no doubt will be in reply to this post, just to prove my very point, because you just can not help yourself. Something that always totally seems to slip your attention every time I tell that's exactly what you're going to do.


Just like many others can't help themselves to shame a male in any possible way that reflects on him being undesirable one way or the other simply because he criticises women or feminism.

Oh I nearly forgot to body shame you, fatty foo foo.

longwayhome

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A guy who regularly comments all the time about how "fat" or "disgusting" fellow posters are shouldn't really be getting into a argument about this.


Let me tell you something that will make you think back and realise. I've noticed you've been around these forums for quite some time.

So from saying this, have you noticed the past month or longer, I've being more talkative than usual? Before then, it was rare to see me reply to anyone. I still don't bother with plenty. It depends on my mood when I have free time.

There is a reason for this. Before I had a huge work load to deal with in my job. But as of late, the past month or longer, things have slowed down a lot. Therefore, I have more time to twiddle my thumbs but not really that much more time.

This comes to my point, for the past 12 months or longer, do you remember I used to create threads and most people did nothing but hurl insults at me and I said absolutely nothing back at all? I just laughed it off and went on with my busy schedule. I have taken so much and never said nothing back for a very long time. Now when I'm finally getting nasty like people are to me, you people cry foul. Pathetic!

So actually, MATE, it's the other way around. Just recently with me and needles, I never insulted needles until she started the "you aren't getting laid" card. Before then, there was no history of us insulting each other that I can recall. So she actually made the first insult which you are all fine with of course but when I make an insult back, oh shock!

Let's put it this way, it's 100 percent socially acceptable to use any shaming tactic against a male with something that deems males undesirable to women. Such as small penis, being short, baldness, lives with mummy, loser who can't get laid.

Yet, if we start insulting women about "female undesirability" there is never a shortage of people who will come to support the woman and forbid the male for doing so. There is no one to be seen to support the male and forbid the person who insults men for "male undesirability".

This forum alone is living proof.




stef -> RE: Bunch of newbies on CS ?? (3/15/2017 11:58:08 AM)


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ORIGINAL: respectmen

Before I had a huge work load to deal with in my job. But as of late, the past month or longer, things have slowed down a lot. Therefore, I have more time to twiddle my thumbs but not really that much more time.

It's a shame that you're not using your newfound time bounty more productively. Have you considered actually working towards changing things you see as inequities rather than endlessly crying about your imagined victimhood in a BDSM forum where it serves no purpose whatsoever other than increasing the revenue for facial tissue companies?




longwayhome -> RE: Bunch of newbies on CS ?? (3/15/2017 1:24:52 PM)


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ORIGINAL: respectmen

longwayhome

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A guy who regularly comments all the time about how "fat" or "disgusting" fellow posters are shouldn't really be getting into a argument about this.


Let me tell you something that will make you think back and realise. I've noticed you've been around these forums for quite some time.

So from saying this, have you noticed the past month or longer, I've being more talkative than usual? Before then, it was rare to see me reply to anyone. I still don't bother with plenty. It depends on my mood when I have free time.

There is a reason for this. Before I had a huge work load to deal with in my job. But as of late, the past month or longer, things have slowed down a lot. Therefore, I have more time to twiddle my thumbs but not really that much more time.

This comes to my point, for the past 12 months or longer, do you remember I used to create threads and most people did nothing but hurl insults at me and I said absolutely nothing back at all? I just laughed it off and went on with my busy schedule. I have taken so much and never said nothing back for a very long time. Now when I'm finally getting nasty like people are to me, you people cry foul. Pathetic!

So actually, MATE, it's the other way around. Just recently with me and needles, I never insulted needles until she started the "you aren't getting laid" card. Before then, there was no history of us insulting each other that I can recall. So she actually made the first insult which you are all fine with of course but when I make an insult back, oh shock!

Let's put it this way, it's 100 percent socially acceptable to use any shaming tactic against a male with something that deems males undesirable to women. Such as small penis, being short, baldness, lives with mummy, loser who can't get laid.

Yet, if we start insulting women about "female undesirability" there is never a shortage of people who will come to support the woman and forbid the male for doing so. There is no one to be seen to support the male and forbid the person who insults men for "male undesirability".

This forum alone is living proof.



Would you describe how you were previously as "laughing it off"?

Fair enough if that's what you think. You always seemed quite serious and thin-skinned to me as you went about your business of blaming and demeaning women, and attacking men for being gender traitors but, given that I was on the wrong side of your anger, maybe I read that wrong.

Other people's behaviour of course doesn't justify the number of downright unpleasant insults you have been using towards others.

Maybe if you refrained from that behaviour yourself, the unpleasantness you say is unsolicited would be more obvious to pin on the other posters. You throw insults around and then claim that you are being victimised as an individual and as a white man.

I'm very sorry but the chicken and egg here just isn't as clear as you say it is. From someone else's point of view, it looks a bit like reaping what you sow.




needlesandpins -> RE: Bunch of newbies on CS ?? (3/15/2017 1:41:12 PM)


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ORIGINAL: longwayhome


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ORIGINAL: respectmen

longwayhome

quote:

A guy who regularly comments all the time about how "fat" or "disgusting" fellow posters are shouldn't really be getting into a argument about this.


Let me tell you something that will make you think back and realise. I've noticed you've been around these forums for quite some time.

So from saying this, have you noticed the past month or longer, I've being more talkative than usual? Before then, it was rare to see me reply to anyone. I still don't bother with plenty. It depends on my mood when I have free time.

There is a reason for this. Before I had a huge work load to deal with in my job. But as of late, the past month or longer, things have slowed down a lot. Therefore, I have more time to twiddle my thumbs but not really that much more time.

This comes to my point, for the past 12 months or longer, do you remember I used to create threads and most people did nothing but hurl insults at me and I said absolutely nothing back at all? I just laughed it off and went on with my busy schedule. I have taken so much and never said nothing back for a very long time. Now when I'm finally getting nasty like people are to me, you people cry foul. Pathetic!

So actually, MATE, it's the other way around. Just recently with me and needles, I never insulted needles until she started the "you aren't getting laid" card. Before then, there was no history of us insulting each other that I can recall. So she actually made the first insult which you are all fine with of course but when I make an insult back, oh shock!

Let's put it this way, it's 100 percent socially acceptable to use any shaming tactic against a male with something that deems males undesirable to women. Such as small penis, being short, baldness, lives with mummy, loser who can't get laid.

Yet, if we start insulting women about "female undesirability" there is never a shortage of people who will come to support the woman and forbid the male for doing so. There is no one to be seen to support the male and forbid the person who insults men for "male undesirability".

This forum alone is living proof.



Would you describe how you were previously as "laughing it off"?

Fair enough if that's what you think. You always seemed quite serious and thin-skinned to me as you went about your business of blaming and demeaning women, and attacking men for being gender traitors but, given that I was on the wrong side of your anger, maybe I read that wrong.

Other people's behaviour of course doesn't justify the number of downright unpleasant insults you have been using towards others.

Maybe if you refrained from that behaviour yourself, the unpleasantness you say is unsolicited would be more obvious to pin on the other posters. You throw insults around and then claim that you are being victimised as an individual and as a white man.

I'm very sorry but the chicken and egg here just isn't as clear as you say it is. From someone else's point of view, it looks a bit like reaping what you sow.



Yes, reaping what you sow. I will freely admit to my first exchange being to actually call him weak, and spineless for attacking, and body shaming two of our female members, and for calling him out on self confessing to joining and deliberate trolling of larger women's groups. This gained me a barrage of body shaming insults for myself.

The whole 'She started it' crap is pathetic, and never does he take any self responsibility for being called out on his own actions in the first place.

The drama is strong in this one [8|]

Needles




respectmen -> RE: Bunch of newbies on CS ?? (3/15/2017 2:11:19 PM)

You people have no problem when any insult under the sun is directed at me but then get all butt hurt when I insult others.

You lot truly are utterly pathetic hypocrites. I really have no problem with others insulting me. Its a random internet forum for fucks sake. Ehy should I care?

When I point out the hypocrisy when people get all cranky when I direct insults at others, they turn and say how dare I point out that their insults are wrong too...even that its okay for them to point put my insults are wrong.

The hypocrisy never ends. [:D]




respectmen -> RE: Bunch of newbies on CS ?? (3/15/2017 2:14:02 PM)

You people truly beleieve its perfectly okay to insult me or any male in general. Women on this site pretty much get given a pass for any abusive insulting behaviour against any man. Yet when a man does it to a woman....SWARM!




NotFiftyShades -> RE: Bunch of newbies on CS ?? (3/15/2017 2:21:24 PM)

Women get a free pass because they rule the world.
They have half the money and ALL the pussy.




respectmen -> RE: Bunch of newbies on CS ?? (3/15/2017 2:23:00 PM)

And they own nearly every gender privilege that exist. In the western world that is.




Baldrick -> RE: Bunch of newbies on CS ?? (3/15/2017 2:28:28 PM)

The women here have never insulted me..... must say something about you as a person




payingoinker -> RE: Bunch of newbies on CS ?? (3/15/2017 3:37:40 PM)

If you feel good about yourself then nobody can make you feel shamed. If people can make you feel bad calling you fat then its your own self you have to blame. One way you are a helpless victim..." oh that big bad man said I am a fat tub of lard, I'm going to be sad and upset and rant all over the internet". Or..." so who f'in cares what you think dickhead, I'm happy just the way I am". See the difference? You get the decide how you react. Either as a victim or in control.




needlesandpins -> RE: Bunch of newbies on CS ?? (3/15/2017 4:02:54 PM)

I don't give a shit what he calls me, he's wrong because I'm not fat in the first instance, and I'd actually have to care about his opinion for it to count as an insult towards me.

However, here's the issue with what you've written, you've passed the responsibility of his cuntish actions on to other people. Not everyone is strong enough to just shrug off that kind of shit. People with low self esteem actually kill themselves over this kind of behaviour. It's called bullying. He deliberately targets women of a certain size, joins groups just to troll them. WTF shouldn't he be called out for that sort of behaviour, held accountable, and why the fuck should any of us stand by and let him do it? If someone was to get upset because of his foul mouth, and vile soul how is that their fault, and not his? Millions of people around the world have body image issues, it is not fair to basically say they are the only ones responsible for the shit getting thrown at them.

He's an adult, not a damn child. It's about time he realised that there are boundaries you do not cross. Body shaming is one of them. It's as bad as being racist, or disability shaming, and then turning around and blaming the victim for being upset.

Fuck that, totally!

Needles





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